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Ahtman wrote:I think you have confused being at work with being at a bar.

What if one's work takes place at a bar?

AvatarForm wrote:

Karon wrote:This thread is hilarious.

She is just messing with you, how does this warrant a thread at all? Its like tickling a girl when you were in highschool; didn't mean anything, you're just fooling around.

She is just trying to be liked in the office.

Wow... already said this and completely glazed over by OP.

Maybe because I have never seen Karon post something worthwhile and once again s/he's completely off base.

daedalus wrote:It sounds like she likes you. Perhaps you should talk to someone a little closer to the situation who knows you (and maybe even her) a bit better than the random intranetz people. Relationships and human interaction are sketchy enough things without throwing the work element into the mix. Personally, I'd just roll with it, feeling good about the fact that chicks are interested in me, but I've got a strict no-work policy. Though where I work does nothing to actively discourage it, it's just too much hassle and god knows this job is complicated enough as is.

Internet Mode:

YOU SHOULD TOTALLY PUNCH HER IN THE FACE WHILE SCREAMING "IT'S OVER 9000!" LOL!!!!11eleven1


Ugh.

I've actually become friends with her older sister who is really cool. She said that her sister probably just likes me at as a friend. /shrug That's probably accurate enough.

On a DBZ note we call one of our bosses Nappa.

Amaya wrote:

AvatarForm wrote:

Karon wrote:This thread is hilarious.

She is just messing with you, how does this warrant a thread at all? Its like tickling a girl when you were in highschool; didn't mean anything, you're just fooling around.

She is just trying to be liked in the office.

Wow... already said this and completely glazed over by OP.

Maybe because I have never seen Karon post something worthwhile and once again s/he's completely off base.

daedalus wrote:It sounds like she likes you. Perhaps you should talk to someone a little closer to the situation who knows you (and maybe even her) a bit better than the random intranetz people. Relationships and human interaction are sketchy enough things without throwing the work element into the mix. Personally, I'd just roll with it, feeling good about the fact that chicks are interested in me, but I've got a strict no-work policy. Though where I work does nothing to actively discourage it, it's just too much hassle and god knows this job is complicated enough as is.

Internet Mode:

YOU SHOULD TOTALLY PUNCH HER IN THE FACE WHILE SCREAMING "IT'S OVER 9000!" LOL!!!!11eleven1


Ugh.

I've actually become friends with her older sister who is really cool. She said that her sister probably just likes me at as a friend. /shrug That's probably accurate enough.

On a DBZ note we call one of our bosses Nappa.

Now that you know her sister, here's your chance to start a threesome.

Just recoil a little too much when it happens; eventually she'll realize it's making you uncomfortable.

Cheesecat wrote:

Amaya wrote:On a DBZ note we call one of our bosses Nappa.

Now that you know her sister, here's your chance to start a threesome.

Not with DBZ references like that.

Amaya are you single at this moment in time or not?

Here's a flowchart for you:


1) Are you single? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 1a.
1a) Are you in an open relationship, or are you a cheater? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 3.

2) Do you want to hit that? If yes, go to 2a. If no, go to 3.
2a) Hit that. Was it good? If yes, go back to 2a. If no, go to 8.

3) Tell her "I'm sorry, but I'm just not comfortable with this. Please don't do it again." If she stops, go to 5. If she continues, go to 3a.
3a) Begin a log detailing when and how the inappropriate contact happened, as well as details of your interactions with 3rd parties about this issue (especially HR). Go to 3b.
3b) Go to HR and report a formal sexual harassment complaint. Did HR fix the problem? If yes, go to 5. If no, go to 4.

4) Hire a lawyer and sue them. Are you now rich? If yes, go to 6. If no, go to 7.

5) Congratulations! You're successfully and properly dealt with the situation. Hopefully, you two can retain a professional level of interactions, but, if not, don't worry. She was crazy anyway.

6) Congratulations! You're now rich! Time to quit your job and live like a king. Perhaps a bit of blow and that girl from work is a good place to start...

7) Well, you've probably lost your job and have nothing to show for it. But, who needs that job anyway? They were a bunch of pricks.

8) You've really screwed things up. There's not much you can do at this point. You'll be faced with some awkward circumstances at work, and expect to hear from HR about a formal reprimand and possible firing.

