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If he has the money..... then I approve of this trolling.

 timetowaste85 wrote:

 Cheesecat wrote:
I don't see what's wrong with cheating if someone's doesn't feel satisfied with their partner, why should someone remain committed to a person they don't enjoy being with anymore?

I think this post is a new low for off topic. You seriously need a reevaluation of life if you think cheating is okay. And by the way, this message has been reworded multiple times to be as nice as possible. Other responses I wanted to give would likely get me banned for life.

In complete agreement. It takes a seriously warped mind to ever think going behind a spouses back for something like sex could ever be anything but an indicator that you are a terrible person.

A bit personal, but hey, it works as an example: my paternal grandfather cheated on my grandmother, and basically tore apart my father's childhood. And he always made sure me and my sister knew about that. So don't tell me cheating is fine in my face, because if you do, then I don't care if I get charged with assault/suspended from college I am going to punch you in the face.

 Admiral Valerian wrote:


This is why you shouldn't cheat. There are some people out there who'd snap and kill you (or worse) if you do.

Posting anime memes is an excellent way to fastrack yourself to half the forums ignore list.

I think this has officially ceased to be a discussion, and it goes down in the books as "cheesecat is just wrong". When it's "one vs all", it's time to reevaluate. Or he's trolling to see who he can rile up. If it's trolling, good work-you succeeded well. If you're serious, seek counseling.

 Corpsesarefun wrote:

 Admiral Valerian wrote:


This is why you shouldn't cheat. There are some people out there who'd snap and kill you (or worse) if you do.

Posting anime memes is an excellent way to fastrack yourself to half the forums ignore list.

Actually that one is not off the mark. I might not be homicidal over the issue, but there are people out there who might.

 Cheesecat wrote:
but still the cheating could have been an important transition for the person breaking up and finding a new, healthier relationship.

wat

 Admiral Valerian wrote:


Actually that one is not off the mark. I might not be homicidal over the issue, but there are people out there who might.

A notion that could be easily expressed in text, as you just did.

 Corpsesarefun wrote:

 Admiral Valerian wrote:


Actually that one is not off the mark. I might not be homicidal over the issue, but there are people out there who might.

A notion that could be easily expressed in text, as you just did.

I concede the point.

Now THAT is an Alpha man's response!

Bravo.

I feel sorry for Tiffany and Touhy.

 Easy E wrote:
I feel sorry for Tiffany and Touhy.

It's ok, they can always change their stripperific names later

 Dreadclaw69 wrote:

 Easy E wrote:
I feel sorry for Tiffany and Touhy.

It's ok, they can always change their stripperific names later

Their working names are Tiffani and Touhi as we've learned here.

 whembly wrote:
Now THAT is an Alpha man's response!

Bravo.

Sarcasm?

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:
Now THAT is an Alpha man's response!

Bravo.

Sarcasm?

Probably not-it's quite an awesome response to a cheating a-hole. I would have used the b-word, but it doesn't matter what gender does the cheating, so it becomes a-hole.

Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:
Now THAT is an Alpha man's response!

Bravo.

Sarcasm?

Nope.

I think moving next door is dumb... but, that statue? He can move on to other things now knowing that his ex will see that every day.

Then, he needs to get all of his worker girls to party at his house.

But, then again. I have ZERO sympathy for the cheater.


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Manchu wrote:
Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Slinking away to obsurity after the divorce isn't manly either.

Cheating spouse should be publically humiliate IMO and branded as the proverbial scarlet letter.

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:
Now THAT is an Alpha man's response!

Bravo.

Sarcasm?

Nope.

I think moving next door is dumb... but, that statue? He can move on to other things now knowing that his ex will see that every day.

Then, he needs to get all of his worker girls to party at his house.

But, then again. I have ZERO sympathy for the cheater.


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Manchu wrote:
Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Slinking away to obsurity after the divorce isn't manly either.

Cheating spouse should be publically humiliate IMO and branded as the proverbial scarlet letter.

Whembly, I feel like you and I should be best friends.

 timetowaste85 wrote:


Whembly, I feel like you and I should be best friends.

