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 cincydooley wrote:

 Chongara wrote:


What the hell dude?

You're going to have to be more specific.

...and he doesn't even pause to consider when called out on it. Yeah no. I think I'm going to double down on my "What the hell dude?".

 Easy E wrote:
I really don't understand why you would harass someone for doing a skin flick?

Our Puritan heritage sure did feth us up.

Same reason you'd make fun of someone for a bad haircut or for being fat. Only the people change

 Sigvatr wrote:
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This being said, neither side is not guilty on this matter. She brought this upon herself and the others brought it down on her (no sexual innuendo intended) resulting in the tragic climax (no sexual innuendo intended).

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Let's not overuse tragic here. Tragic is the kids at newtown. Tragic is the kids in SoCal.

This isn't tragic. She made the decision to make porn. She flew 1700 miles to do so. She couldn't handle the response to it from the boys she didn't feth back home and killed herself. That's a whole big string or choices, any of which could have changed the outcome.

This is sorta sad because we could really use more biracial brunettes with natural breasts in a porn industry littered with blondes and fake boobs.

 Seaward wrote:

 daedalus wrote:
I'm not sure I feel that makes the way she was treated any less terrible. I'm not going to scream "zomg bully bully bully!!!", but for feth's sake it's odd how hard of a time people have being human.

Ahtman opined that she must have had some other issues. I pointed out some of them.

Actually I was just mirroring the article in that someone lacking in these other problems generally don't commit suicide over one incident.

 Chongara wrote:


...and he doesn't even pause to consider when called out on it. Yeah no. I think I'm going to double down on my "What the hell dude?".

He knows why he's being "called out on it." He doesn't care because she did it to herself. You can refer to my response above.

 cincydooley wrote:
This is sorta sad because we could really use more biracial brunettes with natural breasts in a porn industry littered with blondes and fake boobs.

That's why I watch the homemade stuff

 Gentleman_Jellyfish wrote:

 cincydooley wrote:
This is sorta sad because we could really use more biracial brunettes with natural breasts in a porn industry littered with blondes and fake boobs.

That's why I watch the homemade stuff

Cheers to that, sir.

Don't get me wrong - it's "tragic" by its very own defition because it certainly is an event that makes some people, maybe not us, grief.

I, on a personal level, am pretty neutral on this matter. It's a girl I have never met, lived far, far away and that was killed by her own naivite and underlying problems that were failed to be adressed. I am certainly not emotionally affected by the incident. It still is a tragic event.

So, this is now about porn preferences?

 cincydooley wrote:
This isn't tragic.

I don't know, a bright kid with a possible good future but a horrible past (much of which she had no say in) makes an error in judgement and it leads her to feeling like blowing her head off is the only option seems pretty tragic; there are different degrees of tragic, some personal, some large scale.

 Sigvatr wrote:
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I, on a personal level, am pretty neutral on this matter. It's a girl I have never met, lived far, far away and that was killed by her own naivite and underlying problems that were failed to be adressed. I am certainly not emotionally affected by the incident. It still is a tragic event.

This is where I sit mostly. That and the fact that no one seems to be teaching kids anymore how to cope with donkey-caves and "bullies." I know my parents taught me how to. We're too focused on raising a generation of special snowflakes to teach them how to handle the real, ugly world they're going to inherit.

So, this is now about porn preferences?

We can make it that!

 Ahtman wrote:
it leads her to feeling like blowing her head off

Too many double innuendos :O

 Gentleman_Jellyfish wrote:

 Easy E wrote:
I really don't understand why you would harass someone for doing a skin flick?

Our Puritan heritage sure did feth us up.

Same reason you'd make fun of someone for a bad haircut or for being fat. Only the people change

Yeah, I guess I don't get that either.

 Ahtman wrote:

 cincydooley wrote:
This isn't tragic.

I don't know, a bright kid with a possible good future but a horrible past (much of which she had no say in) makes an error in judgement and it leads her to feeling like blowing her head off is the only option seems pretty tragic; there are different degrees of tragic, some personal, some large scale.

She could have had a bright future in porn for all we know. Anyone track down the video yet?

Oh,right! Im back!

What I was trying to say was that nobody has the right to judge a persons choices(especially if theyre legal, like porn in this case). Might it be sexual orioentation, how much you party, how much you drink, whether you snort BECAUSE (mind you these are only my beliefs) that there is a reason for every action we take. The reasons might be, like, totally limitless, for example, attention seeking, which is the most bashed thing atm. But has anyone stopped and wondered WHY the person would act in such a way? Sure, we are quick to judge that the attention seeking person is just a spoiled brat(or in the porn industry case-the girl is simply stupid/slut), but maybe the person has lived in a disfunctional family(like most in Eestern europe , maybe the person has been abused, maybe the person has never felt love-has some inner defect. And because there are actually a million different things why the girl might have chosen to to this(or any other person pretty much anything) I hate when people are being judged as lesser/stupider/laughing stock.
All while these cocks jack off to Sascha Grey and regard to her life choices as perfectly normal and acceptable(cause they fething are).

 Seaward wrote:

 daedalus wrote:
I'm not sure I feel that makes the way she was treated any less terrible. I'm not going to scream "zomg bully bully bully!!!", but for feth's sake it's odd how hard of a time people have being human.

Ahtman opined that she must have had some other issues. I pointed out some of them.

I've refrained from jumping into the debate over whether or not we need to figure out a way to force people to be nice to each other at all times on social media because I know Dakka OT loves to saddle up the horse and white knight off into the sunset on that kind of topic, and pointing out that she was in fact likely a fethed up kid was not meant to reflect an opinion on how terribly she was treated.

