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Post by: daedalus
Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/14/erin-cox-punished-school-drinking-driving_n_4098086.html?view=print&comm_ref=false
When Massachusetts high school senior Erin Cox went to pick up an intoxicated classmate from a party, she thought she was doing the right thing. However, administrators at North Andover High School are punishing her for the deed, citing the school’s zero tolerance policy on drugs on alcohol.
Cox, an honor student and volleyball star, received a cell phone message from an intoxicated friend asking for a ride home from a party earlier this month, according to the Boston Herald. However, Cox arrived at the party at the same time as the police, who were arresting a slew of students for underage drinking.
While Cox was cleared by police who recognized her sobriety, her school has given her a harsh punishment. The 17-year-old was stripped of her title as captain of the volleyball team, and she was suspended from five games.
“But I wasn’t drinking,” Cox told the Boston Herald. “And I felt like going to get her was the right thing to do. Saving her from getting in the car when she was intoxicated and hurt herself or getting in the car with someone else who was drinking. I’d give her a ride home.”
The Cox family filed a lawsuit against the school on Friday in an attempt to get officials to reverse the punishment. However, the district court judge ruled the court did not have jurisdiction over the issue, local station WBZ-TV reports.
“If a kid asks for help from a friend, you don’t want that kid to say ‘I’m sorry I can’t help you. I might end up in trouble at school,’” Cox family attorney Wendy Murphy told the outlet.
However, an attorney for the school told the Boston Herald that officials are standing firm on the punishment.
The district could not be reached for further comment at this time.
The Cox family is now hoping that pressure from supporters will persuade school officials to reverse their decision. A Reddit thread about the incident has already amassed more than 1,000 comments, most of which are in support of Cox.
“Better warn all students that they are not allowed to attend any party or enter an establishment that serves alcohol. That means no Applebee's, no family gatherings, and no professional sporting events. Eventually they will be imprisoned in a small room where they will not be allowed to leave unless they have a game or until they graduate,” user Drewkat99 said in a comment.
Cox told the Herald she feels “defeated,” but she said she doesn't regret her actions: "It was the right thing,” she said.
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Post by: Grey Templar
We really need to get a handle on this Zero Tolerance crap. Fire everybody who came up with the idea and/or get rid of their pensions.
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Post by: djones520
This is just ridiculous.
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Post by: SagesStone
That title of yours is pretty misleading there. They came and picked up a drunk student, its hard enough to see how they put that as condoning alcohol abuse it's even harder to see how this condones drunk driving...
In fact wouldn't saying
. “And I felt like going to get her was the right thing to do. Saving her from getting in the car when she was intoxicated and hurt herself or getting in the car with someone else who was drinking. I’d give her a ride home.”
Very obviously be saying they are not condoning drunk driving in the slightest.
Hell she even got in trouble for drinking after the lift anyway and now the school is being sued by the parents for saving their child. So really it should be "ungreatful parents protect child from responsibility".
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Post by: Grey Templar
A more correct title would be "High School discourages designated drivers"
That's almost as bad.
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Post by: purplefood
The person picking up the friend was sober...
How exactly was the school helping them?
All the school has done is punish someone, who wasn't drinking, for helping a friend.
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Post by: Noir
n0t_u wrote:That title of yours is pretty misleading there. They came and picked up a drunk student, its hard enough to see how they put that as condoning alcohol abuse it's even harder to see how this condones drunk driving...
In fact wouldn't saying
. “And I felt like going to get her was the right thing to do. Saving her from getting in the car when she was intoxicated and hurt herself or getting in the car with someone else who was drinking. I’d give her a ride home.”
Very obviously be saying they are not condoning drunk driving in the slightest.
Hell she even got in trouble for drinking after the lift anyway and now the school is being sued by the parents for saving their child. So really it should be "ungreatful parents protect child from responsibility".
Maybe read again. The girl was not drinking and got in trouble for driving to pick up a friend. Again the driver was not drinking and the school punished her.
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Post by: daedalus
n0t_u wrote:In fact wouldn't saying
. “And I felt like going to get her was the right thing to do. Saving her from getting in the car when she was intoxicated and hurt herself or getting in the car with someone else who was drinking. I’d give her a ride home.”
Very obviously be saying they are not condoning drunk driving in the slightest.
That was the girl saying that, not the school. The school appears to condone it, because they're punishing designated drivers.
Hell she even got in trouble for drinking after the lift anyway and now the school is being sued by the parents for saving their child. So really it should be "ungreatful parents protect child from responsibility".
When did that happen? I somehow keep missing that line in the story. Automatically Appended Next Post: Grey Templar wrote:A more correct title would be "High School discourages designated drivers"
That's almost as bad.
More correct, but less fun.
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Post by: Grey Templar
Must be if your name shows up on a police report for any reason you get slapped. You could probably get a medal for fething bravery and still get kicked off the team and dean's list.
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Post by: SagesStone
daedalus wrote: n0t_u wrote:In fact wouldn't saying
. “And I felt like going to get her was the right thing to do. Saving her from getting in the car when she was intoxicated and hurt herself or getting in the car with someone else who was drinking. I’d give her a ride home.”
Very obviously be saying they are not condoning drunk driving in the slightest.
That was the girl saying that, not the school. The school appears to condone it, because they're punishing designated drivers.
Oh derp, my reading comprehension is quite poor then.
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Post by: Ouze
I'd like to know more about this jurisdictional issue the court ran into.
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Post by: timetowaste85
Welp, one more example of why I'm occasionally ashamed to be American. Good job, school district. Punish a kid for saving a friend's life.
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Post by: insaniak
I'm confused... what did all of this have to do with the school in the first place?
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Post by: daedalus
From what I can tell between previous (similar) stories and the lack of interest of the court, law enforcement concerning American minors appears to be wholly governed by the school district they belong to.
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Post by: Alfndrate
insaniak wrote:I'm confused... what did all of this have to do with the school in the first place?
Exactly...
Schools like to butt in on these sort of things. They feel that they can step in because it was high school students being involved... They really have no grounds to stand on.
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Post by: iproxtaco
Almost makes me grateful for going to a school with completely ineffectual staff and disciplinary system.
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Post by: Kanluwen
insaniak wrote:I'm confused... what did all of this have to do with the school in the first place?
To play or be involved in many of the extracurricular activities you usually agree to abide by a certain set of rules from the school. With sports they can be pretty demanding--but generally get ignored if it's an activity that makes the school system or school itself a good stream of revenue.