I have that affect on everyone it seems.

I've learned the hard way and swallowed that "red pill".

It's time that we all knock each other off that "pedestal" and fething talking to one another.

 whembly wrote:

It's time that we all knock each other off that "pedestal" and fething talking to one another.

But it's so much better to hide in my ivory tower of pseudo-intellectualism and quip about fallacies, real or imagined.

Seriously though. I agree with this. The BS here gets too thick sometimes*.


* Every time.

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:
Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Slinking away to obsurity after the divorce isn't manly either.

Obscurity? How can one be obscure in relation to one's own life? This seems to imply a mindset where the man defines himself around his ex-wife's life rather than his own. The mean-spirited version of that is called vindictiveness.

 timetowaste85 wrote:

 Cheesecat wrote:
I don't see what's wrong with cheating if someone's doesn't feel satisfied with their partner, why should someone remain committed to a person they don't enjoy being with anymore?

I think this post is a new low for off topic. You seriously need a reevaluation of life if you think cheating is okay. And by the way, this message has been reworded multiple times to be as nice as possible. Other responses I wanted to give would likely get me banned for life.

Agreed. If people don't want to be with someone they should break up with them. Blaming someone else for your cheating is pathetic , I mean It's their fault you are running around behind their back and lying to them?

In short, cheating is a sad ego boost, people should just man up and say I want out. If you cannot communicate with your partner on why you are feeling dissatisfied I have no idea why you are in it in the first place.

Other than than cheaters could just be sad individuals who think that lying and sneaking around on someone makes them "smarter"

I also have feth all patience for cheating.

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:
Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Slinking away to obsurity after the divorce isn't manly either.

Obscurity? How can one be obscure in relation to one's own life? This seems to imply a mindset where the man defines himself around his ex-wife's life rather than his own. The mean-spirited version of that is called vindictiveness.

Nope... It gives actual consequences to the cheating spouse.

In this case this is justified... If you want to call it vindictive, by all means go ahead... Zero feths given here.

 whembly wrote:


Cheating spouse should be publically humiliate IMO and branded as the proverbial scarlet letter.

I most definitely agree.

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:
Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Slinking away to obsurity after the divorce isn't manly either.

Obscurity? How can one be obscure in relation to one's own life? This seems to imply a mindset where the man defines himself around his ex-wife's life rather than his own. The mean-spirited version of that is called vindictiveness.

Nope... It gives actual consequences to the cheating spouse.

In this case this is justified... If you want to call it vindictive, by all means go ahead... Zero feths given here.

Or ... be a man, move on with your life.

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:

 whembly wrote:

Manchu wrote:
Vindictiveness is hardly manly.

Slinking away to obsurity after the divorce isn't manly either.

Obscurity? How can one be obscure in relation to one's own life? This seems to imply a mindset where the man defines himself around his ex-wife's life rather than his own. The mean-spirited version of that is called vindictiveness.

Nope... It gives actual consequences to the cheating spouse.

In this case this is justified... If you want to call it vindictive, by all means go ahead... Zero feths given here.

Or ... be a man, move on with your life.

So being a "man" means that you have no recourse to address the cheating wife?

Best response is something like what the op article state and then move on....

IMO, you don't ever let such transgression go unanswered.

A). You throw her out.
B). If she doesn't care... Then you "announce" to the whole world what she did... She'll suffer a "loss" in the eyes of her circle of friends and family... And for a socially active chick... That's painful.
C). THEN you move on and party hardy!!
D). Zero. feths. Given

If he owns strip joints I'm sure she's not the only one who was cheating.

 Frazzled wrote:
If he owns strip joints I'm sure she's not the only one who was cheating.

That's very possible.... But we don't really know eh?

 Frazzled wrote:
If he owns strip joints I'm sure she's not the only one who was cheating.

Frazz come on , surely he has to check whether his strippers have the appropriate sensual attributes. *

*this may or may not be facetious depending on how you wish to take it.

 whembly wrote:

 Frazzled wrote:
If he owns strip joints I'm sure she's not the only one who was cheating.

That's very possible.... But we don't really know eh?

Seriously? I think we do...