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Hey guys so for my birthday my wife bought me a eldar phantom titan and a reaver titan. After nearly two months of not showing up I am thinking of opening a case for a refund. But I am feeling guilty to do so since I do not want to get a refund only to get the items a couple weeks down the road. At the same time it is 900$ and the wife said I am not allowed to make any more orders til I get these. So i am going threw like withdraw.

So whats the feeling from a apathy point a view. I have been known to be overly nice about most things. Should I feel guilty? Oh I messeaged him 9+ times in the last several weeks and he responds with just wait longer. The tracking he gave me ends at his country and said left there at the 16.

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From FW?

if so you should just call them. they should sort it out real quick.

anywhere else then you might be in trouble.

 Unit1126PLL wrote:
 Scott-S6 wrote:
And yet another thread is hijacked for Unit to ask for the same advice, receive the same answers and make the same excuses.

Oh my god I'm becoming martel.
Send help!

 
   
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Non- FW models done through paypal. It happened before after 3 months said non recieved item claim and got the money back in 4 days. But I felt guilty as hell.

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Oh then good luck friend.

you really shouldn't be guitly about it.

just ask for a refund and move on with your life.

 Unit1126PLL wrote:
 Scott-S6 wrote:
And yet another thread is hijacked for Unit to ask for the same advice, receive the same answers and make the same excuses.

Oh my god I'm becoming martel.
Send help!

 
   
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Was the order with FW direct as by my calculations that value isn't even half of what it should be.

If it was through FW then drop them an Email, people moan about GW but their customer service when things go wrong is amazing.

If they are recasts then who knows.


 
   
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Oh it not a worry about getting the models, I will get them or my money back no biggie. Whats bothering me is the idea of the guy lossing the money for the item and the item itself. I just want what I bought and thats that... I feel bad he may lose my money and say 200+ for the item.

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Devon, UK

On an order that size, after a relatively short period of time by the standard of these things, I'd prepare to be blacklisted.

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Why should you feel guilty? If you've paid for something but not received it within a reasonable time frame or you have not been kept informed as to the reasons for the delay, of course you should cancel the order and claim your money back.

If the item arrives afterwards and you feel guilty, contact them and offer to arrange to return the item if they pay for the postage.
   
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Your wife bought you $900 of warhammer models??

Get your money back and get her a diamond, pronto.
   
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 JimOnMars wrote:
Your wife bought you $900 of warhammer models??

Get your money back and get her a diamond, pronto.


just make sure its not a recast

 Unit1126PLL wrote:
 Scott-S6 wrote:
And yet another thread is hijacked for Unit to ask for the same advice, receive the same answers and make the same excuses.

Oh my god I'm becoming martel.
Send help!

 
   
Made in ca
Longtime Dakkanaut





I guess I give him 2 More weeks to get the item to me before I make the claim. Just feel bad for the dude.

On the get her a diamond note she has way to many lol. Since the time I was with her she has gotten a ring or ncklance every b-day and christmass for the last 14 or so years. At this point she is more mr. T lol.


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 Azreal13 wrote:
On an order that size, after a relatively short period of time by the standard of these things, I'd prepare to be blacklisted.
well i did order it in feb on the 14.

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Devon, UK

Oh, February. "Left there at the 16" led me to believe you meant of April.

Yeah, that's probably dropped into a hole.

Although given the likely size of the parcel, it isn't impossible that customs have picked it up. Especially if the declared value is ludicrously small in relation to the size of the package.



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Contact the seller and depending on the response go from there. Just don't wait too long lest your refund window close. IF you decide to get a refund and the item arrives later you can always resend the money.
   
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Yeah, get the refund while you still can. If the seller didn't ship a thousand dollars worth of product through tracked and insured shipping, it's his fault. If the item ever does turn up you can always send him back his cash.
   
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cornwall

Get a refund . If they turn up paypal the seller or return them to him .if they dont turn up then the seller needs to go through his insurance .

Nothing to feel guilty about
   
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Get a refund and don't feel guilty at all about it. Unless the seller is an idiot they insured the package and will get a refund of their own, and if they're too stupid to buy insurance then they have only themselves to blame.

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Wait, it was a $900 purchase with no shipping info or tracking? What was the seller thinking?

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It's surprising to me that I'm the only one who's apparently picked up on the fact that the seller seems to be Chinese?

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 Azreal13 wrote:
It's surprising to me that I'm the only one who's apparently picked up on the fact that the seller seems to be Chinese?


It's pretty obvious, yes.

I'm a big fan of China but I don't do over $150 at a time.

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 Azreal13 wrote:
It's surprising to me that I'm the only one who's apparently picked up on the fact that the seller seems to be Chinese?
I'm pretty sure most of us noticed either China and/or eBay.

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 Bookwrack wrote:
Wait, it was a $900 purchase with no shipping info or tracking? What was the seller thinking?


You mean, what was the buyer thinking.
   
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Also, we are giving advice to a recast buyer. Does this violate Dakka's TOS?
   
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Thx for the info guys, I asked for a refund and got it. If they show up I just pay him then. But I gave him my phone number ect so he can get the insurance.

Btw they are not china, you just need to know some people.

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Glad you got the refund! At the same time, I really hope it shows up too. That's a hell of a deal.
   
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Let us know if they do show up or any other news regarding this issue.
   
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 Lord Scythican wrote:
Let us know if they do show up or any other news regarding this issue.
no problem but it is not looking good almost 4 months lol.

Side question what happens if paypal recieves a complaint and the seller/ buyer doesnt respond autowin? I am asking because I just ordered a replacement titan from him. I know it sounds crazy but he did pan out dozens if not more times.

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cornwall

Wait ! You ordered from the recaster again after he stopped responding about your missing $900 ?????

I've got a bridge i can sell you ???
   
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 CURNOW wrote:
Wait ! You ordered from the recaster again after he stopped responding about your missing $900 ?????

I've got a bridge i can sell you ???
his english is not..... The best..... To say the least.

I bought from him dozens of times, he sends a tracking number and that within a day or two. But getting follow up info on anything is a pain in the ass.

The problem is as soon as it lives his country the tracking disappears. He offers fedex for 10% of order total or free shipping. I really wanted to keep it under a grand but...... I should of spent the extra 90$. He is a good honest guy but like I said he has to get a traslator and everything so he does not respond regularly more like 1 a month at best.

Btw he is ...was an exchange student I went to school with 12 or so years ago, from ukrain... So hell russia might of shot down the plane with my parcel. I am not sure if they are recasts or not most come in forgeworld bags, he said something about exchange rates making things cheaper he can sell at like half and get money still or something like that.

Something like he gets all his payments in usd and then waits til his dollar drops then exchanges and buys more then when his dollar changes he sells. Somehing like that. The mofo is rich so I believe him lol.

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Ah so he's "Russia" rather than "China." Pedantry is alive and well on Dakka!

Does explain why you seem to have paid over the odds for recasts...

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The wise man doubts often, and changes his mind; the fool is obstinate, and doubts not; he knows all things but his own ignorance.

The correct statement of individual rights is that everyone has the right to an opinion, but crucially, that opinion can be roundly ignored and even made fun of, particularly if it is demonstrably nonsense!” Professor Brian Cox

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