I'm coming out (so you better get this party started)

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**Deadshane1**

LunaHound wrote:
The Revelator wrote:I'm starting here because I'm fairly comfortable with all you guys, and nobody here knows me in real life. I'm trying to gather the courage to tell my actual, real-life friends. I think it is wrong of you to be so harsh when I'm just trying to make myself a better person and stop living a lie.

@ everyone else: Thanks for the support.

Its not the worst that can happen right? there are plenty of people struggling and willing to stay alive .

Never consider suicide for these reasons:

1) Think of all the animals that died , resources used up to sustain you for X number of years just for you to throw it all away.

2) Live for the people that wanted to live but couldnt ( disease , accident , victims of things etc etc )

3) Live for the people that are in worse situation then you , but are fighting very hard despite the hardship .
Talk to some survivors of bad accidents , borrow some courage and wisdom from their experience.

I think that message is stupid but if it motivates one to not kill himself...so be it.

**LunaHound**

Deadshane1 wrote:
I think that message is stupid but if it motivates one to not kill himself...so be it.

Umm you never know , there ARE people out there that do think beyond just themselves .

**whatwhat**

dogma wrote:Can you?

Is that supposed to be directed at me?

Am I going to be able to post on these forums now without you sniping at me? Grow up Dogma.

**Deadshane1**

Thats my point...I dont agree with your reasons, but so long as suicide isnt seen as a "way out"...its all good.

I personally beleive that animals are meaninless in comparison to human life.

**Witzkatz**

Wait, where was someone talking of suicide here?

I think by "stop living a lie" he meant "telling his friends and family" and not "killing himself". Really, he said he wanted to make himfself a better person, not a more dead person.

**whatwhat**

The Revelator wrote:It's made me consider suicide (and I still do occasionally).

**garret**

A friend of mine is going to come out in the middle of the mall. its part of this social norm project. its going to be hilarious.

**Deff Dread red Edition**

We're talkin' suicide as the OP metions it in his first post.

**Witzkatz**

Ah, now I see it. Sorry, guys.

So, well, revelator, don't kill yourself.

**djphranq**

I'd offer support to the topic creator but their avatar is just sooooo stupid. I'm trying to sympathize with you... but you have a crappily drawn firewarrior as your avatar... you coming out is the least of your problems... just for your tau avatar, you should kill yourself.

HAHAHA

anyway

Good on you, topic creator for whatever your endeavors are and such.

Good on you, everyone for responding and adding to the discussion.

Good on you, Dexter for juggling family life and killery... that's a word right? killery?

**Roze**

Well shane is right don't kill yourself. There are far worse things you could be

i always find telling people shocking news works very well if you scare the socks off them with a big old lie first. for example...
"Guys i really have to tell you something...it's been eating me up for a while now...I killed 3 people and ate them...." *keep the seriouse face* "HAHA only kidding i am transgender though" ice breaker and at least you didnt kill anyone

**dogma**

whatwhat wrote:
Is that supposed to be directed at me?

Am I going to be able to post on these forums now without you sniping at me? Grow up Dogma.

It was an honest question. If you took it as a lance that's your business.

**whatwhat**

An honest question, sure. You of course meant othing by it. I'm not stupid you know.

I'm not just going to continue some personal fued with you, unlike you seem to want to, I have no interest in it. Grew out of that long ago. I'll just keep away from the off topic forum from now on, you carry on believing whatever you want dogma.

You win, feth it.

**dogma**

whatwhat wrote:An honest question, sure. You of course meant othing by it. I'm not stupid you know.

Of course I meant something by it. I meant to ask you a question. This isn't rocket science.

whatwhat wrote:
I'm not just going to continue some personal fued with you, unlike you seem to want to, I have no interest in it. Grew out of that long ago. I'll just keep away from the off topic forum from now on, you carry on believing whatever you want dogma.

You win, feth it.

What are you talking about?

**whatwhat**

I don't know perhaps you calling me an "antisocial dick" or "utterly stupid."

And if you want to continue your bs that your supposed question wasn't just you sniping at me, what exactly are you refering to? Can I keep it to myself? What dogma, tell me?

**Kilkrazy**

Locking this thread for going off topic and being unhelpful.