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2013/09/27 20:26:27
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Sniping Reverend Moira
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I saw this on CNN while I was at the gym today. I didn't even know what to say, as I can't imagine "talk to my 13 year old son about autoerotic asphyxiation" is in the typical parental chats handbook.
http://www.wpbf.com/news/south-florida/palm-beach-county-news/police-investigate-hanging-death-of-eddie-dejesus/-/8815578/22142986/-/da9hftz/-/index.html
PALM BEACH GARDENS, Fla. —Police are investigating the hanging of middle school student Eddie DeJesus, whose mother found the 13-year-old boy hanging unconscious in his closet last week.
Ed DeJesus Sr. said his son was rushed to St. Mary's Medical Center last Tuesday and was pronounced brain dead Saturday.
DeJesus said his son did not commit suicide but was practicing a secret, deadly game that kills hundreds each year.
"There's this thing called a 'thrill hanging' where kids get, I guess, a high off of not having enough oxygen," DeJesus said.
DeJesus said his son was practicing autoerotic-asphyxiation, a practice of cutting off the oxygen supply to heighten sexual arousal. DeJesus said he's angry he'd never heard about it, so he could have warned Eddie how dangerous it is and not to try it.
"This is something people don't want to talk about, and when it happens to you, you feel sad, you feel ashamed (and) you feel angry," DeJesus said. "But I'm not ashamed of my son. I love my son. My son was amazing."
The family is planning Eddie's funeral for Oct. 11, and DeJesus said he wants to prepare a talk to give students about the dangers of autoerotic-asphyxiation.
Police said they have ruled out bullying in the death, but they are questioning friends and classmates for more information.
Read more: http://www.wpbf.com/news/south-florida/palm-beach-county-news/police-investigate-hanging-death-of-eddie-dejesus/-/8815578/22142986/-/da9hftz/-/index.html#ixzz2g7vMayFV
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2013/09/27 20:28:51
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Old Sourpuss
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The choking game... been there, done that...
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2013/09/27 20:48:16
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Lone Wolf Sentinel Pilot
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Ban masturbation
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"So, do please come along when we're promoting something new and need photos for the facebook page or to send to our regional manager, do please engage in our gaming when we're pushing something specific hard and need to get the little kiddies drifting past to want to come in an see what all the fuss is about. But otherwise, stay the feth out, you smelly, antisocial bastards, because we're scared you are going to say something that goes against our mantra of absolute devotion to the corporate motherland and we actually perceive any of you who've been gaming more than a year to be a hostile entity as you've been exposed to the internet and 'dangerous ideas'. " - MeanGreenStompa
"Then someone mentions Infinity and everyone ignores it because no one really plays it." - nkelsch
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2013/09/27 20:50:25
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Not to pick apart the dads words at a very bad time for him...but have we really gotten to the point were we need to tell our children that hanging themselves to get off is generally a bad idea?
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2013/09/27 20:57:29
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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 ironicsilence wrote:Not to pick apart the dads words at a very bad time for him...but have we really gotten to the point were we need to tell our children that hanging themselves to get off is generally a bad idea?
It's the choking game... I honestly don't know if you guys know wtf that is, but basically you choke yourself out until you're about to pass out and then you get that whole euphoric feeling from the lack of oxygen. When I was 15 a few of my friends did it by putting people in a sleeper hold and then they'd describe what they saw. I did it once, and when the monkey in a suit on a cruise started to tell me about Jesus, I left the room we were hanging out in. Eventually some kid who had discovered masturbation would eventually try to combine the two and pull a David Carradine.
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2013/09/27 21:58:35
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Zealous Sin-Eater
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 Alfndrate wrote:It's the choking game... I honestly don't know if you guys know wtf that is, but basically you choke yourself out until you're about to pass out and then you get that whole euphoric feeling from the lack of oxygen. When I was 15 a few of my friends did it by putting people in a sleeper hold and then they'd describe what they saw.
The best hallucinogenic trips I have ever had. You black out for, what, 10-15 seconds, but it feels like you've just taken a 2 hours trip to wonderland. Last time, I kayaked through an entire river of insane rapids.