I can understand the outrage, but at the same time underage drinking is one of those things where communities either take it incredibly seriously or don't care. I know that where I live it is taken fairly seriously because of the number of fatalities that you see resulting from high schoolers getting drunk and deciding to get out as soon as possible when they hear the cops are coming.
In regards to this story it kind of seems like the whole reason Cox is being punished is that she was in the wrong place at the wrong time. She showed up to pick someone up as the cops came to make arrests. She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
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Post by: daedalus
Kanluwen wrote: insaniak wrote:I'm confused... what did all of this have to do with the school in the first place?
To play or be involved in many of the extracurricular activities you usually agree to abide by a certain set of rules from the school. With sports they can be pretty demanding--but generally get ignored if it's an activity that makes the school system or school itself a good stream of revenue.
I can understand the outrage, but at the same time underage drinking is one of those things where communities either take it incredibly seriously or don't care. I know that where I live it is taken fairly seriously because of the number of fatalities that you see resulting from high schoolers getting drunk and deciding to get out as soon as possible when they hear the cops are coming.
So you would think you would punish the drunks, not the good sober girl who's trying to make the world a better place, even though her friends might be less than perfect...
In regards to this story it kind of seems like the whole reason Cox is being punished is that she was in the wrong place at the wrong time. She showed up to pick someone up as the cops came to make arrests. She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
I suppose that makes sense, in the most Kafka-esque sort of way possible. I'd argue she wasn't "covering something up", but simply trying to keep people safe. The police didn't charge her with abetting in any crimes from what I can tell, and I would think they would know the law well enough to present a charge where there one worth presenting.
Here's a hypothetical for you. If she knew of the party, say, it was announced on facebook, twitter, or any other social media mechanism, and she knew there was drinking there, and she didn't report it to the nearest friendly school official, would you still say she was covering it up?
What if I was drunk and under the age of 21 and called a cab? Would the cab driver be covering up the fact that I was drunk?
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Post by: nkelsch
If the cab knew for a fact you were under 21, a large number of cab companies have polices where they are to report you and hand you over to police by having them waiting for you when they drop you off.
They just report you to their dispatcher who calls the police to investigate. There are lots of campaigns with cab companies around prom and graduation where when cabs are called for underage parties, they call the police as there is a community enforcement partnership going on.
It all depends what the local jurisdiction feels like cracking down on at any given time.
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Post by: insaniak
Kanluwen wrote:She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
If it happened outside of school hours, that's an issue for her parents and/or the police to handle. Nothing whatsoever to do with the school.
Schools have no reason to be punishing kids for things that happen while not in the school's care. It's nothing to do with them.
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Post by: Kanluwen
daedalus wrote: Kanluwen wrote: insaniak wrote:I'm confused... what did all of this have to do with the school in the first place?
To play or be involved in many of the extracurricular activities you usually agree to abide by a certain set of rules from the school. With sports they can be pretty demanding--but generally get ignored if it's an activity that makes the school system or school itself a good stream of revenue.
I can understand the outrage, but at the same time underage drinking is one of those things where communities either take it incredibly seriously or don't care. I know that where I live it is taken fairly seriously because of the number of fatalities that you see resulting from high schoolers getting drunk and deciding to get out as soon as possible when they hear the cops are coming.
So you would think you would punish the drunks, not the good sober girl who's trying to make the world a better place, even though her friends might be less than perfect...
I haven't been able to find whether or not the drunks were "punished", but considering that the police were making arrests at the party I think it is safe to say that there might be more than just suspensions from volleyball out there.
In regards to this story it kind of seems like the whole reason Cox is being punished is that she was in the wrong place at the wrong time. She showed up to pick someone up as the cops came to make arrests. She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
I suppose that makes sense, in the most Kafka-esque sort of way possible. I'd argue she wasn't "covering something up", but simply trying to keep people safe. The police didn't charge her with abetting in any crimes from what I can tell, and I would think they would know the law well enough to present a charge where there one worth presenting.
Here's a hypothetical for you. If she knew of the party, say, it was announced on facebook, twitter, or any other social media mechanism, and she knew there was drinking there, and she didn't report it to the nearest friendly school official, would you still say she was covering it up?
No. It's one of those weird situational things where you don't really have a responsibility to report it or act as a "snitch". The reason I say that is many school systems and/or local police departments actually do monitor things like Facebook, Craigslist, Twitter, etc and watch for photos or videos from parties to show up before they bust them.
The reason I used the term "cover it up" is that you usually see kids at these kinds of parties who ditch out of the party when the cops show up and immediately call for a friend to come pick them up at what they consider to be a safe distance away from the cops. Automatically Appended Next Post: insaniak wrote: Kanluwen wrote:She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
If it happened outside of school hours, that's an issue for her parents and/or the police to handle. Nothing whatsoever to do with the school.
Schools have no reason to be punishing kids for things that happen while not in the school's care. It's nothing to do with them.
Eh. Like I said, with extracurricular activities or sports the kids can lose their ability to participate in those activities/sports as a punishment. Part of it is that you are supposed to treat this as "preparing for college athletics" where the same thing can happen.
Losing the captaincy and ability to play in 5 games is pretty much nothing, even for high school.
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Post by: daedalus
nkelsch wrote:If the cab knew for a fact you were under 21, a large number of cab companies have polices where they are to report you and hand you over to police by having them waiting for you when they drop you off.
They just report you to their dispatcher who calls the police to investigate. There are lots of campaigns with cab companies around prom and graduation where when cabs are called for underage parties, they call the police as there is a community enforcement partnership going on.
It all depends what the local jurisdiction feels like cracking down on at any given time.
Huh. I actually didn't know that.
I grew up in the relative country. The one party I was at in high school that got busted had the courtesy to do so before we got back from a food run. We saw the lights, turned two blocks away, and casually drove home. And yes, actually, I was plastered, but the guy driving was one of my friends who enjoyed parties, but hated drinking. Thing I'll never figure out is how they managed to hide all the weed that was at the party (which was one of the reasons we went for a food run 20 miles away).
Kanluwen wrote:
No. It's one of those weird situational things where you don't really have a responsibility to report it or act as a "snitch". The reason I say that is many school systems and/or local police departments actually do monitor things like Facebook, Craigslist, Twitter, etc and watch for photos or videos from parties to show up before they bust them.
The reason I used the term "cover it up" is that you usually see kids at these kinds of parties who ditch out of the party when the cops show up and immediately call for a friend to come pick them up at what they consider to be a safe distance away from the cops.
Yeah, you're probably right. It's just frustrating to see someone get a black mark for doing the right thing.
