A relationship has to be balanced if you want it too last and be enjoyable, for example
lady X worked her ass off while her BF Y lost his job and sat on the couch all day watching tv and playing xbox, he treats her like a option, she cooks and cleans for him and pays for the bills etc while he does nothing.
for that example the relationship is unbalanced, sometimes its obvious (like the example) but other times its as small as one partner paying the bills or one partner in a relationship looking at porn while the other doesn't.
many relationships can break up due to an unbalanced relationship. In your case its unbalanced because your GF isn't looking at porn (as i interpret) and you are, i know it's your choice and perhaps you should talk to her about it.
lastly, you don't need to listen to me at all, i am the interwebz if your really having issues see a physiatrist (?).
hope this helps a lil, i only finished reading page 1.
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