But claiming there's actually any meaningful difference is one of cognitive dissonance deck chair moving.
The outcome is the same, not consciously hoping for that outcome doesn't change it.
A good analogy to this is modern day slavery. Take the survey to find out how many enslaved people support your lifestyle.
https://slaveryfootprint.org/
By consuming products created by companies that use enslaved people, you are contributing to their enslavement. No amount of personal passive non desire for this to happen will change that your actions directly contribute to this.
This is another way of saying that the neutral position is not a neutral position, and only people in privilege consider it so. Not taking a stance on politics is taking a stance on supporting the status quo, pretending technology is politically agnostic means the politics already built into it will continue to apply. Actions matter and not taking them matters more in a climate of entrenched structural issues.
Inaction is a choice. One that requires very little effort, but a choice nontheless.