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Post by: Blokus
In my opinion she did do the right thing, as a friend and as a citizen. Furthermore if she really is a star volleyball player her scholarships will not be threatened by the administrative action of the school. Finally these threads pop up all the time, the better safe than sorry approach by a school district is the current reality. Be happy once you become an adult the legal system is not so code law centric. Though some would argue law makers try to make it that way, and in some ways succeed.
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Post by: sebster
It seems a pretty silly instance of following the code, not the reality of the situation.
That said, I wonder how many of the people who are outraged at this silliness share similar frustration at minimum sentencing laws, three strikes laws and the like handed down to adults?
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Post by: daedalus
sebster wrote:It seems a pretty silly instance of following the code, not the reality of the situation.
That said, I wonder how many of the people who are outraged at this silliness share similar frustration at minimum sentencing laws, three strikes laws and the like handed down to adults?
Depends upon the crime, I guess. Also, I wonder which direction of frustrated about said laws you're wondering about.
I was largely outraged at HADOPI when it first came out, for example. I still think it and its enforcement are a waste of resources.
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Post by: Blokus
sebster wrote:It seems a pretty silly instance of following the code, not the reality of the situation.
That said, I wonder how many of the people who are outraged at this silliness share similar frustration at minimum sentencing laws, three strikes laws and the like handed down to adults?
I agree, mandatory minimum drug laws, and three strike laws are what I alluded at. If a common law system is what we strive for these sentencing guidelines throw that discretion out the window.
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Post by: sebster
daedalus wrote:Depends upon the crime, I guess. Also, I wonder which direction of frustrated about said laws you're wondering about.
Should the specific crime matter? Surely any crime is complex enough to throw up instances that the written text of the law hasn't taken in to account. Which is why we've typically had one or more people to provide a final review of the matter. Which zero tolerance and three strikes/minimum sentencing rejects.
I was largely outraged at HADOPI when it first came out, for example.
I thought HADOPI was repealed?
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Post by: Bromsy
Meh. She enabled underage drinking and got caught. School decided to levy a fairly mild punishment that whiny middle class family didn't like. Sucks to be you, nerd. It isn't like the only two possibilities were 1) This chick picks her friend up or 2) The friend drives home drunk. They made their choices and got boned by circumstance. News at 11. Meanwhile some kids starved to death somewhere.
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Post by: d-usa
insaniak wrote: Kanluwen wrote:She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
If it happened outside of school hours, that's an issue for her parents and/or the police to handle. Nothing whatsoever to do with the school.
Schools have no reason to be punishing kids for things that happen while not in the school's care. It's nothing to do with them.
Schools also have zero responsibility to provide you with a volleyball team or to let you play on it. If they provide extracurricular activities then they can set rules of conduct that a student has to comply with. "Don't get caught at parties where there is alcohol being consumed by minors" aka "don't be involved with criminal activities" is a reasonable enough rule to impose on students that represent their schools. Your activities as a student-athlete reflect back on the school. The school couldn't kick you out of math class for that, since that is what they are legally funded to provide.
Not saying that they made the right decision here, just explaining why they have the power to make it to begin with.
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Post by: SilverMK2
If only those kids had guns, that would have kept them safe from the evil gov'ment and on the sports team!
But i have to say the drinking laws are seriously skewed in the US. And i say that as someone who doesnt drink...
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Post by: Yodhrin
nkelsch wrote:If the cab knew for a fact you were under 21, a large number of cab companies have polices where they are to report you and hand you over to police by having them waiting for you when they drop you off.
They just report you to their dispatcher who calls the police to investigate. There are lots of campaigns with cab companies around prom and graduation where when cabs are called for underage parties, they call the police as there is a community enforcement partnership going on.
It all depends what the local jurisdiction feels like cracking down on at any given time.
Wow, that sounds positively dystopian to me. It's all very Victorian, this idea that some parts of America(and a few in the UK, I'm not nation-bashing) have that everyone has a right to intrude into other people's affairs over the most minor things if they get it into their head that there's something they find morally objectionable going on.
Round my bit when I was a kid, any cabbie that called the polis over something so ludicrously minor as a few kids having a party(for its own sake I mean, if they're playing music stupidly loud or pissing in the street or something fine, but not just because...*dun dun dun* someone under 18 is drinking!) would have been laughed at. I remember once me and a few mates were "caught" by a couple of officers, and the new-guy was all fired up and ready to haul us in, the more experienced one looked at him like he was a complete numptie and told him to can it, then turned to us and just said "if you walk off, we'll assume those bottles all about you were left here by hobos, and I am pointedly not noticing that "tobacco" tin on the wall there, so shove it in your pocket before I'm forced to and get going"
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Post by: KingCracker
My line of thinking is if someone does anything NOT on school grounds or wearing school attire, then the schools can go frack itself. They are there to teach the kids, nothing more. Not only do I find it ridiculous that the kids that were drinking getting punished by the school, but for gak sake, this girl was a designated driver!
Lets just send all the wrong messages to other kids in these situations
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Post by: timetowaste85
She wasn't even a DD! She wasn't at the party, she was called by a friend who was still "with it" enough to know she shouldn't drive, and she probably saved the girls life by picking her up. She wasn't engaging in criminal activity, she was a hero. Think about how many lives she saved that night: her drunk friend, as aell as anyone on the road between the party and the friend's home. Her friend was surely in the wrong, but this girl wasn't. The people saying she deserved to be punished, here and IRL, are pathetic.
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Post by: Frazzled
Grey Templar wrote:A more correct title would be "High School discourages designated drivers" That's almost as bad. Agreed. Fire everyone. Start over. The nanny state school has no jurisdiction to begin with. Its not a school event.
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Post by: Alfndrate
So I did a little digging. Miss Cox attends North Andover High School. NAHS's athletic handbook has a few things about alcohol and drugs in their code of conduct for athletic participation. I've bolded the important part, and underlined the 'nanny state' part. I realize that yes, the school is under no obligation to provide sports for their students and you do agree to follow these rules, but this is a zero tolerance policy that doesn't need to be as heavy handed as it is. If the school took a few seconds to hear out the story, they might not seem like colossal dicks. Yes Erin Cox was in violation of the Athletic Code of Conduct by going and picking up her friend at the party at the wrong time, but the school doesn't have any reason to control what the students do in their own time. If they students were caught and taken in for underage (which Miss Cox was not) then yeah, suspend them for a few games, take away their ability to play, but don't punish a girl because she was willing to help a friend get home safe.
