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Well the last four months meant a timeout for me.
I met that certain someone, we had fun walks along the coastroads, on the frozen sea.
saw and photographed a lot.
had a hell of a time together.
Two weeks ago, we decided to go steady.
two days after that we half-decided that she'd sell her condo, move in with me while she looks for an apt to sublet.

aside from this, i lost half my "friends" due to me stepping in front of one of my pfc's when he started beating his wife, and sic'ing the police on him.

the weekend after that occured, one of the girls i had dated earlier called me at half past four in the morning, something was off, she was sobbing and making a mess of herself. so i took a cab to see her.
She stood there, clutching herself, makeup allover her face.
turns out she'd been raped at a party.
So i took her to the hospital.

ah, yes. that someone i met.
she died the day after we talked about moving in together.

i'm more than a bit broken.
dunno what i'm going to do, give up? nah. but damn it hurts.
i miss her every. single. minute. of the day.

on top of all this, my ex-wife is harassing me since she knows my Maja died. its just how she rolls, she wants me to sign over judicial custody to her of our daughter, i told her no, that there's nothing that can make me sign anything like that. i am a father.
So we're off to the courts again.

and to add to all of this, a client didnt accept that i am on sick leave, so they sued me for breach of contract.
i had informed them that i was, why i was.
they told me that they just couldnt be brought to give a single solitary feth about it.

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I'm sorry to hear that you've had a bit of a rough time, does sound as if things must have been very tough at times.

I hope things get better for you soon and you come out on the other side of this smiling.

I'm afraid this isn't really the place for this sort of post/discussion so I am going to have to lock this now, if only to stop someone, for whatever reason, saying something that makes things worse.

Keep your chin up though, and remember that you've got that little girl who will always need you whatever happens.

Good luck fella !