Is this girl worth it?

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**Amaya**

rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

**bombboy1252**

Slarg232 wrote:Trust me when I say this; Nothing you do during High School will matter down the road.

/thread

Really, you're in highschool, have some fun and not worry about what friends/girls...after I left highschool I only talk to 1 of my friends...well 2 but I only talk to him on Xbox live...

**Nerivant**

Agreed. There aren't many times when you get to say, "screw it," play Blackjack with the Captain's dice, and make up some really stupid analogies.

**rubiksnoob**

Bottom line:

Do what you want. Just don't come back and start another I-need-advice-thread in nine months.

**Nerivant**

rubiksnoob wrote:Just don't come back and start another I-need-advice-thread in nine months.

Ba-zing!

He'll be here all week, folks.

**Frazzled**

Melissia wrote:As an aside, shouldn't you also become her friend as well as her girlfriend? I know that probably sounds odd, but it isn't going to end well if you aren't her friend outside of the relationship (at best you'll have an unhappy marriage where you two ignore eachother most of the time).

Wait, what? Why? He's 16. Nothing good is going to come from that.

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Nerivant wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:Just don't come back and start another I-need-advice-thread in nine months.

Ba-zing!

He'll be here all week, folks.

yes that would be bad.

**Slarg232**

Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

**Asherian Command**

Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

**Cheesecat**

Asherian Command wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

Doubt it.

**bombboy1252**

Asherian Command wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

Lets rephrase that question...

any SCHOOL relationship usually doesn't last...

college to a lesser extent...

**Slarg232**

Asherian Command wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

And this other guy is going to this college, too?

**Asherian Command**

Cheesecat wrote:
Asherian Command wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

Doubt it.

Nah its true she's a friend of mine but were not compatiable plus she is kinda of the solo "I will kill you with a sniper rifle" type of girl.

Plus some people get lucky why can't i?

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Slarg232 wrote:
Asherian Command wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

And this other guy is going to this college, too?

nope he's an idiot. Not the OP the other guy that tried to steal my girl.

Anyway thus far i think we have given all possible things to the OP. He needs to make the decision and tells how it went.

**chaos0xomega**

Slarg232 wrote:Trust me when I say this; Nothing you do during High School will matter down the road.

For instance, I was reviled in High School, but the moment I got out into the work force, people loved me. I had to hug the walls in high school, but I was voted Employee of the Month unanomously by everyone there. People avoided me like the plague at High School, and yet I can't seem to get away from anyone at work.

Girls hated me at school, all of them I asked out outright rejected me, or acted like total bitches during/after. I asked this girl out once, and she started this entire campain to call me "Creepy" and "A Total douche", and the kicker was she saw me every day.

In church.....

And she even got her parents to "crusade" against me....

Now, I'm being told I'm a handsome, awesome, "nice peice of ass", all that jazz.

Now, remember; Nothing you do in high school will matter down the road.

Sounds kinda like me hahaha, 'cept I'm still kinda wary of females in general, I enjoy catching them checking me out more than I like actually bothering with them.

**Slarg232**

So, let me get this straight....

You like Girl.
Girl has expressed interest in you.

Correct so far?

You have a mate who has expressed interest in Girl.
You encouraged said Mate to pounce her like a hungry animal.
It has been two months, and he still hasn't made a move.

Again, correct so far?

When you started to chat her up, he got angry.
He got even angrier when you told him he has yet to make a move in two months.
He STILL has not talked to said girl.

Correct?

You are going to College.
She is going to the same College you are going to.

All of this is 100% true?

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chaos0xomega wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:Trust me when I say this; Nothing you do during High School will matter down the road.

For instance, I was reviled in High School, but the moment I got out into the work force, people loved me. I had to hug the walls in high school, but I was voted Employee of the Month unanomously by everyone there. People avoided me like the plague at High School, and yet I can't seem to get away from anyone at work.

Girls hated me at school, all of them I asked out outright rejected me, or acted like total bitches during/after. I asked this girl out once, and she started this entire campain to call me "Creepy" and "A Total douche", and the kicker was she saw me every day.

In church.....

And she even got her parents to "crusade" against me....

Now, I'm being told I'm a handsome, awesome, "nice peice of ass", all that jazz.

Now, remember; Nothing you do in high school will matter down the road.

Sounds kinda like me hahaha, 'cept I'm still kinda wary of females in general, I enjoy catching them checking me out more than I like actually bothering with them.

Oh man, dem wimminz be crazy. I truely do not understand them.

**Cheesecat**

Slarg232 wrote:So, let me get this straight....

You like Girl.
Girl has expressed interest in you.

Correct so far?

You have a mate who has expressed interest in Girl.
You encouraged said Mate to pounce her like a hungry animal.
It has been two months, and he still hasn't made a move.

Again, correct so far?

When you started to chat her up, he got angry.
He got even angrier when you told him he has yet to make a move in two months.
He STILL has not talked to said girl.

Correct?

You are going to College.
She is going to the same College you are going to.

All of this is 100% true?

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chaos0xomega wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:Trust me when I say this; Nothing you do during High School will matter down the road.

For instance, I was reviled in High School, but the moment I got out into the work force, people loved me. I had to hug the walls in high school, but I was voted Employee of the Month unanomously by everyone there. People avoided me like the plague at High School, and yet I can't seem to get away from anyone at work.

Girls hated me at school, all of them I asked out outright rejected me, or acted like total bitches during/after. I asked this girl out once, and she started this entire campain to call me "Creepy" and "A Total douche", and the kicker was she saw me every day.