The North Andover High School standard is designed to encourage responsible and safe decision making by all students and to promote a positive learning environment within the North Andover community. The North Andover Public Schools maintains that the possession and/or us
e of illicit drugs and unlawful possession and/or use of alcohol and tobacco by minors/students is wrong and can be physically and/or emotionally harmful to students. Therefore, North Andover High School has strict rules against being knowingly in the unlawful presence of and/or possession, sale, transfer, and/or use of these substances, whether or not they are on school property or at a school function. North Andover High School, as a member of the MIAA, meets or exceeds their standards for code of conduct and discipline.
1. Student athletes are subject to school rules and regulations governing student behavior as cited in the NAHS Student Handbook and by the NAHS Athletic
Handbook. All participants are reminded that they must be good citizens in order to represent their school and community in athletic activities. Violations of school rules resulting in suspension from school will automatically preclude student involvement in co-curricular and/or athletic activities for the length of the suspension.
2. The Education Reform Bill, effective June 18, 1993, Section 37H1/2 of Section 35, states that any student in grades 9 - 12 who is found on school premises or at a
school sponsored or school related event, including athletic games, in possession of a controlled substance including, but not limited to, marijuana, steroids, cocaine, or heroin, may be subject to expulsion from the school in accordance
with procedures established by state and/or federal laws.
3. Students should be aware that if they are part of a group that is engaged in activities contrary to school rules, they may come under suspicion and be subject to investigation if that is deemed appropriate by the administration. It is wise, therefore, either to prevent the wrongdoing, or failing that, to remove one’s self from the group as soon as possible without putting one’s self at risk
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Post by: hotsauceman1
Well, over here you can be punished in extra curriculars if you get caught drunk or high by the police. The school does not want a drunk representing them to other schools. Besides I think drinking that hard should be punished as hard as possible by as many people so schools should punish them by removing extra curricular, they are not a right after all.
Now this? This is stupid to all hell, Do something right, get punished.
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Post by: nkelsch
The 'correct' thing is to be honest with your parents, and tell them who can alert other parents to go get their drunk children. She didn't do anything right. If my parents had found out I left the house late at night as a teen to drive a car to go pick up drunk teens, it would have been my ass.
I was once tricked into picking up some friends from a Dennys where they had all done some drugs and were kinda freaking out. I didn't know until we were driving home and one of them offered a ride to a crackhead who barged in my vehicle before I knew what was going on. I couldn't get him out of my car and he was getting a little crazy and violent and had a weapon. (pre-cell phones, no way to call police) So we had to drive to a bad part of town to drop him off, afterwards they told me they were doing drugs and were sorry. I told my parents who grounded me and called all their parents.
Teens drinking and on drugs are not appropriate for a teen to be handling in that condition. She may have felt she was doing the right thing, but she was putting herself and them in danger. The correct behavior would have been to notify the kids parents.
And all schools have Honor codes. If you don't like it, then don't sign it and don't participate in any school events or homeschool.
Colleges have honor codes too as an easy out to 'throw people out' if needed. Companies in the real world also will fire you for personal behavior outside work. So why not get people trained at a young age that personal actions have consequences and they really do have no personal freedom in our society.
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Post by: AlmightyWalrus
nkelsch wrote:The 'correct' thing is to be honest with your parents, and tell them who can alert other parents to go get their drunk children. She didn't do anything right. If my parents had found out I left the house late at night as a teen to drive a car to go pick up drunk teens, it would have been my ass.
Whereas my own parents would've been sensible about it and realized that it's better that I go pick them up than them driving drunk. If the persons calling/texting are sane enough to realize that they probably shouldn't be driving anywhere on their own and that they probably should ask someone sober for help I don't see the problem with them drinking in the first place, as they're obviously doing so in a senbible manner (and I say this as someone who doesn't drink at all).
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Post by: Frazzled
Alfndrate wrote:So I did a little digging. Miss Cox attends North Andover High School. NAHS's athletic handbook has a few things about alcohol and drugs in their code of conduct for athletic participation. I've bolded the important part, and underlined the 'nanny state' part. I realize that yes, the school is under no obligation to provide sports for their students and you do agree to follow these rules, but this is a zero tolerance policy that doesn't need to be as heavy handed as it is. If the school took a few seconds to hear out the story, they might not seem like colossal dicks. Yes Erin Cox was in violation of the Athletic Code of Conduct by going and picking up her friend at the party at the wrong time, but the school doesn't have any reason to control what the students do in their own time. If they students were caught and taken in for underage (which Miss Cox was not) then yeah, suspend them for a few games, take away their ability to play, but don't punish a girl because she was willing to help a friend get home safe.
The North Andover High School standard is designed to encourage responsible and safe decision making by all students and to promote a positive learning environment within the North Andover community. The North Andover Public Schools maintains that the possession and/or us
e of illicit drugs and unlawful possession and/or use of alcohol and tobacco by minors/students is wrong and can be physically and/or emotionally harmful to students. Therefore, North Andover High School has strict rules against being knowingly in the unlawful presence of and/or possession, sale, transfer, and/or use of these substances, whether or not they are on school property or at a school function. North Andover High School, as a member of the MIAA, meets or exceeds their standards for code of conduct and discipline.
1. Student athletes are subject to school rules and regulations governing student behavior as cited in the NAHS Student Handbook and by the NAHS Athletic
Handbook. All participants are reminded that they must be good citizens in order to represent their school and community in athletic activities. Violations of school rules resulting in suspension from school will automatically preclude student involvement in co-curricular and/or athletic activities for the length of the suspension.
2. The Education Reform Bill, effective June 18, 1993, Section 37H1/2 of Section 35, states that any student in grades 9 - 12 who is found on school premises or at a
school sponsored or school related event, including athletic games, in possession of a controlled substance including, but not limited to, marijuana, steroids, cocaine, or heroin, may be subject to expulsion from the school in accordance
with procedures established by state and/or federal laws.
3. Students should be aware that if they are part of a group that is engaged in activities contrary to school rules, they may come under suspicion and be subject to investigation if that is deemed appropriate by the administration. It is wise, therefore, either to prevent the wrongdoing, or failing that, to remove one’s self from the group as soon as possible without putting one’s self at risk
Actually in the presence of is ambiguous. She was transport.
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Post by: Alfndrate
Frazzled wrote:Actually in the presence of is ambiguous. She was transport.
Agreed, it's not like she was there at the party hanging out with her friends but not drinking when the cops showed up. Also is it possible for a minor to be in the unlawful presence of alcohol? Does it become unlawful presence if little Billy got his hands on a 40oz and Timmy is watching him drink it? Does Timmy get in trouble even though he didn't do anything wrong and the 40 wasn't his?
