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Ok i got cought staring at some girls cleavage today(dont look at me like that.) The thing is the cleavage was well.... Out there and was wearing a low cut top.
She got mad at me. I didnt say anything and just walked away(thank god she doesnt know my name.)
So my question is why wear skimpy outfits like short shorts or skirts and look all trampy if you dont want men looking at you that way.
Ugh i still dont under stand but then again i am just 17 maybe some older members can help.
-to many points to bother to count.
mattyrm wrote:i like the idea of a woman with a lobster claw for a hand touching my nuts. :-)
Women dress up to feel good about them selves, be noticed, and to show off as well. (point being they do it for alot of reasons) Dont worry about it, if she dresses like she should work at hooters, or looks like she should put ' staring at the ceiling with my legs up and spread eagle' in her job discription, then you have every right to look. If she gets offended cause you look. Then shes just an idiot and should have wore something less revealing. Simple rule:, look dont stare, if the person gets offend there isnt anything you CAN do but walk away.
VERY IMPORTANT: never touch, this means you MGS.
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garret wrote:Ok i got cought staring at some girls cleavage today(dont look at me like that.)
Nice double standard.
Anuvver fing - when they do sumfing, they try to make it look like somfink else to confuse everybody. When one of them wants to lord it over the uvvers, 'e says "I'm very speshul so'z you gotta worship me", or "I know summink wot you lot don't know, so yer better lissen good". Da funny fing is, arf of 'em believe it and da over arf don't, so 'e 'as to hit 'em all anyway or run fer it.
We all do it mate, I have been regularly caught out when admiring a nice set of chebs. There is no harm in looking and if you do get caught then a cheeky smile is your best way of dealing with it. Just remember though there is a fine line between a quick peek and staring like a perv.
What I hate though is when you get a girl, who goes out of her way to draw attention to her lady lumps and then objects to being looked at, you all know the type, has an epic pair of Bristols and does her best to put them on display, normaly with a low cut top which has stuck up phrase on it like "in your dreams" then when she catches you looking she shrieks that you are a sex pest and calls over her 7' tall neandathol boyfriend. In fact I am so fed up with these types I have hit back by getting my own t-shirt made. It simply says " I wouldn't stick it in you to clean it".
@ garret.
It's fairly simple,she became angry with you because "you are not who she is trying to atract".
Sometimes women dress "provocativly" so men will notice them,however,if your not in the "class" of men whos attention they seek,many will react as though your a bush hiding pervert...even though your just looking at what they have put on display.
Basicly it's the " this isn't for you!!" female defence.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
I think the key word is 'staring' - glance (if you must), but don't stare. I'm not single anymore, but when I was, and I saw a girl I liked the look of, I just walked right up and said 'hello'. It works more often than you would think. But don't stare - it's undignified. Act aloof, women dig that.
Albatross wrote:I think the key word is 'staring' - glance (if you must), but don't stare. I'm not single anymore, but when I was, and I saw a girl I liked the look of, I just walked right up and said 'hello'. It works more often than you would think. But don't stare - it's undignified. Act aloof, women dig that.
Agreed, I to am no longer single,but during my "younger days" I always found guys who just stood there gawking at some girl to be anoying (probly as anoying as the woman themselves found them),walk up,talk to them..the worst thing that can happen is your told to piss off.
Also agree with "acting aloof",many women love attention,and if you deney them that,they often end up chasing you.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
@Garret
It IS possible to quickly glance over and for her to spot you at the exact same moment, making it look like you were staring at her for ages, I suppose.
Albatross wrote:@Garret
It IS possible to quickly glance over and for her to spot you at the exact same moment, making it look like you were staring at her for ages, I suppose.
If this does happen however,smile,nod and go back to your drink,or in your case garret your school work.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
Albatross wrote:I think the key word is 'staring' - glance (if you must), but don't stare. I'm not single anymore, but when I was, and I saw a girl I liked the look of, I just walked right up and said 'hello'. It works more often than you would think. But don't stare - it's undignified. Act aloof, women dig that.
Why would you want to act like a loof?
Anuvver fing - when they do sumfing, they try to make it look like somfink else to confuse everybody. When one of them wants to lord it over the uvvers, 'e says "I'm very speshul so'z you gotta worship me", or "I know summink wot you lot don't know, so yer better lissen good". Da funny fing is, arf of 'em believe it and da over arf don't, so 'e 'as to hit 'em all anyway or run fer it.
Horst wrote:don't stare... just take a quick pic on your camera phone and head to the bathroom. its what I do.
