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2016/05/17 14:50:50
Subject: Re:General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
Ladies lets play nice. We can all discuss this while being polite, even if you are all wrong except me.
-"Wait a minute.....who is that Frazz is talking to in the gallery? Hmmm something is going on here.....Oh.... it seems there is some dispute over video taping of some sort......Frazz is really upset now..........wait a minute......whats he go there.......is it? Can it be?....Frazz has just unleashed his hidden weiner dog from his mini bag, while quoting shakespeares "Let slip the dogs the war!!" GG
-"Don't mind Frazzled. He's just Dakka's crazy old dude locked in the attic. He's harmless. Mostly."
-TBone the Magnificent 1999-2014, Long Live the King!
2016/05/17 15:08:37
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
It should be noted by all that providing sources is not an auto win.
Your sources also need to be credible.
Prestor Jon wrote: Because children don't have any legal rights until they're adults. A minor is the responsiblity of the parent and has no legal rights except through his/her legal guardian or parent.
2016/05/17 15:19:45
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
Care to quote that, because I am not recalling ever reading that.
I do however recall the discussion about *straight* men dressing in drag (and some not even going that far) going into changing rooms/bathrooms under the false pretense of claiming they have a right to be there....and carrying out perverted activities.
I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.
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2016/05/17 15:39:55
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
TheMeanDM wrote: Care to quote that, because I am not recalling ever reading that.
I do however recall the discussion about *straight* men dressing in drag (and some not even going that far) going into changing rooms/bathrooms under the false pretense of claiming they have a right to be there....and carrying out perverted activities.
It's been quoted several times in the last page alone that transgender people are potential rapists.
Mdlbuildr wrote: Men are more powerful than women. A Transgender Female has male hormones (for the most part) and is not biologically a female. Therefore they can, and in some instances will overpower someone they may feel they can.
I'm sure I can find more instances of such sweeping generalizations over the last 17 odd pages, but you don't seem to be reading like, the last 2 hours, so why waste my time? I mean, I can lead you to water, but I can't make you thirsty... that doesn't mean the water isn't there.
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2016/05/17 15:41:13
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
TheMeanDM wrote: Care to quote that, because I am not recalling ever reading that.
I do however recall the discussion about *straight* men dressing in drag (and some not even going that far) going into changing rooms/bathrooms under the false pretense of claiming they have a right to be there....and carrying out perverted activities.
It's been quoted several times in the last page alone that transgender people are potential rapists.
Mdlbuildr wrote: Men are more powerful than women. A Transgender Female has male hormones (for the most part) and is not biologically a female. Therefore they can, and in some instances will overpower someone they may feel they can.
I'm sure I can find more instances of such sweeping generalizations over the last 17 odd pages, but you don't seem to be reading like, the last 2 hours, so why waste my time? I mean, I can lead you to water, but I can't make you thirsty... that doesn't mean the water isn't there.
According to D-USA we are all potential rapists.
I have no idea what you mean with your water anology.
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2016/05/17 15:43:11
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
Very few. Which leads to the question, why is this suddenly an issue.
However, a better question should be, in light of that, how do we address the issues as inexpensively as possible while addressing others' concerns. I'd start with new schools or ones undergoing retrofit redesign with full use of curtains and FREAKING MORE PRIVATE RESTROOMS FOR EVERYONE. Seriously, we are decades by Da COmmies here. MR. PRESIDENT WE CANNOT FALL BEHIND THE ROOSKIES AND HAVE A STRATEGIC RESTROOM DOOR GAP!!!
For existing ones, a minimal retrofit of showers with individual curtains and perhaps some curtain sectioning in the locker area would do it as well. Plus for those who are self conscious with body issues-this would be a boon.
IMO, the reason why it's suddenly an issue is because, prior to this spate of laws being introduced and passed, we had the "old" bathroom laws. AFAIK, those laws were very loose and held people to a standard which they'd be held to outside of a public restroom. There was really nothing to stop a manly man from entering the women's room and while a store may ask that person to leave, often times, no real law was broken right? Now, if that same situation occurs, but instead of merely entering the women's room because the men's is full up and hopping into a stall, that man has his snake out and it doing the Running Man and generally helicoptering or gyrating in the direction of women in there.... he's broken laws in that case.
