My first instinct is to say that you perhaps need to decide which game appeals to you most at the moment, and flop down on that side of the fence!
If you truly cannot decide (although it looks to me like you are having reservations about WFB, so you may have made up your mind already!) then I wuld advise giving
WM a go.
My reasons are that from what you have said (which is all the information about your life I have!) then it seems the
WM option is more flexible. You aren't tied to a store where you have to play with "official" miniatures and the like, as you are with the
GW store - where,
IIRC, you are required to own a copy of the rulebook and army book before you can play. That means you are more likely to be able to turn up and borrow stuff for a game or two, just to see if you like it. If you don't, then no harm done, and you move on. Your options for "try before you buy" WFB gaming seems more limited. Maybe you could turn up with your
WE's and see if one of the staffers could run you through a game to see how things are truly affecting your army, but whether or not that would be much use depends on the Blue Shirts and how human they are in your new location.
Personally I''d trawl the net for an independent gaming club operating in your neck of the woods (try the GCN website for starters, and Google if that fails). With an independent gaming club you can just rock up and chill out for a couple of weeks until you see how things lie. You'd at least very likely be able to get a try at WFB with your woodies without having to fork out for a copy of the rulebooks straight off. You also may come across another, as yet unguessed, third options - such as Uncharted Seas, Secrets of the Third Reich, Armies of Arcana, or something, that blows WFB or
WM out the water for you!
Good luck, and good hunting!
Automatically Appended Next Post: A quick Google found these guys:
http://southamptonstrikeforce.webs.com/
There are also a couple of other clubs listed under Hampshire that may be accessible here:
http://www.gameslore.com/acatalog/Clubs.html
Your nearest GCN club seems to be Solent Wargamers in Portsmouth:
http://www.gamingclubnetwork.org/modules/clubs/
I'm not sure of your travel arrangements, so these may or may not be of use.