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FITZZ wrote: Meh, I've said it in these sorts of threads before " Faint heart never won Fair Maiden."
You can do nothing...and stay alone.
...Or..you can ask her out..worst case..your still alone.
Its happy and depressing at the same time.
Emperors Faithful wrote:
metallifan wrote:Maybe it's not the ROFLSTOMP that Americans are used to...
I'd say do something, and do it now. I told a girl I liked her just before christmas, and the only things we did was talk about it. I was too scared to do something, because I was too scared wether she wouldn't like it. Now I fear it's too late, too much time has passed. Anyway, tomorrow's valentine's day, so go for t, thats whait I'm doing tomorrow
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Scrazza wrote:I'd say do something, and do it now. I told a girl I liked her just before christmas, and the only things we did was talk about it. I was too scared to do something, because I was too scared wether she wouldn't like it. Now I fear it's too late, too much time has passed. Anyway, tomorrow's valentine's day, so go for t, thats whait I'm doing tomorrow
Oh wow tomorrow is valentines day... Ahhh... Another alone...
Emperors Faithful wrote:
metallifan wrote:Maybe it's not the ROFLSTOMP that Americans are used to...
I kinda let it slip that I like this girl. I let it slip to her. I have no idea what to do.
Should I ask her out, or stay in the friend zone and pretend it never happened?
I'm kinda lost at the whole dating thing, as at 15, I've never been kissed by a girlfriend, had 1 girlfriend, and she dumped me 5 days in. So, some help would be nice
Ask this girl out. There are three possible outcomes:
No - No!, laughing in your face, Awkwardness, 'I like you, but..'
Yes - Yes! 'OMG I thought you would never ask'.
'Let me think about it'..see yes and no.
Live life like you mean it and abandon the dubious safety of the friend zone.
Pffft, we all know you've been stalking her; heck i've been watching you when you do it ¬.¬
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Mandorallen turned back toward the insolently sneering baron. 'My Lord,' The great knight said distantly, 'I find thy face apelike and thy form misshapen. Thy beard, moreover, is an offence against decency, resembling more closely the scabrous fur which doth decorate the hinder portion of a mongrel dog than a proper adornment for a human face. Is it possibly that thy mother, seized by some wild lechery, did dally at some time past with a randy goat?' - Mimbrate Knight Protector Mandorallen.
Excerpt from "Seeress of Kell", Book Five of The Malloreon series by David Eddings.
"You need not fear us, unless you are a dark heart, a vile one who preys on the innocent; I promise, you can’t hide forever in the empty darkness, for we will hunt you down like the animals you are, and pull you into the very bowels of hell." Iron - Within Temptation
Ask her out with all the confidence you can muster. Ladies love a man with confidence. Make it something low-key, like the movies are something, and if you're feeling the vibe use the ol'yawn and stretch.
That being said, if you're asking for dating advice on a miniatures wargaming website take everything with a grain of salt.
Go for it, if she ceases being friends with you because of this, she wasn't really your friend in the first place.
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If you really like this chick, play it cool. I like to use this approach: "Hey (her name), I'm gonna go out to eat later with some friends and wanted to know if you wanna come with, if so I'll pick you up @6, but if your busy don't worry about it." This is kind of a tricky way to find out if the girl likes you as well. See, What I did with that sentence is 1. Ask her out. derrr lol 2. let her know it's a public place (so she won't feel threatened) 3. I also gave her a way out, if she doesn't like you in "that" way. 4. I let her know that I have friends and am a generally likable guy. All that knowledge with just the opening statement to her. Now, if she says "yes", congrats BTW, you know know that she does dig you enough to spend her valuable time with you. Here's the plan: pick her up RIGHT AT 6, don't be early (shows that your overly eager and not cool), and don't be late(this tells her that you don't care enough about her to be on-time, women hate that). Your probably asking yourself "but I don't wanna go out with my idiot friends" LOL Don't worry, they won't be there, when she asks where your friends are at, just tell her that they bailed on you to hang out at their house and play video games, drink, do drugs, etc... This tells her that your a caring upstanding person and would rather spend time with her than with your friends doing "fun" stuff(Chicks love that). Soooo at this point in the evening she should have a pretty good opinion of you, make the most of it. Good luck and remember to wrap that raskel!