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Post by: daedalus
nkelsch wrote:The 'correct' thing is to be honest with your parents, and tell them who can alert other parents to go get their drunk children. She didn't do anything right. If my parents had found out I left the house late at night as a teen to drive a car to go pick up drunk teens, it would have been my ass.
And that's interesting. My parents know that I went places to pick up friends who couldn't be safe. Some of them, their parents knew and didn't care. That's one of the reasons why this story pisses me off so much.
I also stayed out until 2-3 AM quite often, either usually over at a friend's helping him work on his car which was perpetually falling apart, or even just driving around. I had good grades, regularly attended school, and was all around a good kid. I never got into trouble, I was just a night owl.
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Post by: chaos0xomega
timetowaste85 wrote:Welp, one more example of why I'm occasionally ashamed to be American. Good job, school district. Punish a kid for saving a friend's life.
I'm not, Massachussetts does not equal United States of America.
insaniak wrote:I'm confused... what did all of this have to do with the school in the first place?
What he said.
To play or be involved in many of the extracurricular activities you usually agree to abide by a certain set of rules from the school. With sports they can be pretty demanding--but generally get ignored if it's an activity that makes the school system or school itself a good stream of revenue.
I can understand the outrage, but at the same time underage drinking is one of those things where communities either take it incredibly seriously or don't care. I know that where I live it is taken fairly seriously because of the number of fatalities that you see resulting from high schoolers getting drunk and deciding to get out as soon as possible when they hear the cops are coming.
In regards to this story it kind of seems like the whole reason Cox is being punished is that she was in the wrong place at the wrong time. She showed up to pick someone up as the cops came to make arrests. She's likely being used as an 'example' because it can be viewed as her getting punished(although sitting out 5 games and losing the captaincy of the volleyball team does not really strike me as a "punishment") for trying to help cover up something she knew was illegal--whether you agree with the enforcement of those laws or not.
Contrary to popular belief the legal drinking age in the US isn't 21, thats only the age to purchase alcohol. The actual age to consume/possess varies from state to state. Massachussets law does not prohibit consumption or internal possession, only general possession of alcohol but there are parent/guardian and spousal exemptions, meaning that all it would take to get all those kids out of any amount of legal (or in this case school) trouble would be for the parents to all/unanimously (otherwise someone can get hit for furnishing to a minor) declare that they gave an alcohol exemption to their children, thus making the consumption by minors at the party legal, and technically exonerating the girl in question for being "complicit"/"covering up" a "crime" by doing the right thing. http://alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov/APIS_State_Profile.html?state=MA
If she is in a private school though (I don't believe she is) technically speaking the school would still be able to dictate a punishment, etc. as you're generally "contracted" and have to abide by a stricter set of rules which extend a bit into your personal life.
I suppose that makes sense, in the most Kafka-esque sort of way possible
Pretty sure kafkaesque isn't really applicable here... then again its generally misused to begin with: http://www.nytimes.com/1991/12/29/nyregion/the-essence-of-kafkaesque.html?pagewanted=all&src=pm
If it happened outside of school hours, that's an issue for her parents and/or the police to handle. Nothing whatsoever to do with the school.
Schools have no reason to be punishing kids for things that happen while not in the school's care. It's nothing to do with them.
Agreed
Meh. She enabled underage drinking and got caught. School decided to levy a fairly mild punishment that whiny middle class family didn't like. Sucks to be you, nerd. It isn't like the only two possibilities were 1) This chick picks her friend up or 2) The friend drives home drunk. They made their choices and got boned by circumstance. News at 11. Meanwhile some kids starved to death somewhere.
See the first part of my post. "Underage" drinking isn't illegal.
But i have to say the drinking laws are seriously skewed in the US. And i say that as someone who doesnt drink...
See the first part of my post. They aren't skewed, they are misunderstood.
So I did a little digging. Miss Cox attends North Andover High School. NAHS's athletic handbook has a few things about alcohol and drugs in their code of conduct for athletic participation. I've bolded the important part, and underlined the 'nanny state' part. I realize that yes, the school is under no obligation to provide sports for their students and you do agree to follow these rules, but this is a zero tolerance policy that doesn't need to be as heavy handed as it is. If the school took a few seconds to hear out the story, they might not seem like colossal dicks. Yes Erin Cox was in violation of the Athletic Code of Conduct by going and picking up her friend at the party at the wrong time, but the school doesn't have any reason to control what the students do in their own time. If they students were caught and taken in for underage (which Miss Cox was not) then yeah, suspend them for a few games, take away their ability to play, but don't punish a girl because she was willing to help a friend get home safe.
Well, technically she wasn't in the presence of unlawful consumption, and unlawful possession is questionable, meaning that she wasn't technically in violation of the code of conduct... see above for details.
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Post by: Da Boss
It's silly to have such a rule in the first place, but I can understand why if the rule is there the school will enforce it on everyone equally.
My dad was a policeman and he used to drive around giving people a lift home around closing time instead of waiting til they tried to drive and then arresting/breathalysing them. He figured he was keeping people safer doing that than letting them get into the car- he let it be known when he'd be coming back with the car, etc. His beat was a rural area and people were quite spread out, so it was possible to do that.
Nowadays, he'd likely get crap from up high about that because it would impact their "arrest stats" so they wouldn't be "solving crimes".
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Post by: -Shrike-
Da Boss wrote:It's silly to have such a rule in the first place, but I can understand why if the rule is there the school will enforce it on everyone equally.
My dad was a policeman and he used to drive around giving people a lift home around closing time instead of waiting til they tried to drive and then arresting/breathalysing them. He figured he was keeping people safer doing that than letting them get into the car- he let it be known when he'd be coming back with the car, etc. His beat was a rural area and people were quite spread out, so it was possible to do that.
Nowadays, he'd likely get crap from up high about that because it would impact their "arrest stats" so they wouldn't be "solving crimes".
That's a pretty awesome thing for your dad to do.
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Post by: easysauce
how the heck does the school have any authority to issue punishments based on events that happend
1. outside of school hours
2. outside of school property
....
or are schools the newest branch of the TSA and get a free pass at ignoring peoples rights?
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Post by: djones520
easysauce wrote:how the heck does the school have any authority to issue punishments based on events that happend
1. outside of school hours
2. outside of school property
....
or are schools the newest branch of the TSA and get a free pass at ignoring peoples rights?
This goes back to the school that wanted to expel kids for playing with airsoft guns in their yard.