In church.....

And she even got her parents to "crusade" against me....

Now, I'm being told I'm a handsome, awesome, "nice peice of ass", all that jazz.

Now, remember; Nothing you do in high school will matter down the road.

Sounds kinda like me hahaha, 'cept I'm still kinda wary of females in general, I enjoy catching them checking me out more than I like actually bothering with them.

Oh man, dem wimminz be crazy. I truely do not understand them.

I'm pretty sure women aren't as irrational as some men make them out to be after-all, us males can be hard to understand as well just we aren't hitting on each other like we do with the ladies.

**dogma**

Cheesecat wrote:
I'm pretty sure women aren't as irrational as some men make them out to be after-all, us males can be hard to understand...

Indeed.

Cheesecat wrote:
....as well just we aren't hitting on each other like we do with the ladies.

In my experience hitting anything, whether on or not, doesn't encourage romance.

**Cannerus_The_Unbearable**

dogma wrote:
Cheesecat wrote:
I'm pretty sure women aren't as irrational as some men make them out to be after-all, us males can be hard to understand...

Indeed.

Cheesecat wrote:
....as well just we aren't hitting on each other like we do with the ladies.

In my experience hitting anything, whether on or not, doesn't encourage romance.

You're doing it wrong?

**dogma**

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:
You're doing it wrong?

Emma Stone wrote:
Where am I going to be approached? Walking down the street? I don’t go to a lot of bars. I don’t think men pick up women the way they used to -- with pickup lines in bars and that kind of thing. Most of the guys I know don’t approach women like that anymore. Women figured that out a long time ago. But I do see “the game.” That “insult, compliment, insult, compliment, insult, compliment” game. That’s the new pickup line -- “the game.” And it works.

She's right, though some people might still consider that "hitting".

**Cannerus_The_Unbearable**

dogma wrote:
Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:
You're doing it wrong?

Emma Stone wrote:
Where am I going to be approached? Walking down the street? I don’t go to a lot of bars. I don’t think men pick up women the way they used to -- with pickup lines in bars and that kind of thing. Most of the guys I know don’t approach women like that anymore. Women figured that out a long time ago. But I do see “the game.” That “insult, compliment, insult, compliment, insult, compliment” game. That’s the new pickup line -- “the game.” And it works.

She's right, though some people might still consider that "hitting".

I've had success both ways, honestly. At the bar earlier a couple was trying to pick up me and the mistress through flattery and cheesy anecdotes, though that might not be what we're talking about here. The game really does work though.

**Frazzled**

Asherian Command wrote:
Slarg232 wrote:
Amaya wrote:
rubiksnoob wrote:If you have to ask in a toy soldier forum, the answer is no.

Slarg's post weird. Your post good.

Same exact advice I was given when I was making these threads; High School doesn't matter down the road.

Well except the fact that the girl i like is going to my same school for college and that, it might effect me later on.

Absent,STDs , pregnancy, or that whole stalking charge thing, no it won't.

**Juvieus Kaine**

Uhm guys? You do realise OP replied on pg3 (or was it 4?) and said he was going to give it a go

Just a heads-up.

Course if he was still undecided I would've said give it a go. The friend's taking too long and the moment will leave. Then again I'm not exactly in a position to give advice... I've never had a girlfriend... oh well.

**happygolucky**

Juvieus Kaine wrote:Uhm guys? You do realise OP replied on pg3 (or was it 4?) and said he was going to give it a go Just a heads-up.

Course if he was still undecided I would've said give it a go. The friend's taking too long and the moment will leave. Then again I'm not exactly in a position to give advice... I've never had a girlfriend... oh well.

Same here, just been looking at this thread for advice and I think il start my own thread.

That aside if she goes out with him, congrats you have suceeded.

**kevlar'o**

challenge your friend to a duel, winner takes all.

**Ahtman**

kevlar'o wrote:challenge your friend to a duel, winner takes all.

Finally someone is making sense.

**Asherian Command**

Slarg232 wrote:So, let me get this straight....

You like Girl.
Girl has expressed interest in you.

Correct so far?

You have a mate who has expressed interest in Girl.
You encouraged said Mate to pounce her like a hungry animal.
It has been two months, and he still hasn't made a move.

Again, correct so far?

When you started to chat her up, he got angry.
He got even angrier when you told him he has yet to make a move in two months.
He STILL has not talked to said girl.

Correct?

You are going to College.
She is going to the same College you are going to.

All of this is 100% true?
.

You talking to me? Or the OP?
I was involved a situation similar but i stood back and watched the thing unfold. Which on my part was really dumb.
My situation now is completely different.

**Karon**

These threads make me sad.

Ask here? In a place where we play toy soldiers?

Sense, this does not make.

**halonachos**

Ahtman wrote:
kevlar'o wrote:challenge your friend to a duel, winner takes all.

Finally someone is making sense.

No, he didn't say that OP needed to challenge his friend to a duel involving custard pies, balloon animals, and Yankee Candle Factory brand candles.

**Howard A Treesong**

I hope someone else asks this girl out.

**Asherian Command**

Howard A Treesong wrote:I hope someone else asks this girl out.

I will laugh so hard and i swear i will tell it at dinner party.

**Leon**

I think you should give your friend a chance, and explain what you explained to us to him. You have dated plenty of girls, but he hasn't dated any. Explain that he should talk more and be more 'out going'
hey, you still have plenty of chances, but he only has one shot, otherwise he might forever remain solitary if he fails.