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Well in truth, I'm in a very similar situation to you. I am, in fact, 15, have never been kissed and only had one girlfriend . And of course that only lasted a week. So that means I can't really give you much advice, but I do understand, at least to some extent. Though at the moment there's not any girls that really spark my intrest (though there has been several over the years).
Just ask her out. At the end of the day, most of the advice doesn't really matter. If she likes you she'll likely say yes to whatever date you invite her on, and she'll end up suffering through the nerves and awkwardness of that first date just as much as you will be.
And if she doesn't like you, then well she doesn't like you and she'll almost certainly say no no matter what date you invite her on. Nothing much to do about it but move on, and try and find some other girl you might like. It sucks and it's something we've all been through, but the important thing to remember is that girls are pretty mysterious in why they might like one boy and not another, if a girl doesn't like you it really doesn't reflect on you.
But I can tell you that a guy who asked a girl and got rejected is infinitely happier and more respected than the guy who keeps pining over a girl but never does anything about it.
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Adam Smith, who must have been some kind of leftie or something.
Scrazza wrote:I'd say do something, and do it now. I told a girl I liked her just before christmas, and the only things we did was talk about it. I was too scared to do something, because I was too scared wether she wouldn't like it. Now I fear it's too late, too much time has passed. Anyway, tomorrow's valentine's day, so go for t, thats whait I'm doing tomorrow
Oh wow tomorrow is valentines day... Ahhh... Another alone...
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Just punch her in the face, she might like it..... Failing that stick your willy in her drink when shes gone to the toilet, then when she comes back say you needed to cool it down cos it couldn't take her lady heat... Infact dont do that, it only works if your manhood is impressively tiny like mine.
Mary Sue wrote: Perkustin is even more awesome than me!
Just put the hard word on her If shes a nice girl she will just slap you try to make it so all her friends see it. Now your a bad boy and we all know how much the ladies like a dude that treats them like gak.
And lets not forgot they other way things could go down you could apply the hard word and she might be a "goer" and thus you could end up balls deep with very little effort.
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OoieGoie wrote:Chicks are trouble. Punch her in the face and scream "IM FREE FOREVER"!!!
or...
Ask her out for coffee\hot chocolate\desert\all the above!
or...
Date her fat friend. Do her like she's never done before. Word will spread. Dump fat friend, take out girl. Works in theory.
or just date her fat friend because life is just less complicated with a fat chick and you get to feel like your doing the community a service because big girls need love too =)
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Damn I cant wait to the GW legal team codex comes out now there is a dex that will conquer all.
Perkustin wrote:Just punch her in the face, she might like it..... Failing that stick your willy in her drink when shes gone to the toilet, then when she comes back say you needed to cool it down cos it couldn't take her lady heat... Infact dont do that, it only works if your manhood is impressively tiny like mine.
Well done...just well done.
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Date her fat friend. Do her like she's never done before. Word will spread. Dump fat friend, take out girl. Works in theory.
The problem with that, is the original girl might think Chowder has a fetish for fat-chicks so she starts destroying her nice slim body into an over-weight one just to impress him.
Slarg232 wrote:Dude, ask her out. The worst thing she can say is No, and after that there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Thats for wussies. Time to man up and join the French Foreign Legion.
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. And of course that only lasted a week. So that means I can't really give you much advice, but I do understand, at least to some extent. Though at the moment there's not any girls that really spark my intrest (though there has been several over the years).
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If shes a nice girl she will just slap you try to make it so all her friends see it. Now your a bad boy and we all know how much the ladies like a dude that treats them like gak.
