Yes, wash wont do mutch for flat panels. you need to do it the hard(and over time, fun) way, aka paint damage, if you are not doing traditional layer highlights, or edge highlights.
Scratches can be done whit the smalles brush you have plus in this case a metal colour. no need for steady hands, cuz damage aint perfeckt.
Then i would grab a dark brown and as insaniak said, lightly apply it on a bit of sponge and lightly dab the model with it. For futher effect, you can use various shades of brown oil paint and do streaks/ add deapth to the metal scratches.
2 things to keep in mind: a; apply a clearcoat before each stage, else you will ruin the paintjob. oilpaint use thinner and thinner just rubs of the paint very easily. b: it is very easy to overdo it if you use more then 1 style of weathering to the point where it looks just wrong.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNBeRdi_cf8