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Strangers aren't going to accomodate your personal issues.
If you are talking about friends here then, yikes.

The onus is entirely on you to control yourself, just as the onus is on other people to not act like ass hats. Unfortunately; A: you can only control your own reactions to people B: no-one is going to to go jail for 'teasing' an adult.

The scenario you are describing seems increasingly bizarre.

Seems like a reasonable note to end on.