Filite is likely a brand name as opposed to an actual material. I dont think I have ever come across the term.
There are a variety of fillers that you can use depending on what you want to accomplish. Glass micro ballons are common for just extending the resin...they also weigh less, so can help reduce weight for large items.
Other fillers can be used to change material properties, colors, and other choices for extending the resin. There is a limit to how much you can add though, as eventually there isnt enough resin to hold it all together.
Here in the US, Smooth On and Alumilite are the two big suppliers that are readily available.
http://www.smooth-on.com/Urethane-Plastic-a/c5_1119/index.html
http://www.alumilite.com/Category.cfm?Category=Support%20Products
Other companies will offer other fillers, and you can even buy them from unrelated companies.
Regarding mold releases, keep in mind that powders quite often retain moisture. Moisture is the bane of urethane resins, causing all sorts of problems. Liquid mold releases, sprays and what not, can often give more reliable results.