Tho, don't do this, kids. You pretty much loses all motor functions, and if you don't have good friends, you'll end up banging your head on the floor real hard. I didn't have good friends  .
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2013/09/27 22:01:20
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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[MOD]
Anti-piracy Officer
Somewhere in south-central England.
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2013/09/27 22:25:20
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Renegade Inquisitor de Marche
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 Kovnik Obama wrote: Alfndrate wrote:It's the choking game... I honestly don't know if you guys know wtf that is, but basically you choke yourself out until you're about to pass out and then you get that whole euphoric feeling from the lack of oxygen. When I was 15 a few of my friends did it by putting people in a sleeper hold and then they'd describe what they saw.
The best hallucinogenic trips I have ever had. You black out for, what, 10-15 seconds, but it feels like you've just taken a 2 hours trip to wonderland. Last time, I kayaked through an entire river of insane rapids.
Tho, don't do this, kids. You pretty much loses all motor functions, and if you don't have good friends, you'll end up banging your head on the floor real hard. I didn't have good friends .
Yeah I've done it once or twice...
Weirdest thing ever... wouldn't recommend frankly.
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Dakka Bingo! By Ouze
"You are the best at flying things"-Kanluwen
"Further proof that Purple is a fething brilliant super villain  " -KingCracker
"Purp.. Im pretty sure I have a gun than can reach you...."-Nicorex
"That's not really an apocalypse. That's just Europe."-Grakmar
"almost as good as winning free cake at the tea drinking contest for an Englishman." -Reds8n
Seal up your lips and give no words but mum.
Equip, Reload. Do violence.
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2013/09/27 22:28:06
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Hangin' with Gork & Mork
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That is also how I describe hobby gaming.
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Amidst the mists and coldest frosts he thrusts his fists against the posts and still insists he sees the ghosts.
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2013/09/27 22:35:01
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Renegade Inquisitor with a Bound Daemon
Tied and gagged in the back of your car
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Where's Cheryl Tunt when you need her?
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2013/09/27 22:39:29
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Renegade Inquisitor de Marche
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Yeah but hobby gaming doesn't include a weird hallucination that involves Mario Kart on 4 times speed with 8 bit music...
Unless you have been sniffing glue...
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Dakka Bingo! By Ouze
"You are the best at flying things"-Kanluwen
"Further proof that Purple is a fething brilliant super villain " -KingCracker
"Purp.. Im pretty sure I have a gun than can reach you...."-Nicorex
"That's not really an apocalypse. That's just Europe."-Grakmar
"almost as good as winning free cake at the tea drinking contest for an Englishman." -Reds8n
Seal up your lips and give no words but mum.
Equip, Reload. Do violence.
Watch for Gerry. |
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2013/09/27 22:41:00
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Jovial Plaguebearer of Nurgle
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Wow, what are the chances. I feel bad for the kid and his family.
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2013/09/27 22:44:05
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Decrepit Dakkanaut
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How can this Dad honestly say he's never heard of it before?? IIRC this is the same way that David Carradine went... and he was a fairly household name for guys in the 90s...and well, anyone who's watched the Kill Bill movies.
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2013/09/27 22:53:08
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Androgynous Daemon Prince of Slaanesh
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This better not come back to have backlash on South Park. They did an episode years ago about doing this "making your orgasms super awesome". I believe that's a direct quote. It sucks, but...really? You strangle yourself and DON'T think it's gonna be a bad thing. There's a lot of tragedy in the world, but this is senseless stupidity. Feel very bad for the family suffering.
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2013/09/27 22:55:33
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Hangin' with Gork & Mork
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I would think the internet would get blamed before South Park.
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Amidst the mists and coldest frosts he thrusts his fists against the posts and still insists he sees the ghosts.
