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 Albatross wrote:
I don't he meant that chick mate.

As usual, you are right. I am meeting the woman from OkCupid on the 20th. In Paris geekiest bar .

andbreak wrote:
Asking someone out on a date is really that easy. You ask them out on a date. Even with all the extraneous circumstances (IE excuses to yourself), it's simply a matter of grabbing your courage (liquid or otherwise) and asking the question.

Grabbing one's courage is not easy.

 Albatross wrote:

chaos0xomega wrote:

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Well, problem solved .
I am going to look very, very stupid, but it is okay. I learned today that she is married . By asking her what she did for the holidays. I had heard quite a bit about her cat before, but never about her husband . Now, I know this means my whole approach until now must have been very, very bad, but at least now when I will overthink about whether or not I am annoying her, I will do so only about friendship. And as I explained, I have a much more laid-back approach toward overanalyzing whether or not people wants to be friend with me! (… yeah, I know I am overanalyzing a lot of things.)

What was she doing on okcupid if shes married!??? Ugh, dont answer that question, I've seen my friends girlfriends/significant others on both OKC and Tinder while they were in relationships, I dont fuckin understand it.

I don't he meant that chick mate.


In other news: The Unsinkable Albatross has the blues. Seriously, I'm staying in on a friday night, listening to Alicia Keys right now!

To be honest so am i. Even though on the same hall, there is a massive dorm party. Im just not feeling good after a long day spent in a lonely movie theater by myself, and im fighting off a cold.

 hotsauceman1 wrote:

To be honest so am i. Even though on the same hall, there is a massive dorm party. Im just not feeling good after a long day spent in a lonely movie theater by myself, and im fighting off a cold.

I'm still considering trying to get you banned for the night so you go do something with people...

Haha, Considering this i actually my first night NOT hanging with friends.
Besides, all the girls there I hate or have a BF.
I mean, when alchohol smells horrible and is making me ick to my stomach.

Well, I guess I'll let it slide. I've felt like hell today myself. I did something curry related with pork and veggies yesterday that was delicious, but I fear that I might not have the fortitude save for it.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:

 Albatross wrote:
I don't he meant that chick mate.

As usual, you are right. I am meeting the woman from OkCupid on the 20th. In Paris geekiest bar .

andbreak wrote:
Asking someone out on a date is really that easy. You ask them out on a date. Even with all the extraneous circumstances (IE excuses to yourself), it's simply a matter of grabbing your courage (liquid or otherwise) and asking the question.

Grabbing one's courage is not easy.

See there ya go. That sounds like a really good one. Go for it and wear protection (btw don't freak out i said that i was sorta joking). Just take it a step at a time and play it cool. She sounds like she might be interested.

 hotsauceman1 wrote:
Haha, Considering this i actually my first night NOT hanging with friends.
Besides, all the girls there I hate or have a BF.
I mean, when alchohol smells horrible and is making me ick to my stomach.

I understand that being sick sucks and is valid but you are still making excuses. I mean how long until the next party? Just give it a shot for a little bit. Maybe a girl you don't know is there will be there.

Also on the bit with the girls with boyfriends maybe some of them are in the exiting stage in their relationship. You never know if they're getting sick of their boyfriend or not.

Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

 n0t_u wrote:
Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

It's not like he's going to a club or a bar. I'm fairly certain only d**ches and d**chettes frequent those places.

 flamingkillamajig wrote:
Go for it and wear protection (btw don't freak out i said that i was sorta joking).

Yeah, I am not having sex on my first date lol.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:

 flamingkillamajig wrote:
Go for it and wear protection (btw don't freak out i said that i was sorta joking).

Yeah, I am not having sex on my first date lol.

You don't know that.

Do you mean she might rape me ?

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Do you mean she might rape me ?

He means you should be prepared for any situation.

Damn. I will get prepared, then. I just need to check where I can by some pepper spray .

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 n0t_u wrote:
Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

It's not like he's going to a club or a bar. I'm fairly certain only d**ches and d**chettes frequent those places.

It's true, we do.


You should join us. We're having fun.

 Albatross wrote:

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 n0t_u wrote:
Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

It's not like he's going to a club or a bar. I'm fairly certain only d**ches and d**chettes frequent those places.

It's true, we do.


You should join us. We're having fun.

I'm just saying it as i've heard. Clubs are mainly a drugging up, dancing and sexing up place to go to not a place for a stable relationship.

 Albatross wrote:

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 n0t_u wrote:
Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

It's not like he's going to a club or a bar. I'm fairly certain only d**ches and d**chettes frequent those places.

It's true, we do.


You should join us. We're having fun.

Well, from my experience that's highly debatable.

I've seen the attacking each other with high heels, the hysterical sobbing, the punch ups etc.


And that's just the bouncers

 A Town Called Malus wrote:


Well, from my experience that's highly debatable.

I've seen the attacking each other with high heels, the hysterical sobbing, the punch ups etc.


And that's just the bouncers

That's half the fun though.

 flamingkillamajig wrote:


I understand that being sick sucks and is valid but you are still making excuses. I mean how long until the next party? Just give it a shot for a little bit. Maybe a girl you don't know is there will be there.

