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![[Post New]](/s/i/i.gif) 2016/06/27 17:57:48
Subject: Men with Absolutely no redeeming value, and the Women that love them.
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Shas'ui with Bonding Knife
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If you were to go the violence route, expect him to reciprocate on your sis in law, or worse, the child. That is often what those shitheaps will do, especially if they can't defend themselves adequately.
So really, nix that idea and that train of thought, unless you know any pig farmers that can keep a secret...
Lots of good advice about just being there for her to come to, documenting any and all suspicious activity/bruises/etc for PD amd DHS.
Unfortunately you are pretty stuck, and she will need to pull her head out of her ass when she is ready.
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I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.
Three!! Three successful trades! Ah ah ah!
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![[Post New]](/s/i/i.gif) 2016/06/27 18:23:09
Subject: Men with Absolutely no redeeming value, and the Women that love them.
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Ruthless Rafkin
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I was going to mention the isolation he's the sister in law in. He's likely gas-lighting her; ie constructing a false narrative in which the abuser is the only one that loves the abused, and the abused has no worth to anyone outside of the abuser. It's not true, of course, but hear something long enough and loud enough, and you're bound to start believing it.
He's built her world, and put himself in the center of it.
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-Loki- wrote:
40k is about slamming two slegdehammers together and hoping the other breaks first. Malifaux is about fighting with scalpels trying to hit select areas and hoping you connect more. |
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![[Post New]](/s/i/i.gif) 2016/06/27 20:05:07
Subject: Men with Absolutely no redeeming value, and the Women that love them.
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Longtime Dakkanaut
Building a blood in water scent
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This guy sounds like a real case of stunted development, coupled with low self esteem and poor impulse control.
Hopefully he grows up and can make a man out of himself, but until then, you should follow Ouze's sage advice.
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We were once so close to heaven, St. Peter came out and gave us medals; declaring us "The nicest of the damned".
“Anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge.'” |
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![[Post New]](/s/i/i.gif) 2016/06/27 20:10:22
Subject: Men with Absolutely no redeeming value, and the Women that love them.
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Fixture of Dakka
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Well, there is some good news to all of this.
My mother in law and two of my sisters-in-law went to talk to my wife's little sister. The rather frank discussion ended with her admitting the likelihood of him getting clean of drugs was little to none. She also admitted that if things continue as they are DHS will likely remover her daughter.
She also sadly admitted that with how much drugs he does if he ever gets caught (likely with her, in her car) that there will be enough for "intent to deliver". Since they live right on the boarder of two states, this mean interstate drug trafficking charges for both of them.
He is legally barred from leaving South Dakota. She has agreed to move back to Iowa. Now, this is only what she is saying.....time will tell if she actually means it and if she stays or runs back to him again.
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![[Post New]](/s/i/i.gif) 2016/06/27 20:12:47
Subject: Men with Absolutely no redeeming value, and the Women that love them.
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Assassin with Black Lotus Poison
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cuda1179 wrote:Well, there is some good news to all of this.
My mother in law and two of my sisters-in-law went to talk to my wife's little sister. The rather frank discussion ended with her admitting the likelihood of him getting clean of drugs was little to none. She also admitted that if things continue as they are DHS will likely remover her daughter.
She also sadly admitted that with how much drugs he does if he ever gets caught (likely with her, in her car) that there will be enough for "intent to deliver". Since they live right on the boarder of two states, this mean interstate drug trafficking charges for both of them.
He is legally barred from leaving South Dakota. She has agreed to move back to Iowa. Now, this is only what she is saying.....time will tell if she actually means it and if she stays or runs back to him again.
Fingers crossed from me Cuda
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![[Post New]](/s/i/i.gif) 2016/06/27 20:16:47
Subject: Men with Absolutely no redeeming value, and the Women that love them.
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5th God of Chaos! (Yea'rly!)
The Great State of Texas
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Good luck Cuda and baja con Dios
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-"Wait a minute.....who is that Frazz is talking to in the gallery? Hmmm something is going on here.....Oh.... it seems there is some dispute over video taping of some sort......Frazz is really upset now..........wait a minute......whats he go there.......is it? Can it be?....Frazz has just unleashed his hidden weiner dog from his mini bag, while quoting shakespeares "Let slip the dogs the war!!" GG
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