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Hey, Loota Boy did you get the girl? How are things with your buddy?

hit it like a boxer imo

I say OP should do it. His friend won't make the move anyway. If he wouldn't make it the first time, it's not like anything in him will suddenly change to make it work another two months from now. If anything, it might encourage him to man up a little, even if it does make him angry for a while.

The Internet is not the place for this form of advice...

For reals, loota boy. We all need some closure here. What has transpired?

Hey guys, things are lookin' good. I've got the girl, so thats great. My friend is getting pretty anal over it, but i've talked to his only other friend, and he says he thinks he'll be alright. Lets hope so.

loota boy wrote:Hey guys, things are lookin' good. I've got the girl, so thats great. My friend is getting pretty anal over it, but i've talked to his only other friend, and he says he thinks he'll be alright. Lets hope so.

Well, that's good news. Hopefully things heal over with your bud though.

Many years ago when I was the OP's age, I had a friend who liked a girl. I spent all my time trying to hook them up. I failed. The girl, it turned out, really liked me instead, and eventually got frustrated at my apparent denseness and gave up.

My buddy and I are still friends, and both he and I agree that I should have gone for it and I was a wuss for not doing it.

Here is the thing: as long as you are upfront and not cheating, true friendship can survive competition over girls. That, in my opinion, is the true meaning of bros before hoes. But that's just me.

No, the real meaning of "bros before hos" is "I'm secretly homosexual".

halonachos wrote:I'm mainly speaking out of personal experience although I eventually did get the courage to speak up and she thought I was a homosexual so that didn't work out well... at all.

That sounds like a great ending to the "very Special Episode" of some 80's sitcom.

loota boy wrote:Hey guys, things are lookin' good. I've got the girl, so thats great. My friend is getting pretty anal over it, but i've talked to his only other friend, and he says he thinks he'll be alright. Lets hope so.

Nut him



Nah, leave your mate alone for his free space, he'll be fine. It's his fault anyway for being a wuss

freakinspeed wrote:hit it like a boxer imo

I hate my gender.

Melissia wrote:No, the real meaning of "bros before hos" is "I'm secretly homosexual".

You are actually occasionally funny. I am mildly surprised.

Melissia wrote:No, the real meaning of "bros before hos" is "I'm secretly homosexual".

What about "Brethren afore Wenches!"




Glad to see it worked out for ya

Good luck with your new Girlfriend.

Oh and loota boy how did you ask a girl out. Im trying desperately to ask a girl out but she keeps declining Which is very frustrating, so how did you do it?

This seems like the place to tell you guys a story, pull up a chair and listen.

Basically, I went up to this girl and said
"tell me, is your name as beautiful as your face"
turns out she is the girlfriend of someone I know,
AWKWARD.

happygolucky wrote:Good luck with your new Girlfriend.

Oh and loota boy how did you ask a girl out. Im trying desperately to ask a girl out but she keeps declining Which is very frustrating, so how did you do it?

I usually say "Want to hangout sometime?" and ask for there number and give yours as well, If you end up hanging out with the girl on a semi-regular basis (or if she starts asking to hangout) after that, then

she's probably into you, if she's being very flaky she probably doesn't want to have an relationship (except maybe someone to talk to but that's about it) or if she keeps rejecting your first offer then she's

probably trying to avoid you as well.

DukeBadham wrote:This seems like the place to tell you guys a story, pull up a chair and listen.

Basically, I went up to this girl and said
"tell me, is your name as beautiful as your face"
turns out she is the girlfriend of someone I know,
AWKWARD.

Honestly, I doubt having a boyfriend had anything to do with it. Just going up to someone and saying something so cheesy will make anyone feel really awkward. Pickup lines never work. Especially when they're as bad as that one.

What a sad ending to the story. Oh well, the world moves on.

Cheesecat wrote:

happygolucky wrote:Good luck with your new Girlfriend.

Oh and loota boy how did you ask a girl out. Im trying desperately to ask a girl out but she keeps declining Which is very frustrating, so how did you do it?

I usually say "Want to hangout sometime?" and ask for there number and give yours as well, If you end up hanging out with the girl on a semi-regular basis (or if she starts asking to hangout) after that, then

she's probably into you, if she's being very flaky she probably doesn't want to have an relationship (except maybe someone to talk to but that's about it) or if she keeps rejecting your first offer then she's

probably trying to avoid you as well.

How do you mean Flaky...

I think he means


1: giving a lot of 'flak' (Slang for Anti Aircraft fire, can be used as 'bitching' about something to)

2: flakey. (dumb, ditzy, bimbo)


Not for nothing my grade-school name was 'Dictionary'

ineptus astartes wrote:I think he means


1: giving a lot of 'flak' (Slang for Anti Aircraft fire, can be used as 'bitching' about something to)

2: flakey. (dumb, ditzy, bimbo)


Not for nothing my grade-school name was 'Dictionary'

Meant flakey which means unreliable, fickle and/or forgetful. Basically if the girl is forgetting a lot of your arrangements or makes a lot of excuses for why she can't hang with you she probably doesn't want to be

around you, also you will almost always be the one calling or asking her out if she' not into you.

I'm not gonna lie, I didn't read anythign after the original post, but there's a tried and true saying.
Bro's before hoe's!

Different girls will come and go, but you're friends will will stay around for much longer, you don't want to cause any strife in a good friendship.

Thaanos wrote:I'm not gonna lie, I didn't read anythign after the original post, but there's a tried and true saying.
Bro's before hoe's!

Different girls will come and go, but you're friends will will stay around for much longer, you don't want to cause any strife in a good friendship.

Just saying, but melissa has already proved the secret meaning of that phrase, it means your gay

DukeBadham wrote:

Thaanos wrote:I'm not gonna lie, I didn't read anythign after the original post, but there's a tried and true saying.
Bro's before hoe's!

Different girls will come and go, but you're friends will will stay around for much longer, you don't want to cause any strife in a good friendship.

Just saying, but melissa has already proved the secret meaning of that phrase, it means your gay

Melissa proved that she has an opinion, and that opinion is wrong according to my experiences. Also, remember the first rule of this forum.

Necroshea wrote:

DukeBadham wrote:

Thaanos wrote:I'm not gonna lie, I didn't read anythign after the original post, but there's a tried and true saying.
Bro's before hoe's!

Different girls will come and go, but you're friends will will stay around for much longer, you don't want to cause any strife in a good friendship.

Just saying, but melissa has already proved the secret meaning of that phrase, it means your gay

Melissa proved that she has an opinion, and that opinion is wrong according to my experiences. Also, remember the first rule of this forum.

The Melissa is always wrong rule?


(J/K)

Necroshea wrote:Also, remember the first rule of this forum.

I'm right, you're wrong, now feth off?

I'm Sowwy, can you fowgive me pwease.

lets be fweinds

Frazzled wrote:

Necroshea wrote:Also, remember the first rule of this forum.

I'm right, you're wrong, now feth off?

Incorrect!

Rule the first clearly states "I'm right, you're wrong, let's argue!"

Close but not close enough

Necroshea wrote:

Frazzled wrote:

Necroshea wrote:Also, remember the first rule of this forum.

I'm right, you're wrong, now feth off?

Incorrect!

Rule the first clearly states "I'm right, you're wrong, let's argue!"

Close but not close enough

I thought it was "Argue your point, and if you can't, make fun of the other person."

I thought rule one was to be nice to everyone

Can't we all just get along?