Every bit of that makes perfect sense.

 cincydooley wrote:
This is sorta sad because we could really use more biracial brunettes with natural breasts in a porn industry littered with blondes and fake boobs.

So that is what you feel sad about?

vWreN wrote:
Oh,right! Im back!

What I was trying to say was that nobody has the right to judge a persons choices(especially if theyre legal, like porn in this case). Might it be sexual orioentation, how much you party, how much you drink, whether you snort BECAUSE (mind you these are only my beliefs) that there is a reason for every action we take.

Actually, no, everyone has the right to do so. Freedom of Speech. It only gets problematic when you use your personal judgements to offend others.

All while these cocks jack off to Sascha Grey

 cincydooley wrote:

 Chongara wrote:


...and he doesn't even pause to consider when called out on it. Yeah no. I think I'm going to double down on my "What the hell dude?".

He knows why he's being "called out on it." He doesn't care because she did it to herself. You can refer to my response above.

Dude. Someone is dead and your first thought is basically "The real shame in these events is that she can't pull out her jiggly bits for my enjoyment anymore". That's crass.

vWreN wrote:
Oh,right! Im back!

What I was trying to say was that nobody has the right to judge a persons choices(especially if theyre legal, like porn in this case).

Yes we do. We have every right to.

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All while these cocks jack off to Sascha Grey and regard to her life choices as perfectly normal and acceptable(cause they fething are).

Don't blame the cocks. There's gotta be a hand to pull the trigger.

And give me a break. Who thinks Sasha Grey and her life choices are normal? The only reason Sasha stands out is because she's been able to do some actual acting after porn.

 Sigvatr wrote:

vWreN wrote:
Oh,right! Im back!

What I was trying to say was that nobody has the right to judge a persons choices(especially if theyre legal, like porn in this case). Might it be sexual orioentation, how much you party, how much you drink, whether you snort BECAUSE (mind you these are only my beliefs) that there is a reason for every action we take.

Actually, no, everyone has the right to do so. Freedom of Speech. It only gets problematic when you use your personal judgements to offend others.

All while these cocks jack off to Sascha Grey

Ah, semantics. You know what I meant.

Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.


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 cincydooley wrote:


And give me a break. Who thinks Sasha Grey and her life choices are normal? The only reason Sasha stands out is because she's been able to do some actual acting after porn.

Sasha Grey is an extremely smart businesswoman. She knows exactly what the market (men) wanted and gave it to them while really selling herself well and quitting the business with a very nice profit in her (arguably larger) pockets.

 Chongara wrote:

 cincydooley wrote:

 Chongara wrote:


...and he doesn't even pause to consider when called out on it. Yeah no. I think I'm going to double down on my "What the hell dude?".

He knows why he's being "called out on it." He doesn't care because she did it to herself. You can refer to my response above.

Dude. Someone is dead and your first thought is basically "The real shame in these events is that she can't pull out her jiggly bits for my enjoyment anymore". That's crass.

Oh I'm sorry. Did you know her? Are you sad about Brogan Dulle too? How about Garrick Shelton?

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

Are you saying it is better to be openly a jerk and be proud of it rather than pretending to be a nice person?

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

Canted? Is that to mean that the opinions are slanted, or is that a mis-type?

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

She wasn't famous. Have one of the big name stars do themselves in and you'll have people crying a storm even as they warm up their favorite DVD.

People are just revolting, and it's not the porn stars I'm talking about.

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.


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 cincydooley wrote:


And give me a break. Who thinks Sasha Grey and her life choices are normal? The only reason Sasha stands out is because she's been able to do some actual acting after porn.

Sasha Grey is an extremely smart businesswoman. She knows exactly what the market (men) wanted and gave it to them while really selling herself well and quitting the business with a very nice profit in her (arguably larger) pockets.

Honestly, could give less of a gak about that. Fact of the matter is-it`s her life and she does what she wants with it.

 Sigvatr wrote:


Sasha Grey is an extremely smart businesswoman. She knows exactly what the market (men) wanted and gave it to them while really selling herself well and quitting the business with a very nice profit in her (arguably larger) pockets.

No arguments there. The same could be said for Katie Morgan and to a lesser extent Sibil Kekilli.

 Co'tor Shas wrote:

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

Canted? Is that to mean that the opinions are slanted, or is that a mis-type?

Ugh, I'm tiiiiired :(

It's meant that when things like this happen, thousands of people suddenly claim to be "sad". If you are genuinely sad about the death of a person you never met or even knew, that's not normal.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

Are you saying it is better to be openly a jerk and be proud of it rather than pretending to be a nice person?

Uh, yes?

 daedalus wrote:

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

She wasn't famous. Have one of the big name stars do themselves in and you'll have people crying a storm even as they warm up their favorite DVD.

People are just revolting, and it's not the porn stars I'm talking about.

It's the same, just more in number with more famous people.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

Are you saying it is better to be openly a jerk and be proud of it rather than pretending to be a nice person?

I'd rather be honest than offer a disingenuous self serving "oh that's so sad" diatribe.

 Sigvatr wrote:

 Co'tor Shas wrote:

 Sigvatr wrote:
Well, at least he's honest about his opinion. Better than all those canted "So tragic, I'm so sad!!!!1" knee-jerk reactions that occur after such events.

Canted? Is that to mean that the opinions are slanted, or is that a mis-type?

Ugh, I'm tiiiiired :(

It's meant that when things like this happen, thousands of people suddenly claim to be "sad". If you are genuinely sad about the death of a person you never met or even knew, that's not normal.

No problem, I just wanted to be sure what you meant .