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Post by: Da Boss
Wow, that is completely unreal! Airsoft guns in the back yard?
Maybe the administrators in these schools should focus a bit more on improving educational attainment, seeing as the US is quite a bit behind the competition at High School level!
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Post by: cormadepanda
Time to write an email to that school. Zero tolerance is fine, but zero understanding it not fine. She is being punished for being near property that contained underage drinking. Man what is the minimal distance required? 100ft? 200ft? a Mile? Its just sad to see punishments like this...
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Post by: Andrew1975
Grey Templar wrote:We really need to get a handle on this Zero Tolerance crap. Fire everybody who came up with the idea and/or get rid of their pensions.
Sounds like Zero Tolerance for Zero Tolerance!
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Post by: Frazzled
I think the question we need to ask ourselves is, why were these kids not busily working in coal mines on their off time?
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Post by: AlmightyWalrus
Andrew1975 wrote: Grey Templar wrote:We really need to get a handle on this Zero Tolerance crap. Fire everybody who came up with the idea and/or get rid of their pensions.
Sounds like Zero Tolerance for Zero Tolerance!
Only a Sith deals in absolutes!
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Post by: Easy E
To play devil's advocate:
She signed a contract with the school to allow her to play Volleryball. When that contract was violated, her ability to play volleyball for the school was revoked.
RAW
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Post by: gossipmeng
So basically.... I can get drunk, stand next to a highschool student, and he/she will get in trouble for being near me. GJ skool GJ.
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Post by: Grey Templar
Da Boss wrote:Wow, that is completely unreal! Airsoft guns in the back yard?
Maybe the administrators in these schools should focus a bit more on improving educational attainment, seeing as the US is quite a bit behind the competition at High School level!
Technically it was the front yard. But it so happened to be within 70 yards or so of a bus stop...
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Post by: Frazzled
Easy E wrote:To play devil's advocate:
She signed a contract with the school to allow her to play Volleryball. When that contract was violated, her ability to play volleyball for the school was revoked.
RAW
Except of course the contract was not violated.
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Post by: djones520
Frazzled wrote: Easy E wrote:To play devil's advocate:
She signed a contract with the school to allow her to play Volleryball. When that contract was violated, her ability to play volleyball for the school was revoked.
RAW
Except of course the contract was not violated.
They are stating that she willingly was in the presence of minors partaking in alcohaul. I'd call BS to this. She wasn't there of her own will. She didn't want to be there. She was there to help stop a dangerous situation, nothing more.
This is zero tolerance at it's worst.
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Post by: Frazzled
Alcohol is not illegal. Purchasing it as a minor is.
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Post by: djones520
Being in the unlawful presence of use of alcohaul. It's what they are nailing her for. It is illegal for minors to consume/purchase/possess booze.
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Post by: daedalus
djones520 wrote:
Being in the unlawful presence of use of alcohaul. It's what they are nailing her for. It is illegal for minors to consume/purchase/possess booze.
(or be in the presence of someone who is.)
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Post by: Frazzled
djones520 wrote: Being in the unlawful presence of use of alcohaul. It's what they are nailing her for. It is illegal for minors to consume/purchase/possess booze. Show me the law on that. Its illegal to purchase. No one said they purchased it. A little semanticy I know but the whole thing is that. Clearly certain admins need their cars keyed. Justice old school style. Also she must suck at volleyball, or their team does. In Texas, good athletes are pretty invulnerable.
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Post by: easysauce
I went to school after all this "0 tolerance BS"
around grade 5 when I brought my new scouts utility knife to school, which I was proud of earning with a safty merit badge, it was promptly confiscated, and I was disciplined...
yet when older kids (high school age) were in the playground pushing kids around, during school hours, and threatening them with screwdrivers/tools, the principle shrugged and said "its out of my hands, nothing I can do"
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Post by: Gentleman_Jellyfish
A whole state of Steubenvilles!
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Post by: Frazzled
Que? You got me, whats that?
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Post by: djones520
Frazzled wrote: djones520 wrote:
Being in the unlawful presence of use of alcohaul. It's what they are nailing her for. It is illegal for minors to consume/purchase/possess booze.
Show me the law on that. Its illegal to purchase. No one said they purchased it.
A little semanticy I know but the whole thing is that.
Clearly certain admins need their cars keyed. Justice old school style.
Also she must suck at volleyball, or their team does. In Texas, good athletes are pretty invulnerable.
http://alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov/APIS_State_Profile.html?state=MA
Apparently of the three I listed, only consumption is not illegal. Possession is though.
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Post by: Frazzled
Define possession
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Post by: Alfndrate
Frazzled wrote:Que? You got me, whats that?
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
djones520 wrote:http://alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov/APIS_State_Profile.html?state=MA
Apparently of the three I listed, only consumption is not illegal. Possession is though.
How does one consume alcohol without possessing it? Do you like sneak a straw into someone's drink?
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Post by: Howard A Treesong
I like how going to pick a mate up from a party is now 'enabling a crime' like she's a getaway driver for a robbery. Some kids were drinking underage, that's all. Who cares, you Americans are so puritanical about that stuff. What business it is of the schools I don't know.
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Post by: djones520
Alfndrate wrote:Frazzled wrote:Que? You got me, whats that?
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
djones520 wrote:http://alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov/APIS_State_Profile.html?state=MA
Apparently of the three I listed, only consumption is not illegal. Possession is though.
How does one consume alcohol without possessing it? Do you like sneak a straw into someone's drink?
Which is probably why they never passed a law regarding consumption.
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Post by: Alfndrate
Stolen beers are best beers?
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Post by: Frazzled
Alfndrate wrote:Frazzled wrote:Que? You got me, whats that?
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
yea not that far off actually or even more so depending on location.
How does one consume alcohol without possessing it? Do you like sneak a straw into someone's drink?
Again its semantics because the issue is stupid.
"I found this bottle. I don't own it officer. "
"What bottle? I refuse consent to all searches. "
"Do you smell bacon?"
"Is that Glock in your pants or are you just happy to see me?"
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Post by: chaos0xomega
Seriously, does nobody read my posts?
There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
In college (in New York), one of the ways we avoided possession/the open container law was to simply put the container down and stand near it... unless they saw it in our hands physically we didn't possess it, it just happened to be there.
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Post by: djones520
chaos0xomega wrote:Seriously, does nobody read my posts?
There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
Yes, as the link I posted also stated. But if you expect me to buy that every kid at that party had parental permission to be getting krunk, well... it's not gonna happen.
