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Oh no, you just said the L word.

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I am 30, and married to my first real girlfriend from high school. Going on 9 years in September.

We first dated when I was 16, but we broke up multiple times, went years without dating each other, both had real relationships with other people with whom we were also in love with.

Our breakups were hard, they hurt, loving other people and being friends was awkward at times and hard at other times, but it was all part of growing and learning.

The only real peice of advice I can give.

Ugh, heres my response to everyone in this thread.