http://www.kjmagnetics.com/proddetail.asp?prod=ZD4
N35, 3mm x 1.5mm
100 for $3.00
I got 500 with s/h for less than $20. Don't ebay them, you're getting ripped off.
I use them on space marine arms. Sometimes I don't want that Sgt to have a power sword...
I sink the magnets into the torso by drilling it out until the magnet can sit flush with the arm area.
In the shoulder I drill out using the same process. Make sure the holes align. The magnets will align up perfectly, even if you don't want them to.
In the arm I make sure the magnet is aligned properly by putting it next to the torso one, with my xacto knife inbetween.
I then add glue to the arm hole I drilled out for the magnet. Put the arm onto the magnet. I use the hobby knife to hold the magnet in while I move the arm away from torso.
Once the glue dries the N35 strength is enough to hold a Metal
SM arm in any posed position.
If you're thinking large model I would look at a bigger magnet or stronger one.
Make sure you don't have magnets glued into place that polarize from each other, that's bad...
Look around their website you should be able to find some decent size (and strength) magnets on there.