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They are mostly your close friends? Yeesh, that kinda sucks man.

Well... What would you do???

I have something to say , that is totally different then what others replied... I dont think you'll like what im about to say , but rest assured im trying to be impartial.

Everyone have issues , including her. Its sad to say if an issue effects us , we'll care . Yet when the problems dont hurt us directly , we like to ignore it or pretend a problem doesnt exist .
And for the victims that does get effected by it , complains , they suddenly gets branded as a drama whore. Thats not fair imo , but it happens ... alot.

For example , this thread is a complaint , for the people that dont care of dont have sympathy for , also sees it as drama.

So what will happen? Let it go , the clan will split .
According to her side "the bad seeds" have been separated . But if she really is a drama queen , its only time that the same thing will repeat itself. And at that time she have no innocent people to blame.

By then , she can either accept that she is the epicenter of the problem , or she can continue drawing new fans of perverted old man that will go along with w/e she wants.

Then it'll be an endless cycle , and she'll "grow" up like that.

Is this game world of warcraft by any chance? And no im not that person huhuhu

Around these parts we refer to Luna's statement as official text from the Captain Save-A-Hoe handbook.

The official transcript here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6PodtDfdb4

Wrexasaur wrote:Around these parts we refer to Luna's statement as official text from the Captain Save-A-Hoe handbook.

The official transcript here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6PodtDfdb4

Dont mock me , my post is serious and it has wisdom

I didn't say it didn't... BTW.

This concerns a gaming group Luna, and if someone cannot enjoy themselves there, what then?

You don't have to take me so seriously, and on top of that you can actually ignore me... just a thought.

I have to say I agree with luna I was with the rest of yall, but lunas post makes alot of sense and looks like a good way of dealing with it

(man luna I agree with you and complimate your work to much I'm gonna have to start sending hate mail to you soon)

Kragura wrote:(man luna I agree with you and complimate your work to much I'm gonna have to start sending hate mail to you soon)

Okay... I think there was a joke in there, somewhere around the hate-mail part...

Wrexasaur wrote:This concerns a gaming group Luna, and if someone cannot enjoy themselves there, what then?

But usually when a situation happen when one cannot enjoy themselves , there is a victim , as well as a jerk that started it.
we cant punish the victim while the jerk can go around making new victims.

Its like someone retorting to a troll , and they both get equal punishment.

Why would i put you on ignore ? where is the hate comming from ?

Luna wrote:Why would i put you on ignore ? where is the hate comming from ?

No hate, just no need to take what I say so seriously. If you have a problem with the link please P.M. me and I will drop it. You don't want to meet my hate Luna, 3 heads and a snappy sense of sadistic humor enhanced by a rage that could drop a bull... anyway.

I personally do not play favorites, and the person who starts it ends it, period. If someone is OBVIOUSLY making the situation worse then they can be held accountable, but the two to tango technique is quite antiquated in most situations now.

You have Trolls, then you have professional Trolls, a huge difference if I may say so myself.

Wrexasaur wrote:No hate, just no need to take what I say so seriously. If you have a problem with the link please P.M. me and I will drop it. You don't want to meet my hate Luna, 3 heads and a snappy sense of sadistic humor enhanced by a rage that could drop a bull... anyway.

I personally do not play favorites, and the person who starts it ends it, period. If someone is OBVIOUSLY making the situation worse then they can be held accountable, but the two to tango technique is quite antiquated in most situations now.

I dunno... im just terribly confused atm.

Just a thought ... would our last 2 replies count as drama lol?

Not in my book Luna.

Drama is in my face, not on a screen that I can liberally shut off when I see fit.

Drama has two faces and no body, which could be extended to represent the internet on a whole, but the fact is I am who I say I am .

IIIIIIIIII support pillars of Wrex.

the game is Many games we dont do MMORPG's. so no not warcraft.

This is just the latest in a long long line of drama so i'm not buying the victim thing anymore. i am actually totaly spent with this whole thing. I'll paly my game with whom i want and avoid her. thanks for the imput.
xx

Lordhat wrote:If the drama is that bad, I'd suggest leaving the clan yourself. If that's not an option for you then it's probably not that big a deal, although annoying. You won't get the drama if you don't associate with the drama queens.

Agreed. Take other members and form your own "clan." Start the initiation ritual by eliminating members of the former clan. I'd adopt a similar color scheme as well when you go out in public. Mayhaps blue. Hey I already thought of a name for you: "Clan of Roze's Included People" or CRIP. You and the other CRIPs can have great times.

Here's a draft pic of you as the founding member




(If I'm posting this now, I think we're in for a bumpy ride)

"We were fighting the man AND eating what we wanted."

LOl Frazzled you never fail to cheer me up. I'm actually just going to find a new game for awhile i think

And ideas what other games might be good fun? *FYI I HATE army games*