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2013/09/27 23:00:01
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Lone Wolf Sentinel Pilot
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This thread has convinced me to try this
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"So, do please come along when we're promoting something new and need photos for the facebook page or to send to our regional manager, do please engage in our gaming when we're pushing something specific hard and need to get the little kiddies drifting past to want to come in an see what all the fuss is about. But otherwise, stay the feth out, you smelly, antisocial bastards, because we're scared you are going to say something that goes against our mantra of absolute devotion to the corporate motherland and we actually perceive any of you who've been gaming more than a year to be a hostile entity as you've been exposed to the internet and 'dangerous ideas'. " - MeanGreenStompa
"Then someone mentions Infinity and everyone ignores it because no one really plays it." - nkelsch
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2013/09/27 23:00:02
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Stone Bonkers Fabricator General
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Kovnik Obama wrote:The best hallucinogenic trips I have ever had. You black out for, what, 10-15 seconds, but it feels like you've just taken a 2 hours trip to wonderland. Last time, I kayaked through an entire river of insane rapids.
Tho, don't do this, kids. You pretty much loses all motor functions, and if you don't have good friends, you'll end up banging your head on the floor real hard. I didn't have good friends .
Damn. So what I'm wondering is, would you rather your kid be dropping drugs like psychedelic mushrooms or DMT some of which do not even have lasting side effects, or would you rather they were almost killing themselves/others to get that high feeling?
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2013/09/27 23:05:11
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Renegade Inquisitor de Marche
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IMO, Mushrooms...
Drugs aren't horrible as long as you aren't a freaking idiot about them and don't do anything too hard.
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Dakka Bingo! By Ouze
"You are the best at flying things"-Kanluwen
"Further proof that Purple is a fething brilliant super villain " -KingCracker
"Purp.. Im pretty sure I have a gun than can reach you...."-Nicorex
"That's not really an apocalypse. That's just Europe."-Grakmar
"almost as good as winning free cake at the tea drinking contest for an Englishman." -Reds8n
Seal up your lips and give no words but mum.
Equip, Reload. Do violence.
Watch for Gerry. |
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2013/09/27 23:20:41
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Anti-Armour Swiss Guard
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The dad had "never heard of it".
I suppose David Carradine and Michael Hutchence didn't ring a bell, either?
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I'm OVER 50 (and so far over everyone's BS, too).
Old enough to know better, young enough to not give a ****.
That is not dead which can eternal lie ...
... and yet, with strange aeons, even death may die.
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2013/09/28 01:24:22
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Zealous Sin-Eater
Montreal
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 ph34r wrote: Kovnik Obama wrote:The best hallucinogenic trips I have ever had. You black out for, what, 10-15 seconds, but it feels like you've just taken a 2 hours trip to wonderland. Last time, I kayaked through an entire river of insane rapids. Tho, don't do this, kids. You pretty much loses all motor functions, and if you don't have good friends, you'll end up banging your head on the floor real hard. I didn't have good friends .
Damn. So what I'm wondering is, would you rather your kid be dropping drugs like psychedelic mushrooms or DMT some of which do not even have lasting side effects, or would you rather they were almost killing themselves/others to get that high feeling?
Definitely the mushrooms. And if he could bring me some good ones, I'd appreciate it, everytime I've tried mushrooms I've failed to takeoff. Although, when kids, we used to get our choking high not through actual choking, but from hyperventilating and then keeping our breaths. 1) Adopt the foetal position, with your back to a wall and a friend facing you, 2) breath quickly and shortly in and out for about thirty seconds, 3) Rise up while keeping your breath, once up, have your friend push both hands flat against the top of your ribcage, right under your pectorals, and keep pressure there for about ten seconds, 4) Fly, fly higher then you've ever flown before. Also, if one of you geniuses decide to die this way tonight, know that I'll be using the Darwin Award defence in case of lawsuits.
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2013/09/28 01:30:28
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Fixture of Dakka
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Kovnik Obama wrote: ph34r wrote: Kovnik Obama wrote:The best hallucinogenic trips I have ever had. You black out for, what, 10-15 seconds, but it feels like you've just taken a 2 hours trip to wonderland. Last time, I kayaked through an entire river of insane rapids.
Tho, don't do this, kids. You pretty much loses all motor functions, and if you don't have good friends, you'll end up banging your head on the floor real hard. I didn't have good friends .
