Paints out of the pot are almost always far thicker than they need to be. You should never paint straight out of the pot, and always thin your paint to the right consistency.
It sounds to me like you are adding too much water, and so turning your paint into a wash.
Generally you put some paint onto a palette (or just a plate is fine). Then you add water using the brush... I.e you dip the brush into your water, and because the bristles have an absorbent quality they will soak up a tiny amount of water. Then using the wet brush you mix a bit of the water into your paint until it is the right constancy. Then remove the brush, wash it and dry it to remove any excess water. You are now ready to start painting.
You can also thin your paints with retardent, which is like water but it doesn't cause the pigments to break apart. So you can get your paint even thinner.
It's easy to pick up from art stores or online.
Here is a Tamiya one I found on ebay. It doesn't matter which brand you buy though really, as they are all the same (mostly glycerine I think) so just get the cheapest you can find.
I'm a big fan of paint retardent because it slows drying time slightly, which allows you to wet blend highlights on the model, and also do much finer details because you run paint of a much finer brush without it drying on the bristles.