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I kinda let it slip that I like this girl. I let it slip to her. I have no idea what to do.
Should I ask her out, or stay in the friend zone and pretend it never happened?
I'm kinda lost at the whole dating thing, as at 15, I've never been kissed by a girlfriend, had 1 girlfriend, and she dumped me 5 days in. So, some help would be nice
Every Normal Man Must Be Tempted At Times To Spit On His Hands, Hoist That Black Flag, And Begin Slitting Throats.
Well...if the "cats out of the bag" anyway,and you are attracted to her and wish for your relationship to move "beyond" the "friend zone" ask her if she'd like to go with you to see a movie or to some other activity you think she'd enjoy.
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chowderhead13 wrote: I've never been kissed by a girlfriend
I remember my first kiss happened some time in elementary school, mind you the girl was doing it to embarrass me in front of my friends instead out of sheer love.
I've been a fan of the direct approach. you let it slip, yet no one talks about the fact everyone knows how you feel?
that's just lots of uncomfortable moments until you 2 talk. and i'm not saying go overboard and propose the next day.
do like Fitzz said. say lets go see a movie, or hang out some where, and talk. just don't leave it undiscussed if there's
a lot of awkwardness.
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Come again some other day
The devil has my ear today
I'll never hear a word you say" Weak and Powerless - APC
chowderhead13 wrote: I've never been kissed by a girlfriend
I remember my first kiss happened some time in elementary school, mind you the girl was doing it to embarrass me in front of my friends instead out of sheer love.
O.o Ok yeah my first kiss was nothing like that. More of accidental "OH Gak moment." Where it just happened.
Anyway the WarboSS TZOO advice is great Idea if you live in New Jersey (No offense).
Seeing as you live in Canada. the Girl might like you. Just don't ask the "Do you like me?" Question it usually ends with the girl freaking out.
Where is Cannerus when you freaking need him?
From whom are unforgiven we bring the mercy of war.
You already let it slip, so just flat out say 'hey you wanna go do something?' i mean tommorrow IS Valentines/Corporate Sponsored Romantic Holdiday Day, so your timing is at least good.
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ChrisWWII wrote:You already let it slip, so just flat out say 'hey you wanna go do something?' i mean tommorrow IS Valentines/Corporate Sponsored Romantic Holdiday Day, so your timing is at least good.
I don't celebrate Valentines day. But chowderhead13 get out there and make some romance.
From whom are unforgiven we bring the mercy of war.
WARBOSS TZOO wrote:Grab your club, hit her over the head, and drag her back to your cave. The classics are classic for a reason.
Dang so that's whee I've been going wrong all these years
Anyway, if you let it slip just ask her to the cinema or something like that, If your old enough to drink, try asking to go for a drink, alcohol helps move things along.
(That's the British way anyway )
WARBOSS TZOO wrote:Grab your club, hit her over the head, and drag her back to your cave. The classics are classic for a reason.
Dang so that's whee I've been going wrong all these years
Anyway, if you let it slip just ask her to the cinema or something like that, If your old enough to drink, try asking to go for a drink, alcohol helps move things along. (That's the British way anyway )
age limit in canada is 18 lol. And did you really use the word Cinema. You are my hero :hugs:
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From whom are unforgiven we bring the mercy of war.
blackclaw1 wrote:Get the rag our , ask her if it smells like chloroform and then wahay , but seriously just go for it ,Whats the worst that could happen.
She turns into something resembling your avatar... Or mine for that matter
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Emperors Faithful wrote:
metallifan wrote:Maybe it's not the ROFLSTOMP that Americans are used to...
Meh, I've said it in these sorts of threads before " Faint heart never won Fair Maiden."
You can do nothing...and stay alone.
...Or..you can ask her out..worst case..your still alone.
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Or mine for that matter