Damn. So what I'm wondering is, would you rather your kid be dropping drugs like psychedelic mushrooms or DMT some of which do not even have lasting side effects, or would you rather they were almost killing themselves/others to get that high feeling?
Definitely the mushrooms. And if he could bring me some good ones, I'd appreciate it, everytime I've try mushrooms I've failed to takeoff.
Although, when kids, we used to get our choking high not through actual choking, but from hyperventilating and then keeping our breaths. 1) Adopt the foetal position, with your back to a wall and a friend facing you, 2) breath quickly and shortly in and out for about thirty seconds, 3) Rise up while keeping your breath, once up, have your friend push both hands flat against the top of your ribcage, right under your pectorals, and keep pressure there for about ten seconds, 4) Fly, fly higher then you've ever flown before.
Also, if one of you geniuses decide to die this way tonight, know that I'll be using the Darwin Award defence in case of lawsuits.
Yeah, I've done that way too many times in high school.
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2013/09/28 01:32:38
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Sniping Reverend Moira
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Jesus. What ever happened to just smoking pot, the Dutch rudder, or the stranger.....
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2013/09/28 01:37:15
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Zealous Sin-Eater
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 cincydooley wrote:Jesus. What ever happened to just smoking pot, the Dutch rudder, or the stranger.....
Dude, choking came years and years before pot.
And while the Dutch Rudder is Definitely, Totally Not Gay tm, I'd rather get a hypothetical girlfriend to handle that job.
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2013/09/28 01:39:00
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Kovnik Obama wrote:
Also, if one of you geniuses decide to die this way tonight, know that I'll be using the Darwin Award defence in case of lawsuits.
Tempting, but I can't imagine it compares to the high that comes from self-righteous internet rage.
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2013/09/28 01:43:08
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Zealous Sin-Eater
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 daedalus wrote:Tempting, but I can't imagine it compares to the high that comes from self-righteous internet rage.
Well, duh, self-righteousness is best righteousness. 
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2013/09/28 01:45:02
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Hallowed Canoness
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Glory to Darwin! Another has been selected!
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I beg of you sarge let me lead the charge when the battle lines are drawn
Lemme at least leave a good hoof beat they'll remember loud and long
SoB, IG, SM, SW, Nec, Cus, Tau, FoW Germans, Team Yankee Marines, Battletech Clan Wolf, Mercs
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2013/09/28 02:34:38
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Heroic Senior Officer
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I hope that last spank was a good one. It'd really suck to go through all that trouble and it not even work.
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2013/09/28 04:49:37
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Blood Angel Captain Wracked with Visions
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My first thought too
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2013/09/28 05:43:26
Subject: 13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Although, when kids, we used to get our choking high not through actual choking, but from hyperventilating and then keeping our breaths. 1) Adopt the foetal position, with your back to a wall and a friend facing you, 2) breath quickly and shortly in and out for about thirty seconds, 3) Rise up while keeping your breath, once up, have your friend push both hands flat against the top of your ribcage, right under your pectorals, and keep pressure there for about ten seconds, 4) Fly, fly higher then you've ever flown before.
See, this I don't get. I never got this choking thing. Sure, I've known people who were into it, but I could never understand why.
The world is full of sexual kinks - and some of them are not only stranger than you imagine, they are stranger than you CAN imagine.
I dropped acid, smoked some joints and narc'd in my younger years - those were enough for me. These days I don't even get drunk. Sure, I'll have a few drinks, but never enough to get drunk. I know my limits and I don't push them.
It's not something I enjoy - and given my background, something I'd probably not come back from (alcoholism runs in my family on both sides).
(Narc'd as in 'had nitrogen narcosis' - something that many scuba divers have had happen at least once. Its symptoms are a lot like being drunk - without the hangover. )
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I'm OVER 50 (and so far over everyone's BS, too).
Old enough to know better, young enough to not give a ****.
That is not dead which can eternal lie ...
... and yet, with strange aeons, even death may die.
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2013/09/28 06:21:56
Subject: Re:13-Year Old Autoerotic Asyphxiation Death
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Y'all are weird as feth.
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