I have proven this concept does work properly if done right. On the commuter train, I open my media player, cue up a ringtone, and stick my phone in my pocket. You must know the button layout of your phone, but play the ringtone while it is in your pocket, then pretend to reply to a text. This will give the proper context, so she thinks you are tech savvy and popular, not a masturbating nerd. No offense, but this is Dakka... I am married and I am still a masturbating perv. The only difference is the pr0n I utilize... WOW, a bit off topic... Yeah, fake text=photo op.
Also, not all women are like that when it comes to cleavage. My wife exploits hers for discounts from pervy auto repair guys. I don't mind if people like to look at her breasts. I do too, it is natural. Besides, $35 USD for a pair of tires... You just can't beat a deal like that.
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I am a damaged individual screaming random obscenities into the internet, sorry if I upset you.
"Dig what you dig. Don't take any fool's madness, just dig what you dig."
-Corey Taylor (Not Saying you're a fool )
"You guys are nuttier n fruitbats who just sucked a three week old pineapple." -Frazzled
Horst wrote:don't stare... just take a quick pic on your camera phone and head to the bathroom. its what I do.
I have proven this concept does work properly if done right. On the commuter train, I open my media player, cue up a ringtone, and stick my phone in my pocket.
You must know the button layout of your phone, but play the ringtone while it is in your pocket, then pretend to reply to a text. This will give the proper context, so she thinks you are tech savvy and popular, not a masturbating nerd. No offense, but this is Dakka...
I am married and I am still a masturbating perv. The only difference is the pr0n I utilize...
WOW, a bit off topic... Yeah, fake text=photo op.
Also, not all women are like that when it comes to cleavage. My wife exploits hers for discounts from pervy auto repair guys. I don't mind if people like to look at her breasts. I do too, it is natural. Besides, $35 USD for a pair of tires... You just can't beat a deal like that.
Umm..No offence,but these may be two of the strangest post I've read in some time.
Do ya'll honestly secretly photograph women?FFS,just walk up and say hello.
Oh,tblock...I am a "pervy" auto repair guy,so I have to at least say thanks.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
Horst wrote:don't stare... just take a quick pic on your camera phone and head to the bathroom. its what I do.
I have proven this concept does work properly if done right. On the commuter train, I open my media player, cue up a ringtone, and stick my phone in my pocket.
You must know the button layout of your phone, but play the ringtone while it is in your pocket, then pretend to reply to a text. This will give the proper context, so she thinks you are tech savvy and popular, not a masturbating nerd. No offense, but this is Dakka...
I am married and I am still a masturbating perv. The only difference is the pr0n I utilize...
WOW, a bit off topic... Yeah, fake text=photo op.
Also, not all women are like that when it comes to cleavage. My wife exploits hers for discounts from pervy auto repair guys. I don't mind if people like to look at her breasts. I do too, it is natural. Besides, $35 USD for a pair of tires... You just can't beat a deal like that.
Umm..No offence,but these may be two of the strangest post I've read in some time.
Do ya'll honestly secretly photograph women?FFS,just walk up and say hello.
Oh,tblock...I am a "pervy" auto repair guy,so I have to at least say thanks.
LOL, no, I don't secretly photograph women on the train. I take pictures of midgets and send them to my wife. No, seriously, she love midgets...
That post was an amalgamation of a discussion a coworker and I had (NOT kirsanth) while riding the Metro in Washington DC on a business trip. Wow, that doesn't really sound any better.
I am a damaged individual screaming random obscenities into the internet, sorry if I upset you.
"Dig what you dig. Don't take any fool's madness, just dig what you dig."
-Corey Taylor (Not Saying you're a fool )
"You guys are nuttier n fruitbats who just sucked a three week old pineapple." -Frazzled
I first started going to goth clubs when I was 19, and I remember the first chick I ever saw at the local club wearing just electrical tape on her nips, no need for a top. Since I didn't yet dance, I was just sitting on some trashy coach and pretty blatantly staring at this fakking hot chick dance about for at least a couple songs. I'm almost positive I had a stupid grin on my face too, which helped when I looked just to the chick's left and saw her musclebound, mohawked boyfriend glaring directly at me. So I excused myself and took an extended smoke break (and I don't smoke) ...
If all you want is to steal a glance, Seinfeld was right - its like looking the sun - be quick, then turn away.
But... If they dont know your looking mate, they dont know youre interested. If you would like to talk to this person, then being openly appraising can be win! Simply be ready for the slick compliment when they come over to chew you out. And compliment is "Im sorry i was staring, you just have a very striking figure", not "nice jugs - lol".
FITZZ wrote: @ garret.
It's fairly simple,she became angry with you because "you are not who she is trying to atract".
Sometimes women dress "provocativly" so men will notice them,however,if your not in the "class" of men whos attention they seek,many will react as though your a bush hiding pervert...even though your just looking at what they have put on display.
Basicly it's the " this isn't for you!!" female defence.
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