There are a group of us who play further south, but definitely more beer/pretzels style. I'm about an hour south (
St Charles), so when we hold bbq's during the summer, it's a reasonable drive, but our league is probably a bit far.
I ran the Gentlemen's at Adepticon, and am running the Narrative Friendly and Team Friendly at Dragonfall in October. I may run a formal Friendly Gentlemen Style late July, depending on work, but there will be informal ones regardless.
Some of us (like me) are fine with a harder ITC style game, as long as we know that's what you want in advance (no one likes bringing a knife to a gunfight).
Gentlemen is just what it sounds like - talk to your opponent ahead of time, and make sure you are both bringing a list that the other can live with, so both folks have a good game. If folks drink, enjoy yourselves. If someone is getting too serious, remember that most folks could be working/dealing with sig other-child-Ex's/doing projects around the house/etc, so gaming is supposed to be more fun
In a tournament setting, that just means lists are reviewed ahead of time, and multiple lists are allowed (with some structure for picking based on rankings). We are all super excited for 8th!
Most of us have tables (I have 12+, for example), so we meet in stores for after work games sometimes, but usually at folks' houses.