Grakmar wrote:Here's a flowchart for you:


1) Are you single? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 1a.
1a) Are you in an open relationship, or are you a cheater? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 3.

2) Do you want to hit that? If yes, go to 2a. If no, go to 3.
2a) Hit that. Was it good? If yes, go back to 2a. If no, go to 8.

3) Tell her "I'm sorry, but I'm just not comfortable with this. Please don't do it again." If she stops, go to 5. If she continues, go to 3a.
3a) Begin a log detailing when and how the inappropriate contact happened, as well as details of your interactions with 3rd parties about this issue (especially HR). Go to 3b.
3b) Go to HR and report a formal sexual harassment complaint. Did HR fix the problem? If yes, go to 5. If no, go to 4.

4) Hire a lawyer and sue them. Are you now rich? If yes, go to 6. If no, go to 7.

5) Congratulations! You're successfully and properly dealt with the situation. Hopefully, you two can retain a professional level of interactions, but, if not, don't worry. She was crazy anyway.

6) Congratulations! You're now rich! Time to quit your job and live like a king. Perhaps a bit of blow and that girl from work is a good place to start...

7) Well, you've probably lost your job and have nothing to show for it. But, who needs that job anyway? They were a bunch of pricks.

8) You've really screwed things up. There's not much you can do at this point. You'll be faced with some awkward circumstances at work, and expect to hear from HR about a formal reprimand and possible firing.

What Grakmar said, I think he just finished the thread for us.

Grakmar wrote:Here's a flowchart for you:


1) Are you single? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 1a.
1a) Are you in an open relationship, or are you a cheater? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 3.

2) Do you want to hit that? If yes, go to 2a. If no, go to 3.
2a) Hit that. Was it good? If yes, go back to 2a. If no, go to 8.

3) Tell her "I'm sorry, but I'm just not comfortable with this. Please don't do it again." If she stops, go to 5. If she continues, go to 3a.
3a) Begin a log detailing when and how the inappropriate contact happened, as well as details of your interactions with 3rd parties about this issue (especially HR). Go to 3b.
3b) Go to HR and report a formal sexual harassment complaint. Did HR fix the problem? If yes, go to 5. If no, go to 4.

4) Hire a lawyer and sue them. Are you now rich? If yes, go to 6. If no, go to 7.

5) Congratulations! You're successfully and properly dealt with the situation. Hopefully, you two can retain a professional level of interactions, but, if not, don't worry. She was crazy anyway.

6) Congratulations! You're now rich! Time to quit your job and live like a king. Perhaps a bit of blow and that girl from work is a good place to start...

7) Well, you've probably lost your job and have nothing to show for it. But, who needs that job anyway? They were a bunch of pricks.

8) You've really screwed things up. There's not much you can do at this point. You'll be faced with some awkward circumstances at work, and expect to hear from HR about a formal reprimand and possible firing.

Heh.

Anyways, it's still kinda awkward.

The way I see it I have three choices.

1) Pursue it.
-The Good - It could work out.
-The Bad - It could not work out.
-The Ugly - It could make working there very awkward.
2) Ignore her.
-The Good - Job security.
-The Bad - No lovin' for me.
-The Ugly - It could have been something special. lulz
3) Wait for her to do something.
-The Good - I've got chicks chasing me.
-The Bad - If she actually is interested, I don't think she has the nerve to do anything.
-The Ugly - Can't think of one.

Time to roll a D3!

Grakmar wrote:Here's a flowchart for you:


1) Are you single? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 1a.
1a) Are you in an open relationship, or are you a cheater? If yes, go to 2. If no, go to 3.

2) Do you want to hit that? If yes, go to 2a. If no, go to 3.
2a) Hit that. Was it good? If yes, go back to 2a. If no, go to 8.

3) Tell her "I'm sorry, but I'm just not comfortable with this. Please don't do it again." If she stops, go to 5. If she continues, go to 3a.
3a) Begin a log detailing when and how the inappropriate contact happened, as well as details of your interactions with 3rd parties about this issue (especially HR). Go to 3b.
3b) Go to HR and report a formal sexual harassment complaint. Did HR fix the problem? If yes, go to 5. If no, go to 4.

4) Hire a lawyer and sue them. Are you now rich? If yes, go to 6. If no, go to 7.

