arinnoor wrote:For example never seen someone get grilled that they didn't have frag and krak modeled on their marines
Nor should they, basic equipment isn't needed to be WYSIWIG, as there is no way to not have it.
The best thing to do is just make sure it's consistent. If all of your stuff has a certain upgrade modelled but you don't want it on any of them, then people won't be annoyed. If you have 3 Raiders with every option modelled but each has its own different selection actually paid for, then people will get annoyed.
I rarely get annoyed over upgrades other than guns being modelled because I never know what the upgrade parts on different sprues actually look like aside from Imperial vehicle upgrades, because those are relatively straight forward (searchlight is a searchlight, dozer blade is a bull dozer scoop, etc).
That said, you will come across the odd grognard who won't accept anything aside from WYSIWIG. Ignore them, call one of the tournament staff over if needed.