Hopefully this is the right place to ask this, if not could the
tyrannical MOD overlords benevolent powers that be move it and
not send me to the gulag a friendly
PM pointing out the error of my ways please

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Okay, onto my problem. I have a D-Link 2750u router supplied by my ISP. Recently I replaced my XBox 360 with a shiney new XBone. My NAT has always been Open, with no problems. My new console tells me my NAT is Open in the Network settings. However, I recently bought
CoD:AW (don't judge me please

!) and for some bizarre reason the following happen:
- My NAT swings between Moderate and Strict on the in game screen, without any intervention on my part.
- Seeing as myself and other members from my country prefer to play local games (our digital bullets going missing mid Atlantic gets tiresome very quickly), we're having immense problems trying to party up in the game lobby (this is a NAT setting issue if memory serves). None of us have an open NAT in game anymore. I should also point out the XBone only got launched here last month, so it's a learning experience for all of us.
Now, this could be a game specific problem, but seeing as Activision is so green conscious (they recycle their only game after all and just give it a new lick of paint) and the cesspit that is the official forum has nothing about this problem that I can see, I'm thinking it might be on my side.
I've gone ahead and did some reading up on the subject. And this is where I'm not getting/finding the answers I need. Apparently I need to open/forward port 3076 on my router for the XBone (all other ports have been opened already as default on my router according to the Gaming settings, however this one is apparently a new one to forward or something) , and found that no problem on my routers setup. But being technologically handicapped, I have no idea what the other stuff means and what to select.
- Traffic Type: TCP, UDP or both?
- Application Name: FTP, HTTP, SMPT etc come on this list. What does Live use?
Also, how can one get a list of the open ports?
Any help would be appreciated, just use small words please

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