Can I use both groups freely between one another?
Now that I've got the big question out of the way please let me elaborate. I have been an avid painter (casual player) of the
40k series and have only recently begun playing the game. I chose Grey Knights as my army since I ended up buying more of their units than any other and got absolutely crushed in my first game (I suppose that's the entry fee, huh?

). Since my devastating defeat at the hand of the Eldar I bought my newest Gey Knight codex and picked up the Astra Militarium one as well because there are a lot of their tanks and aircraft I enjoy painting. After reading through the codex's I found that all imperium forces can be played together on the field. Is this correct or am i interpreting this wrong? Once I read this I immediately went to the store and bought a Hydra and a Valkyrie gunship. I quickly assembled and meticulously painted the two of them over two weeks time. they came out wonderful in my eyes. So, when I propositioned the person who beat me last time to play again he agreed. As soon as I started laying my 1500 point army (may have been more) onto the table I was interrupted and told that he would not play me unless I had at least two squads of Grey Knights (not including my Paladins), and another squad of Imperial Guard. I was awestruck. I just stood there as if wanting to say, "But I want to use armor with only a few troops. this is my army, not yours". So, I had a few words to exchange with him and I eventually packed up my things and left. Was I warranted in my thinking? Can I not having Imp Guard Armors/Fliers with Grey Knights?
My Grey Knight army is as follows (complete loadout excluded to expidite):
Castellan Crowe
Lord Khaldor Drago
Grey Knight Paladins
Grey Knight Terminators
Grey Knight Venerable Dreadnought (Power Fist and Twin Linked Las Cannon)
Imperial Guard Valkyrie (Hellstrike Missiles and repeating Laser)
Imperial Guard Hydra (Twin Linked Flak Cannons)
*Optional* Grey Knight Land Raider (Twin Linked Las Cannons)
Any ideas what I've done wrong or why I was given that response to my army?
*edited due to error and such.