Well, there are a lot of big questions here, but to give some answers then fluff-wise,, Salamanders and UM have good relations with human armies, more secretive chapters like
DA and Iron Hands less so.
Azreal is really to expensive for that kind of gimmick, I prefer him for 1500+ pure
DA lists myself (Also, his
FOC changes unfortunately only work on primary detachments, so
DW/
RW troops is not doable) . Tigurius could be good, but don't overlook the generic libby, he is dirt cheap in
DA and C:
SM and can provide good support, like divination for the
DA and biomacny from
SM, as well as the much-valued ASTKNF .Tigurius is nice for reliability, but the cheap options are often better in terms of allies.
As for tactical advice, I'll link you to an article I wrote recently on using
SM allies, rather than repeating it all here:
http://antorsfinest.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/space-marines-as-allies.html
Hope that helps.