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Why is it so hard to stay civil? (check as many as apply)
It's hard to judge "tone" on the internet
People are looking to be offended
People deliberately trying to offend/attack
Strongly held opinions that make it hard to "live and let live"
Desire to have the "last word".
Inability of some to express opinions respectfully
Easier to be agressive when you can't see the other person

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Overland Park, KS

Its not just dakka, its people.

A lot of people are just incapable of civility I think, unfettered anonymity makes it even easier. But that's not to say I haven't had ignorant bs spewed in my face before.

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Fixture of Dakka






Arlington, Texas

daedalus-templarius wrote:Its not just dakka, its people.

A lot of people are just incapable of civility I think, unfettered anonymity makes it even easier. But that's not to say I haven't had mentally impaired bs spewed in my face before.


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Overland Park, KS

hit quote instead of edit fail.

Well, i changed my wording anyway, thanks for pointing that out.

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Are we not reasonable?

Edited to reflect editing by others.

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Overland Park, KS

Monster Rain wrote:
daedalus-templarius wrote:Its not just dakka, its people.

A lot of people are just incapable of civility I think, unfettered anonymity makes it even easier. But that's not to say I haven't had ignorant bs spewed in my face before.


The irony in this post is delightful.


The point I was trying to make, is that I've had plenty of people argue straight nonsense/hypocritical/ignorant positions to my face, so its not just the internet. My choice of wording was poor, and I have corrected it.

   
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Manchester, NH

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:We can't stay civil because I exist.


I'm surprised at that.

I was led to understand that "God makes no mistakes".

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Arlington, Texas

Mannahnin wrote:
Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:We can't stay civil because I exist.


I'm surprised at that.

I was led to understand that "God makes no mistakes".


XD

On that note, the Ellen performance of Judas was absolutely horrible. Homegirl needs a long hiatus, methinks, especially if the album is as... not as good as the last two singles have been.

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Chicago

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:
Mannahnin wrote:
Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:We can't stay civil because I exist.


I'm surprised at that.

I was led to understand that "God makes no mistakes".


XD

On that note, the Ellen performance of Judas was absolutely horrible. Homegirl needs a long hiatus, methinks, especially if the album is as... not as good as the last two singles have been.


   
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Arlington, Texas

Karon wrote:
Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:
Mannahnin wrote:
Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:We can't stay civil because I exist.


I'm surprised at that.

I was led to understand that "God makes no mistakes".


XD

On that note, the Ellen performance of Judas was absolutely horrible. Homegirl needs a long hiatus, methinks, especially if the album is as... not as good as the last two singles have been.




Red X indeed.

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I'm not aware of the performance in question, as I don't actually listen to Gaga. I only had that lyric in my head because HBO has been pimping her upcoming concert special with a short video of her and backup singers doing an acapella version, and I've seen it twice.

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USA

Some people on this forum are looking to be offended. But I think it's mostly just because it's the internet, and therefor you have anonymity... and so does everyone else. this causes lots of problems.

But I don't think we actually hate eachother.

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Swindon, Wiltshire, UK

Melissia wrote:Some people on this forum are looking to be offended. But I think it's mostly just because it's the internet, and therefor you have anonymity... and so does everyone else. this causes lots of problems.

But I don't think we actually hate eachother.


I am offended by this comment.
   
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Lincoln, UK

corpsesarefun wrote:
Melissia wrote:Some people on this forum are looking to be offended. But I think it's mostly just because it's the internet, and therefor you have anonymity... and so does everyone else. this causes lots of problems.

But I don't think we actually hate eachother.


I am offended by this comment.


Then I hate you.

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Springhurst, VIC, Australia

I have found an educational video to help enlighten people:

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The biggest cause, IMHO, is that you don't know who you're arguing against... It could be a scrawny little 8 year old, or that guy at the gym... you know, the huge one... And they really can't do anything but yell back at you.

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Mannahnin wrote:
Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:We can't stay civil because I exist.


I'm surprised at that.

I was led to understand that "God makes no mistakes".


God doesn't, he is merely another sign of the end!

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All of the above. It is just how the Internet Hate Machine works. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

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All in all I've found people to be helpful and friendly on this site and I've had no problems whatsoever. But as a rule of thumb, I tend to stay clear of political discussion to avoid arguements as my views would upset people and I don't want that. As far as I'm concerned, Dakka is a place for army lists, drooling over great miniatures, advice on painting, and banal discussion on which is the best Stars Wars film. Long may that continue.

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