Olthannon wrote:
Mad Doc Grotsnik wrote:The news only broke yesterday. It’s not
GW’s place to make such an announcement first. Or indeed without the family’s permission I’d say.
There are still many folks within
GW who worked with him for years, if not decades. One imagines they’re lost for words, as many Dakkanauts were, and we only ever knew of him.
His wife Lin specifically asked Trish to break the news precisely for that reason, as they've been good friends for decades.
Given that they do an artwork through the ages I'm sure they'll do one for John either this week or after the Armageddon release.
It was a nice enough tribute, it's difficult as a company to put out something in a way that hits home like his closer friends and colleagues have done. I'd like them to do a bit more and hopefully they will.
A fair view on the thing.
Grief is a difficult thing. And we all process it in our own way.
Speaking solely for myself? My Dad was incredibly well regarded within the Scout Movement, to the point he received the Silver Wolf. An award that’s given at the Chief Scout’s discretion.
When he died, in front of my brother? It fell to me to let those that needed to know, know. I chose to do it via Facebook myself, after I’d
PM’d immediate family (I didn’t and still don’t have their numbers). Then I emailed the Scouts to let them know.
No matter Dad’s standing within that organisation? Not one of them was as close to Dad as my brother and I were. Of course they weren’t. If they were, I almost certainly wouldn’t have held Dad in the regard I did.
My point? When it comes to someone passing? It’s for the family to break the news. Every. Single. Time. And any organisation, be it a company or a charity or however you want to describe The Scouts? They should, ideally, seek the family’s consent, if not approval of how they share the news.
We only ever knew John Blanche as a fantastical artist with an incredible influence on the worlds we like to inhabit. To others? He was a husband, a father, a dear friend and so on.
The words used were brief. Yes. But that last line, to me, shows they’re heartfelt. It’s not for
GW to gush about the guy. Not right now. That would be intruding. Arguably trying to co-opt the death of someone held in high regard for corporate attention.
And let’s face it, this is the Internet. Whilst not necessarily the same people? If
GW had posted a gushing obituary? There’d be counter accusations of trying to monetise his death.
For me? I think they played it about nice. Short. Direct. Respectful. Genuine.