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Post by: Gentleman_Jellyfish
chaos0xomega wrote:There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
I believe the parents have to be supervising for that to work, they can't just give their kid a pass to drink and send them off to a party.
At least I don't think so
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Post by: Alfndrate
chaos0xomega wrote:Seriously, does nobody read my posts?
There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
In college (in New York), one of the ways we avoided possession/the open container law was to simply put the container down and stand near it... unless they saw it in our hands physically we didn't possess it, it just happened to be there.
I read it, it's just funny trying to imagine a high schooler that is obviously drunk tell an officer they never possessed the alcohol they consumed
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Post by: Noir
Alfndrate wrote:
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
Not protected for a while, the DA drop the charges and has yet to recharge. Even after the girl's house was burnt down.
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Post by: Gentleman_Jellyfish
Alfndrate wrote:chaos0xomega wrote:Seriously, does nobody read my posts?
There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
In college (in New York), one of the ways we avoided possession/the open container law was to simply put the container down and stand near it... unless they saw it in our hands physically we didn't possess it, it just happened to be there.
I read it, it's just funny trying to imagine a high schooler that is obviously drunk tell an officer they never possessed the alcohol they consumed 
Does someone pouring it in to your mouth count? Automatically Appended Next Post: Noir wrote: Alfndrate wrote:
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
Not protected for a while, the DA drop the charges and has yet to recharge. Even after the girl's house was burnt down.
That's pretty disheartening
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Post by: Frazzled
chaos0xomega wrote:Seriously, does nobody read my posts?
There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
In college (in New York), one of the ways we avoided possession/the open container law was to simply put the container down and stand near it... unless they saw it in our hands physically we didn't possess it, it just happened to be there.
Time honored LA tactic as well.
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Post by: Alfndrate
Noir wrote: Alfndrate wrote:
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
Not protected for a while, the DA drop the charges and has yet to recharge. Even after the girl's house was burnt down.
You need to get your facts straight. The Steubanville case has been over for a few months with the two boys serving at least a year in jail. You're thinking of the Maryville rape case which is more recent...
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Post by: Easy E
This is about the school's rules to be part of Volleyball, not the law about alcohol. She was willingly (after all she drove to the party by choice) in the presence of someone who was drunk; therefore she can be restricted from playing school sports.
Granted, I think it is stupid; but Alf posted it in black and white. RAW.
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Post by: Frazzled
I wonder if any of the other students were suspended. It would be so ironical if not. I bet no other ones were.
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Post by: Easy E
chaos0xomega wrote:Seriously, does nobody read my posts?
There is an exemption for the possession of alcohol by minors that can be claimed from your parents or spouse, hence why consumption isn't illegal, because your parents have a right to decide whether or not you are allowed to possess and/or consume alcohol, its a fairly common sense law (though I believe some states don't allow this exemption).
In college (in New York), one of the ways we avoided possession/the open container law was to simply put the container down and stand near it... unless they saw it in our hands physically we didn't possess it, it just happened to be there.
I'm sorry, I didn't read any of that. Can you repeat that?
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Post by: timetowaste85
The fun part about "possessing" is that you have it. Therefore, by consuming it, you have it-it is in your body. Technically, it is 100% playing by the rule to hit a minor up for possession if it is in their body: they aren't holding it in hand, they're holding it in stomach.
That said, the school is fully in the wrong about this life-saving girl. The rest of the kids screwed up and got caught. Boo hoo. But she doesn't deserve it. She's the hero that her school needs. Not the hero her school wants.
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Post by: dogma
Da Boss wrote:Wow, that is completely unreal! Airsoft guns in the back yard?
It was the front yard, and near a bus stop.
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Now lots of lawsuits, claiming the school's counsel lied to the judge.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2013/10/16/lawyer-for-girl-suspended-for-trying-to-help-drunken-pal-to-sue-school-over-lie/
On the flip side, this is a First World problem and one reason why schools are so follow the policy. No principal was ever fired for successfully following procedures. Multiple lawsuits for being suspended from a couple of volleyball games? Come on..
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Post by: daedalus
It's not the weight of the punishment that bothers me as much as it is the message this is sending out. Automatically Appended Next Post: The fact that the school apparently lied about the events that occurred is... interesting, also.
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Post by: timetowaste85
I also love that "Mothers against drunk driving" are glad that she was punished for PREVENTING a fellow student from driving drunk. Everyone in that committee that sided with the school's decision needs to be publicly flogged. Possibly thrown in the stocks for a couple days too. Isn't the whole point of that to prevent drunk driving? Last I checked...that's what EC did.
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Post by: daedalus
MADD's level of credibility is barely above PETA.
You know you're a group off track when your founder speaks out about how you've forgotten your purpose. They're basically a 21st century prohibitionist movement.
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Can you translate that to English for me?
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Hint : there is more than one organisation named MADD.
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Post by: Andrew1975
It is a first world problem, that really shouldn't be a problem though. Think about it, if this girl is a talented athlete this could effect college recruiting and scholarships...that's big money! I know no good deed goes unpunished.....but really?
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Really, how? Are there volleyball scholarships? Thats a serious question. In Texas the only recognized sport is football (and of course full contact thumbwrestling) so I am unfamiliar. .
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Post by: daedalus
You reminded me of Chick.
I've spent the last 10 minutes reading tracts for entertainment purposes. I like the part where he blames the 9/11 attack on the US trying to force peace talks in the middle east that would result in dividing Israel. As in, God making all of that happen in retaliation of the above.
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I live to serve
I've spent the last 10 minutes reading tracts for entertainment purposes. I like the part where he blames the 9/11 attack on the US trying to force peace talks in the middle east that would result in dividing Israel. As in, God making all of that happen in retaliation of the above.
Yeah, you have to wonder why we'd ever want to worship the dude, given how much efforts Chick put into depicting him as a douche...
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Post by: Andrew1975
Frazzled wrote:Really, how? Are there volleyball scholarships? Thats a serious question. In Texas the only recognized sport is football (and of course full contact thumbwrestling) so I am unfamiliar. .
I'm pretty sure since title 9 there are female volleyball scholarships.
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Post by: KingCracker
djones520 wrote: easysauce wrote:how the heck does the school have any authority to issue punishments based on events that happend
1. outside of school hours
2. outside of school property
....
or are schools the newest branch of the TSA and get a free pass at ignoring peoples rights?
This goes back to the school that wanted to expel kids for playing with airsoft guns in their yard.
Uhg dont even get me fething started on that whole mess.
