really for tau, you need to rely on the alpha strike, destroy their marker lights turn one, once they're gone then its some pretty inaccurate shooting.
If you go first, then its simple enough, if you go second deploy anything outside
LoS that can alpha strike, and throw everything else in reserves.
IG I can't offer any advice as I've never fought them, but really kill everything with an
AV value and ignore the rest, or
MSU to hell and spread your force out, wyverns can only kill a thing a turn eh?