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Me and my girlfriend broke up. I unfriended her on facebook, and she blocked me (lulz). I posted the following as a public note. The details are not specific. Ask if you so please

EDIT; Erased the note

Several of her friends will read this and no doubt feel something about it. I could really care less at this point. Public notes are the only way to get my point across now that she blocked me.

So dakka, have I made a terrible mistake by writing a nasty note? Sorry in advance for the cursing. I wrote feth and gak, respectively

Didn't read quote in its entirety. Honestly I think that anything to do with GF/babymammadrama belongs between the two folks involved. Posting a public comment about it is pretty bad form.

In general it's not useful to say anything negative to people if you can avoid it.

If you gain some sort of catharsis, or are more able to live your life happily as a result of posting this note, then perhaps it serves its purpose, but in general, it's best to avoid saying anything negative if you don't have to, especially on the internet, where it's essentially permanent.

That said, it sounds like you're a young fella, so, really, none of this matters at all. Just try to make every relationship a learning experience, so by the time you're starting to think longterm you have the skillset to make it longterm.

You mis-spelled 'apology' Still reading...

Also, if you are a dick to her you pretty much won't be able to feth her anymore and her friends will think you are an donkey-cave which means you won't have the chance to feth them either.


Pays to be nice to the ex in alot of ways. Makes you look like a really nice guy too, which is good if her friends are hot.

agroszkiewicz wrote:. Honestly I think that anything to do with GF/babymammadrama belongs between the two folks involved. Posting a public comment about it is pretty bad form.

This, pretty much. I watch enough daytime television to know that all this can do is stir up trouble and animosity. Better to keep things private, and let things cool off. If you really don't want to speak to her or deal with her any more, you can do that by just... not speaking to her. You don't need to rile up her friends- which will happen if you so much as wave the vaguest suggestion of blame of any kind in her direction.

Also, sorry to hear about the break-up. That's never fun.

Ah....None of you really know the story, but thanks anyway

It's not that simple. All her friends are amazed I've put up with her gak for this long in this first place, and frankly, so do I.

Like I said, she's blocked me. She doesn't return my texts..She doesn't talk at all. She's a gak-head about communication, and that's basically what's caused this whole thing.

Ah well, if her friends are on your side then it's a different matter.

I still would leave it at what you've done, though. You know... just in case....

urgh.


Don't wash your dirty laundry here, this isn't a social networking site.

Also, grow a pair of balls. Man the feth up and deal with things instead of opening your private life up to commentary and advice of strangers. This isn't a reality show, it's reality. Your business is your business, stop crying publicly and start being a man.

Use more grail knights!

MeanGreenStompa wrote:urgh.


Don't wash your dirty laundry here, this isn't a social networking site.

Also, grow a pair of balls. Man the feth up and deal with things instead of opening your private life up to commentary and advice of strangers. This isn't a reality show, it's reality. Your business is your business, stop crying publicly and start being a man.

I was trying to be nice, but basically this.

Samus_aran115 wrote:Ah....None of you really know the story, but thanks anyway

It's not that simple. All her friends are amazed I've put up with her gak for this long in this first place, and frankly, so do I.

Like I said, she's blocked me. She doesn't return my texts..She doesn't talk at all. She's a gak-head about communication, and that's basically what's caused this whole thing.

You know what that means? Back to your old avatar. Huzzah!

(In all seriousness, hope you're on the rebound soon )

I know that reading this thread was a mistake. Aside from that i can't help you.

Well at least post the fething message, dude.

If you're going to be a bear, be a grizzly. I'm so glad that when I was at this awkward age I didn't have the internet to make an ass of myself on. If you guys miss this thing I just totally walked into, son I am disapoint.

Emohitler feels ur pain man...

"You know what you are? You're like a big bear with claws and with fangs... "

You're money!!

I couldn't come close to posting the rest of that dialogue.

Giving that speech, or similar ones, is one of life's great pleasures. Even if it's just to yourself prior to "closing the deal.."

? I'm lost.

I didn't get to read your note, but uhh... if your ex is the chick in your avatar, you should A- remove her from your avatar, and B- introduce her to me

chaos0xomega wrote:I didn't get to read your note, but uhh... if your ex is the chick in your avatar, you should A- remove her from your avatar, and B- introduce her to me

I believe the young woman in his avatar is already involved...with two gentlemen...one sparkles...

FITZZ wrote:

chaos0xomega wrote:I didn't get to read your note, but uhh... if your ex is the chick in your avatar, you should A- remove her from your avatar, and B- introduce her to me

I believe the young woman in his avatar is already involved...with two gentlemen.

At the same time?

that doesn't look at all like kristen stewart if that is what is being implied.

Monster Rain wrote:

FITZZ wrote:

chaos0xomega wrote:I didn't get to read your note, but uhh... if your ex is the chick in your avatar, you should A- remove her from your avatar, and B- introduce her to me

I believe the young woman in his avatar is already involved...with two gentlemen.

At the same time?

I may be incorrect...but isn't the woman pictured in his avatar the chick from the Twilight films??

Kristen Stewart? Pretty sure it isn't but I could be wrong?

No, it's not. I have no idea who it is but I keep being forced to watch those films by my housemate, and that is not Bella.

chaos0xomega wrote:Kristen Stewart? Pretty sure it isn't but I could be wrong?

That's the one,IIRC Samus,at some point in time,mentioned that was who was pictured in his avatar.

I think its a tranny.

I could be wrong.

His current avatar is not Kristen Stewart.

Monster Rain wrote:I think its a tranny.

I could be wrong.

Hmmm...that could be true as well.


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loranafaeriequeen wrote:His current avatar is not Kristen Stewart.

Ah,well...my mistake then.