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Post by: Kovnik Obama
KingCracker wrote: djones520 wrote: easysauce wrote:how the heck does the school have any authority to issue punishments based on events that happend 1. outside of school hours 2. outside of school property .... or are schools the newest branch of the TSA and get a free pass at ignoring peoples rights? This goes back to the school that wanted to expel kids for playing with airsoft guns in their yard. Uhg dont even get me fething started on that whole mess. Kid shoplift after school hours : kid get expelled from school. Kid spits on the ground at a bus stop a mile from school, school's principal sees him : kid get detention. Kid break another kids teeth at a house party, during weekend, parents phone principal : kid get 20 hours of charity work to do. These are all exemples of punishment my fellow classmates got during my high school years. Rights have nothing to do with it, it's the school's prerogative to uphold their image by punishing students that conduct themselves in a manner that is contrary to that image.
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Post by: dogma
Andrew1975 wrote:
It is a first world problem, that really shouldn't be a problem though. Think about it, if this girl is a talented athlete this could effect college recruiting and scholarships...that's big money! I know no good deed goes unpunished.....but really?
Now that the case has been publicized she can point to several, freely available, news articles as evidence that she did nothing wrong; at least assuming no other information comes out. Indeed, it could be argued that this event betters her chances of receiving aid as it provides her with a story to tell; making her memorable.
Frazzled wrote:Really, how? Are there volleyball scholarships? Thats a serious question. In Texas the only recognized sport is football (and of course full contact thumbwrestling) so I am unfamiliar. .
Yes, 247 women's programs in D1 NCAA are sponsored.
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Post by: insaniak
Kovnik Obama wrote:Kid shoplift after school hours : kid get expelled from school.
Kid spits on the ground at a bus stop a mile from school, school's principal sees him : kid get detention.
Kid break another kids teeth at a house party, during weekend, parents phone principal : kid get 20 hours of charity work to do.
These are all exemples of punishment my fellow classmates got during my high school years. Rights have nothing to do with it, it's the school's prerogative to uphold their image by punishing students that conduct themselves in a manner that is contrary to that image.
The fact that your school did these things doesn't make it any more right than any other school exceeding their authority in a similar fashion.
The school has a defined duty of care. While the specifics of this will obviously vary from country to country, here in Oz this basically means that the school is responsible for you during school hours, on your way to and from school unless your parents drop you off at the gate and pick you up again afterwards, and on any outside-school school-run activity. And that's it. If you run afoul of the police, and it's outside of the time in which you are the school's responsibility, it is absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with the school.
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Post by: Kovnik Obama
insaniak wrote: Kovnik Obama wrote:Kid shoplift after school hours : kid get expelled from school.
Kid spits on the ground at a bus stop a mile from school, school's principal sees him : kid get detention.
Kid break another kids teeth at a house party, during weekend, parents phone principal : kid get 20 hours of charity work to do.
These are all exemples of punishment my fellow classmates got during my high school years. Rights have nothing to do with it, it's the school's prerogative to uphold their image by punishing students that conduct themselves in a manner that is contrary to that image.
The fact that your school did these things doesn't make it any more right than any other school exceeding their authority in a similar fashion.
The school has a defined duty of care. While the specifics of this will obviously vary from country to country, here in Oz this basically means that the school is responsible for you during school hours, on your way to and from school unless your parents drop you off at the gate and pick you up again afterwards, and on any outside-school school-run activity. And that's it. If you run afoul of the police, and it's outside of the time in which you are the school's responsibility, it is absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with the school.
No, that's their legal responsibility of you. Any school that isn't bound by a student rights law they are either legally forced to follow or decide willingly to, can punish their students in any way they can. Of course, kids do not have any legal responsibility toward the completion of the punishment.
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Post by: daedalus
Kovnik Obama wrote:
No, that's their legal responsibility of you. Any school that isn't bound by a student rights law they are either legally forced to follow or decide willingly to, can punish their students in any way they can. Of course, kids do not have any legal responsibility toward the completion of the punishment.
I'm trying to figure out where the legal default for level of enforcement from government bodies designed to educate was "anything except what the law prevents us from doing".
Perhaps I misunderstand the purpose of law, but it seems odd that human beings require the law to protect them from the government, on any level.
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Post by: Andrew1975
Now that the case has been publicized she can point to several, freely available, news articles as evidence that she did nothing wrong; at least assuming no other information comes out. Indeed, it could be argued that this event betters her chances of receiving aid as it provides her with a story to tell; making her memorable.
Sure, now that is the case, after she and her family made a big stink out of it, which they should not had to have done. What about the other kids that may have had the same issue, but just took the punishment. Should never have been an issue in the first place.
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Post by: KalashnikovMarine
daedalus wrote: Kovnik Obama wrote:
No, that's their legal responsibility of you. Any school that isn't bound by a student rights law they are either legally forced to follow or decide willingly to, can punish their students in any way they can. Of course, kids do not have any legal responsibility toward the completion of the punishment.
I'm trying to figure out where the legal default for level of enforcement from government bodies designed to educate was "anything except what the law prevents us from doing".
Perhaps I misunderstand the purpose of law, but it seems odd that human beings require the law to protect them from the government, on any level.
The entire American Constitution is designed to protect human beings from the government on some level.
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Post by: Howard A Treesong
Noir wrote: Alfndrate wrote:
Steubanville, Ohio where a young lady was raped at a party by two football players, who were subsequently 'protected' for a while by school and city officials.
Not protected for a while, the DA drop the charges and has yet to recharge. Even after the girl's house was burnt down.
Speaking of which here's another similar story.
http://m.smh.com.au/technology/technology-news/the-next-steubenville-hacking-group-anonymous-targets-missouri-teen-rape-case-20131015-2vk4c.html
Seems these hick towns really like their football players. Shame those schools don't have a zero tolerance policy on rape.
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Post by: AlmightyWalrus
Andrew1975 wrote:Now that the case has been publicized she can point to several, freely available, news articles as evidence that she did nothing wrong; at least assuming no other information comes out. Indeed, it could be argued that this event betters her chances of receiving aid as it provides her with a story to tell; making her memorable.
Sure, now that is the case, after she and her family made a big stink out of it, which they should not had to have done.
"Hey, someone's decided to punish me for being a good human being, let's ignore it and hope it goes away!"
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Post by: LuciusAR
This really must be one of the most ludicrous things I’ve read in some time. A Student helping a friend in this way is worthy of praise not punishment.
The sniveling little bureaucrat who made this decision needs a swift kick in the backside.
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Post by: Frazzled
EDIT: Yes, 247 women's programs in D1 NCAA are sponsored.
Thanks!
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