Forge world uses a number of different resins/fillers depending on what they are casting.
What are you trying to cast? By wanting a softer resin, are you planning on carving the product?
I use Smooth-On's 320 for my casting. You can see pics of the product in my blog. It casts well with a bit of talc and has a hard finish.
Edit: try checking out this page http://www.smooth-on.com/liqplas.htm The hardness rating of the product I recommended is 70, but they have other products with hardness ratings of 45. Maybe something like Smooth cast 45D is what you want.