I have a 0.35mm as well, but it depends on more than just nozzle size, I think it has more to do with the annular shape of the nozzle and needle. I have one brush with a very long nozzle and needle which seems to require much thinner paint even though both are 0.35mm.
I think it's almost impossible to describe the correct consistency, especially since it varies from airbrush to airbrush and it depends what you are trying to achieve (fine details require lower pressure and thinner paint than if you're simply trying to get good coverage).
Which is why I try and explain the process to finding the right consistency rather than trying to describe a specific viscosity
I've always hated the milk description. For one, it varies from country to country, maybe there's somewhere that has super thick milk, but the milk I have in my fridge is way too thin as a comparison for airbrushing paint

For two, milk has a massively different surface energy, personally my measure of consistency is how well the paint flows off the hairy brush and down the side of the paint cup, but because milk has a different surface energy it doesn't behave the same way at the same viscosity so it's not really a useful reference.