5) Congratulations! You're successfully and properly dealt with the situation. Hopefully, you two can retain a professional level of interactions, but, if not, don't worry. She was crazy anyway.

6) Congratulations! You're now rich! Time to quit your job and live like a king. Perhaps a bit of blow and that girl from work is a good place to start...

7) Well, you've probably lost your job and have nothing to show for it. But, who needs that job anyway? They were a bunch of pricks.

8) You've really screwed things up. There's not much you can do at this point. You'll be faced with some awkward circumstances at work, and expect to hear from HR about a formal reprimand and possible firing.

Wow. I wish I could flowchart decision-making like this.

Don't say you are gay unless you want to go shopping at the mall with her.

Life is too short for flow charts
and ironing

Next time she hits you, jump straight up and shout "Come at me bro!" The look of confusion will be worth it.

Or, she'll come at you and the story from that will be worth it.

Either way.

Gitkikka wrote:Next time she hits you, jump straight up and shout "Come at me bro!" The look of confusion will be worth it.

Or, she'll come at you and the story from that will be worth it.

Either way.

That is too epic not to do!

Chibi Bodge-Battle wrote:Don't say you are gay unless you want to go shopping at the mall with her.

Life is too short for flow charts
and ironing

One of the guys at work actually did that It was confusing when he came in with his girlfriend later.

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:

Chibi Bodge-Battle wrote:Don't say you are gay unless you want to go shopping at the mall with her.

Life is too short for flow charts
and ironing

One of the guys at work actually did that It was confusing when he came in with his girlfriend later.

Did she become his girlfriend due to the result of the chart?

Anyway, do please let us know how you get on!

Kilkrazy wrote:Anyway, do please let us know how you get on!

I work with her again in a couple of days. We'll see what happens. I don't know if I mentioned earlier, but she friended on me Facebook. I've communicated her with a little bit since then trying to form a better picture of who she is.

Amaya wrote:

Kilkrazy wrote:Anyway, do please let us know how you get on!

I work with her again in a couple of days. We'll see what happens. I don't know if I mentioned earlier, but she friended on me Facebook. I've communicated her with a little bit since then trying to form a better picture of who she is.

Thats not smart. Its excellent evidence her lawyer can use in the future.

Frazzled wrote:

Amaya wrote:

Kilkrazy wrote:Anyway, do please let us know how you get on!

I work with her again in a couple of days. We'll see what happens. I don't know if I mentioned earlier, but she friended on me Facebook. I've communicated her with a little bit since then trying to form a better picture of who she is.

Thats not smart. Its excellent evidence her lawyer can use in the future.

The apocolypse is coming... Im beginning to agree with you more often!

Frazzled do you live in a very dark world?

Amaya wrote:Frazzled do you live in a very dark world?

Yes, its called the Real World. Hands off! Its all mine buahahaha!

Amaya wrote:

Kilkrazy wrote:Anyway, do please let us know how you get on!

I work with her again in a couple of days. We'll see what happens. I don't know if I mentioned earlier, but she friended on me Facebook. I've communicated her with a little bit since then trying to form a better picture of who she is.

Has she seemed eager to ask you alot of questions about yourself?

She's asked some questions, I don't know how eager she is to...

@Frazzled, you're right in a way. I should only talk to her in person.

Slash her tires, then when she asks you why you did it, tell her you don't know.

Just man up and tell her to please stop touching you during work hours, it makes you feel uncomfortable. Don't go to HR. Just deal with her first, like adults. Only if she persists should you go to HR and tell them.

Gitkikka wrote:Next time she hits you, jump straight up and shout "Come at me bro!" The look of confusion will be worth it.

You, sir, are my hero.

Why is your misguided and evil advice so tempting?

If you have a high enough intimidate skill you can choose the option to punch her in the face.

Touch her shoulder.


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In reality, she's probably flirting with you and likes you.

Not one to be left out apparently, a chick at work wants my balls. Issue being, she has a boyfriend. Each day the physical contact has increased, and I've told her one or two of my stories and she's super into it. Does it make me a horrible person (I'll settle for bad) if I A) do her, knowing she has a boyfriend or B) let her know that I know she has a boyfriend but I'll still play along if she wants first, then do her (basically give a disclaimer)? Id gladly be the third but I don't think the guy would be into it.

You scare me Cannerus.

Dear god, you are asking these people for advice?