Also on the bit with the girls with boyfriends maybe some of them are in the exiting stage in their relationship. You never know if they're getting sick of their boyfriend or not.

*Looks at Watch* Maybe tonight......
Although next week is rush week and I will be going to parties then.
And I mean so sick I was sniffling with an upset stomach. I go to parties all the time here and this was the first where the music hurt my head

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 Albatross wrote:

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 n0t_u wrote:
Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

It's not like he's going to a club or a bar. I'm fairly certain only d**ches and d**chettes frequent those places.

It's true, we do.


You should join us. We're having fun.

I'm just saying it as i've heard. Clubs are mainly a drugging up, dancing and sexing up place to go to not a place for a stable relationship.

What about that doesn't sound fun? Have you never been to a club or a bar, then?

Well dancing is pretty boring but I can get behind the two other things.

 Albatross wrote:

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 Albatross wrote:

 flamingkillamajig wrote:

 n0t_u wrote:
Parties aren't always the best place to meet anyways.

It's not like he's going to a club or a bar. I'm fairly certain only d**ches and d**chettes frequent those places.

It's true, we do.


You should join us. We're having fun.

I'm just saying it as i've heard. Clubs are mainly a drugging up, dancing and sexing up place to go to not a place for a stable relationship.

What about that doesn't sound fun? Have you never been to a club or a bar, then?

Don't get me wrong the sex sounds good but i'm not really into drugs or booze. I know too many that have ruined their lives one or the other. I'm not really much of a dancer either.

Same thing here. Well, at least for the booze, drugs and dancing.

I did the whole 'booze, drugs, dancing' thing last night. Fit girls everywhere. Didn't get in 'til 8am. I love living in the city, man. It's fething awesome. I honestly can't understand people who aren't into that sort of thing.


I DID wake up feeling like a tramp slept in my mouth though, so there's that I suppose.

 Albatross wrote:
I did the whole 'booze, drugs, dancing' thing last night. Fit girls everywhere. Didn't get in 'til 8am. I love living in the city, man. It's fething awesome. I honestly can't understand people who aren't into that sort of thing.


I DID wake up feeling like a tramp slept in my mouth though, so there's that I suppose.

Biggest problem I have with it is that the best way to get the taste of booze, drugs and dancing out of your mouth I found is more booze, drugs, and dancing.

Wears you out kind of, but maybe I just got old.

 Albatross wrote:
I did the whole 'booze, drugs, dancing' thing last night. Fit girls everywhere. Didn't get in 'til 8am. I love living in the city, man. It's fething awesome. I honestly can't understand people who aren't into that sort of thing.


I DID wake up feeling like a tramp slept in my mouth though, so there's that I suppose.

I can't understand people who are into that, but different strokes for different folks, I guess.

I'll take staying in with a book and a cup of tea over a night on the town any day.

 Avatar 720 wrote:

 Albatross wrote:
I did the whole 'booze, drugs, dancing' thing last night. Fit girls everywhere. Didn't get in 'til 8am. I love living in the city, man. It's fething awesome. I honestly can't understand people who aren't into that sort of thing.


I DID wake up feeling like a tramp slept in my mouth though, so there's that I suppose.

I can't understand people who are into that, but different strokes for different folks, I guess.

I'll take staying in with a book and a cup of tea over a night on the town any day.

Dancing is fun,

 hotsauceman1 wrote:

 Avatar 720 wrote:

 Albatross wrote:
I did the whole 'booze, drugs, dancing' thing last night. Fit girls everywhere. Didn't get in 'til 8am. I love living in the city, man. It's fething awesome. I honestly can't understand people who aren't into that sort of thing.


I DID wake up feeling like a tramp slept in my mouth though, so there's that I suppose.

I can't understand people who are into that, but different strokes for different folks, I guess.

I'll take staying in with a book and a cup of tea over a night on the town any day.

Dancing is fun,

indeed, double the fun when drunk, the only drawbacks are that you will feel like morning after and some inconvenient situations are bound to happen(this happened to me on the new year in a night club)
i see a really beautiful girl, i use some of the typical openers,started talking about slayer since she had their t-shirt and i love them as well
after some time we make out
notice she had pierced tongue(my stomach turns)
I ask her WTF is on your tongue?
she smiles, says: piercing you like it?
i smile and say cool, even though i had to contain myself from not throwing up
she leans to me, and we make out again, then i get up, get out of her sight, and throw up in the toilet, ruining my Slayer T-shirt in the process...
Worst part? My friend has all of that recorded.

I don't particularly like piercings but that's kind of a strong reaction, dude.

 daedalus wrote:
Wears you out kind of, but maybe I just got old.

I was born old, on that regard .

 Albatross wrote:
I don't particularly like piercings but that's kind of a strong reaction, dude.

Well, drinking too much and therefore throwing out? That seems standard procedure to me . Never did drink nearly enough myself, but I still went through college (well, our French somewhat equivalent of college) .

 Avatar 720 wrote:
I can't understand people who are into that, but different strokes for different folks, I guess.

I'll take staying in with a book and a cup of tea over a night on the town any day.

I agree with both of those statements. Definately not for everyone, and I'd rather a night in than out.

Although, from experiance and general concensus (probably), going to clubs to meet women will only get you sex. Not a date.