Andrew1975 wrote:
No, I don't think it was that. I mean when I said "learn to argue like an adult" it was obvious to anybody that I did not mean argue like a person of a certain age, that's just silly.
Yes, it is, and that's the basis for understanding 'adult' and words like intelligent, wise, or mature as synonyms. I was questioning your use of the word because I don't consider it to be reasonable use of it in the course of anything approaching reasonable argument; ie. people may use 'adult' in that fashion, but I don't care because I consider it to be a worthless usage. You can cite dictionary definitions all you want, but at that point all you're doing is making an appeal to authority, which is really justadmitting that you can't make the argument yourself.
Andrew1975 wrote:
Threats are by nature indicative of causing harm.
The minimal definition of 'threat' is 'something impending', the word carries a negative connotation, but connotation is not definitive. This is what I meant by my comment regarding your seemingly linear thought process. There are plainly other definitions of threat that are not negative; notably 'something impedning' comes from Merriam-Webster's. However, instead of acknowledging that my example made sense in light of that, and made sense in light of the original dispute (regarding whether or not differing threats require differing responses) you chose to pretend as though it couldn't possibly be valid; despite the fact that I clearly explained the the circumstances in which it could be.
Andrew1975 wrote:
A threat assessment does not include counting the enemies ability to give hugs to your troops.
No, in that environment hugs would not be considered a threat, but in another, they might. Again, the whole point of my dispute with you in that thread regarded your lean on the idea that brutality is always the best way to deal with threats. I began with a very abstract example in order to force you into admitting that different threats require different responses. I would have then proceeded to argue that, based on that, even if you accept that brutal responses are always better, you still have to situationally define what constitutes a brutal response; turning the whole 'brutal is better' argument into what is essentially platitude. The thread close before I had a chance to do that, though.
Andrew1975 wrote:
The use of the term hug as a threat is only viable as an oxymoron, it had no place in the argument.
You wouldn't feel threatened if a beautiful woman stated that she would give you a lingering hug; knowing that it would make your wife jealous?
Andrew1975 wrote:
The fact that you followed it up with more semantic debates, and pretended not to know the full meanings of words, and then injected your chosen meanings, well i felt it was underhanded and not worthy tactics. But whatevs everyone has their style, yours is more guerrilla, then I appreciate though. It's a fair tactic, but hardly sporting.
I didn't pretend not to know the meaning of anything, I honestly asked you what your intended meaning was. Again, dictionaries, like all other sources, are not considered definitive of anything except themselves; ie. what dictionary.com says a word means is only what dictionary.com says a word means. I then injected my own meaning into the argument because I didn't agree with yours. You processed that as an underhanded argument for some reason, possibly because you're not accustomed to the type of argument that is common in academic circles. Note again that this followed from you asking me to 'argue like an adult'.