Under these older laws, Trans people were generally "safe" from reprisal because as others have noted, they are in an extremely vulnerable position, socially. They could generally use what I call the "Duck Rule" (If it looks like a duck and talks like a duck...) and enter the facilities that they best looked like.
Ohh... and to answer a random question from a few pages back: the last time I, as a male, wanted to enter a women's locker room was in/around high school.... However, I will caveat this by saying that this desire was gained from watching a particular variety of film, if ya know what I mean I think it goes without saying that I never did follow through on that. Well, except for those times when I was on the football team, and we'd be the visiting team... they always stuck us in the girls locker rooms, but by that point they were empty of everyone else but us.
2016/05/17 19:59:50
Subject: Re:General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
1. Don't be a satirical website.
2. Don't be a story that uses a satirical website as the primary source.
3. Don't be an editorial.
As a start.
This. Also, anything that ends in .com should be taken with a grain of salt. .org is generally okay, although double check their content/sources for bias too.
Alpharius wrote: I'd have thought all of that would be obvious, but now that we've got THAT out of the way, hopefully we can move forward?
Someone criticized one of my sources because it was FOX News.
Then someone said that what I posted was debunked at which point I posted a couple of article back when sources and Bruce himself said he was not transitioning to a woman. And then he did.
Now he is denying that he is transitioning back to being a man according to some people here because of their sources.
I've been told here that because I call Bruce Jenner, Bruce (since, as far as I read, he is indeed going to be Bruce again), everything there is to know about me is on the table and I have an agenda.
1. Don't be a satirical website.
2. Don't be a story that uses a satirical website as the primary source.
3. Don't be an editorial.
As a start.
This. Also, anything that ends in .com should be taken with a grain of salt. .org is generally okay, although double check their content/sources for bias too.
Sorry, I have D-USA on ignore...
And that is far from any help as per what someone said about Fox News...
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2016/05/17 20:34:19
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
You're either being massively dishonest, or things I can't say due to rule #1.
Give it a rest.
Prestor Jon wrote: Because children don't have any legal rights until they're adults. A minor is the responsiblity of the parent and has no legal rights except through his/her legal guardian or parent.
2016/05/17 20:35:01
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
MrDwhitey wrote: You're either being massively dishonest, or things I can't say due to rule #1.
Give it a rest.
Sorry, pal.
I am being called out on all kinds of things and am trying to have a reasonable discussion. There is an ignore function. Feel free to use it if you don't want to read what I have to say.
I am not being rude, impolite or offending anyone with what I am saying. I am trying to understand the rules of engagement here. It is very difficult.
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2016/05/17 21:17:28
Subject: General Trans bathroom thread, incl. target, federal involvement and more
Well when you got people calling you a rapist, a perv, not your true gender etc I am sure it gets to you.
Thats why they need to share their stories.
Hi.
It's not fun.
It makes me feel disconnected from the rest of you and that the words "people" and "folks" when they come after the word "trans" don't mean those things to the people writing them.
You know how when you're reading a news article about a generalised un-named person, and it's okay to make fun or mock them, or speculate on their reasoning...
it makes me feel like that person. A discussion topic, not an actual human who's just trying to do the same as everyone else.
This is why I don't speak for others outside of talking about facts or general statements, nor do I pretend I have ideas how to keep both sides happy.
BC, have you had issues in locker rooms or bathrooms? If so how would a change in law have helped (or other policy).
obviously you don't have to answer.
EDIT: with that new avatar I'm going to have to start calling you MM the Manic Machete!
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-"Wait a minute.....who is that Frazz is talking to in the gallery? Hmmm something is going on here.....Oh.... it seems there is some dispute over video taping of some sort......Frazz is really upset now..........wait a minute......whats he go there.......is it? Can it be?....Frazz has just unleashed his hidden weiner dog from his mini bag, while quoting shakespeares "Let slip the dogs the war!!" GG
-"Don't mind Frazzled. He's just Dakka's crazy old dude locked in the attic. He's harmless. Mostly."
-TBone the Magnificent 1999-2014, Long Live the King!