It is regrettable that there are not more female main characters in games that are not a "me too" of a prior successful male character.
What few there are usually a bit ummm... exaggerated in behavior or looks (Lara Croft springs to mind).
I personally like to treat everyone as gender neutral as possible just for the utility of it (good habit for keeping married men out of trouble).
I have found when getting on good "friend" terms with ladies at work they have commented that being nice but not responding to flirtation upset them to no end.
They thought I was gay at first and some of the guys thought so too when I did not take part in the "manly man look at that woman" moments.
Everyone wants to be included and treated "special" in a nice way and do not like to be treated like everyone else.
Women still lag behind in being paid equally for the same job of a guy: the culture especially in business has not caught up just yet.
I personally want "differences" between sexes to be minimized in being pointed out or ignored altogether but you cannot treat a woman as a man or a man as a woman so in some small ways you cannot really win in making all things equal unless you treat both groups different than they are used to.
X-com, you are "commander" you could be he or she, the troops: I swear I get more women than men.
Mass Effect I think did well to create a consistent male and female persona for the games.
I like that some of the highest rated games are inclusive in interest to either sex which shows they are getting a clue that there is money to be made if you can make it interesting for anyone.
I am worried of "over adjustment" where the "equality" striven for goes too far and shifts the balance the other way.
I am getting a little sick of seeing so many shows and yes, games that portray the man as a "meathead" where the long suffering smart woman has to help him navigate this confusing world so some turnabout is being felt.
I think that the most irritating thing for women is that men make many assumptions about women and implement things without getting further information and irritating them to no end because
it is not even intentional.
Got a Roman Catholic background so Sisters of Battle: power armor nuns is an incredibly scary concept.