Hi
SK! My experience is that Dakka is welcoming to anyone that wants to get along. There is a general ban on politics. Left, right, top, bottom, or anywhere in between, leave it at the door.
You can be anyone you want to be. It’s not like joining up puts a camera in your room for us to spy on you. That takes time. Say, 50 posts or so. So you can decide between here and there.
It’s like anywhere in the world. You can voice an opinion and other people can voice theirs. Dakka has open admission, but if you regularly act like a jerk you’re apt to be shown the door. Think of it like going to a friend’s party. People of all walks of life might be there. If you don’t play by the friend’s rules, they might ask you to leave.
It is my (positive) experience that the site Mods are pro-inclusivity, and will stand on the side of defending individual rights. I think you’ll be alright.
That said... opening your posting with an overall accusation of gamers being dicks might be missing the tone of this site. I find the site is overall welcoming to anyone trying to get along. Please get a feel for the site before throwing out “most gamers are dicks” threads.