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Fixture of Dakka




Kamloops, BC

Wrexasaur wrote:
Cheesecat wrote:When in doubt I use a condom.




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Cheesecat wrote:
Wrexasaur wrote:
Cheesecat wrote:When in doubt I use a condom.




I'm glad I have the support of the president, too.


I wonder how glad the fella whom created the topic is about your jesting...

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@ the OP- In 5 years, none of this will matter. It is a maxim that will take most of the stress out of your high school years. The dating and relationship drama that you're going through now is the tutorial for the serious relationships you'll forge later on. From what you've said, it appears that you realize the game is not yet afoot. Learn what you can about what you like in a relationship, and what another person's actions really say about them.

In the meantime, ignore JohnHwangdd's advice. Sure, pulling out of the trench run will probably work- but it only takes one photon torpedo to blow up the Death Star, and you start shooting those out from the moment you take off. (Oh that's right, a Star Wars analogy. )

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sebster wrote:
Cheesecat wrote:Well, preferably I sink my pink torpedo into girls I know and are honest about their sex life.


Everyone's honest about their sex life, then you get Hep-B. Up to you dude, but I’ve found there’s a difference between trust and blind faith.



Well, theres this one thing though.... oh yea, don't think with your weener, that pretty much fixes that problem.
   
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Backing off does seem like a good idea but don't go appologize to this guy. It's really unnecessary and it isn't going to make you look better because people don't understand taking the moral highground at this age (I've tried, it fails) it will just make every see you as a target and treat you worse. If your gunna leave just get out of there but don't make a problem out of it.



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4M2A wrote:Backing off does seem like a good idea but don't go appologize to this guy. It's really unnecessary and it isn't going to make you look better because people don't understand taking the moral highground at this age (I've tried, it fails) it will just make every see you as a target and treat you worse. If your gunna leave just get out of there but don't make a problem out of it.


Some good advice there.

If your freindship with this girl is causing agro for everyone involved then maybe it's best to distance yourself from her a bit. If her boyfriend then decides to keep making an issue of it then just give him a good kicking again until he gets the message to stay away from you. Just don't go looking for a fight.


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Lord of Kaith wrote:At my local youth group there's a girl I've started a friendship with. Just friendship, not girlfriend/boyfriend stuff. However, she has a boyfriend who is overprotective and thinks I'm muscling in on his girl. The girl has no intererest in *that* sort of relationship and neither do I, but the b-friend thinks I'm after his girl, despite my explaining otherwise. Last time we got into a minor scuffle. Not a good career move, I'm now quite unpopular as this kid is pretty much the epitome of cool to the other teens around here. To make it worse I beat him pretty badly (Tae Kwon Do FTW!) and so now he's more pissed off than before, because, well, I'm sorta skinny and he's sorta big so it's humiliating. Not to sound like the goody-two shoes, but I would have avoided the fight if possible, but it wasn't possible. He threw the first punch, and I was in the backstage area of the stage in the gym, so nowhere to run except into the wall...or through him.

Any advice? I've mentioned this to his parents and the leaders but the leadership is pretty weak and his parents can't handle him too well.


If I weren't suspended for two more days I'd say:
"talk is for girls. Time to instill...TERROR! Find him alone and explain to him if he doesn't straighten up you're gonna him in the with a and then his head a ing and then shove the drill completely off and then . He'll get the message"

-"Wait a minute.....who is that Frazz is talking to in the gallery? Hmmm something is going on here.....Oh.... it seems there is some dispute over video taping of some sort......Frazz is really upset now..........wait a minute......whats he go there.......is it? Can it be?....Frazz has just unleashed his hidden weiner dog from his mini bag, while quoting shakespeares "Let slip the dogs the war!!" GG
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Pretty tame for you Frazzled. Wouldn't you normally just skip the explaining bit?

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The Great State of Texas

I'm just feeling extra compassion these days.

-"Wait a minute.....who is that Frazz is talking to in the gallery? Hmmm something is going on here.....Oh.... it seems there is some dispute over video taping of some sort......Frazz is really upset now..........wait a minute......whats he go there.......is it? Can it be?....Frazz has just unleashed his hidden weiner dog from his mini bag, while quoting shakespeares "Let slip the dogs the war!!" GG
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You can't blame the guy for wanting to stand up to someone he perceives is "making a move" on his girlfriend... if that's not the case, give him/them space, and everything should be cool... You'd be the bigger man for it, imho.


I certainly can. She is a person he is in a relationship with. She isn't property, she isn't his child and she isn't his subordinate. To put it another way, he doesn't have any place trying to forcefully stand between her and anyone or otherwise try to dictate her relationships.

What he can do is make it clear what he is and isn't willing to deal with in a relationship. She can choose either try to make things work by not doing things that make the relationship unworkable for him or continue to do things that he dislikes. At that point he can choose to end it if things aren't working for him.

The guy in question is being possessive and stepping way over the line. Somebody needs to call him on it now, as this isn't really the kind behavior someone needs to be continuing into adulthood and it will if people just treat it as acceptable/normal.

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Raleigh, NC

Let me get this straight, are we talking about social relationships/interactions in a religious youth group setting? Among 13-17 years of age? And everyone in it already has a boyfriend/girlfriend? And church leaders condone this, plus fighting and ostracizing of members? And we are discussing whether he should steal the girl or not? If so, wow. The moral and ethical dilemmas people focus on astounds me.
   
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Ironhide wrote:Let me get this straight, are we talking about social relationships/interactions in a religious youth group setting? Among 13-17 years of age? And everyone in it already has a boyfriend/girlfriend? And church leaders condone this, plus fighting and ostracizing of members? And we are discussing whether he should steal the girl or not? If so, wow. The moral and ethical dilemmas people focus on astounds me.


Priorities. We has them.

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Raleigh, NC

heh heh! I'll go with that.
   
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Kamloops, BC

If she's fethable then become her boyfriend and get laid, you won't regret it (at least until the break-up and possible STD's).
   
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America

Slarg232 wrote:Have you tried talking it over with him now that you've pulverized him? People are kinda like Orks, in my experiance. As long as you can krump em, yous da boss.

Exactly,beat the liveing gak out of him,tell him to back off the babe and gtfo.

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Kamloops, BC

Soladrin wrote:
sebster wrote:
Cheesecat wrote:Well, preferably I sink my pink torpedo into girls I know and are honest about their sex life.


Everyone's honest about their sex life, then you get Hep-B. Up to you dude, but I’ve found there’s a difference between trust and blind faith.



Well, theres this one thing though.... oh yea, don't think with your weener, that pretty much fixes that problem.


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Texas, USA

Ironhide wrote:Let me get this straight, are we talking about social relationships/interactions in a religious youth group setting? Among 13-17 years of age? And everyone in it already has a boyfriend/girlfriend? And church leaders condone this, plus fighting and ostracizing of members? And we are discussing whether he should steal the girl or not? If so, wow. The moral and ethical dilemmas people focus on astounds me.


Did I ever say it was a church youth group?


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Raleigh, NC

No, but the usual assumption is youth group = church. What kind of youth group is it then? High school?
   
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Texas, USA

Ironhide wrote:No, but the usual assumption is youth group = church. What kind of youth group is it then? High school?


It started out as a few teens having monthly meetings at a house, and grew from there. So since a lot of them are from the local high school, they convinced them to let us use their gym to meet. Basically we meet, have discussion on various items, but really just fool around most of the time.

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