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Decrepit Dakkanaut






Wyrmalla wrote:
Scrazza wrote:I think she's just a bitch. Everytime we had free time as school, she came to me, and wanted me to hug her and all. I really though she felt the same way.

Well, it's gonna be hard for me to get over her...


People can be fickle, that's how life is. Hey you might find that the gril that's actually right for you was there all along, you just didn't pay much realise it because you were paying so much attention to this girl. =/


And your glass is always half full.

Girls can be bitches, Boys can be dumbasses. It happens. Solution to it all? Do what I've done all my life, just don't give a crap, if someone wants my respect, go earn it, everyones a dumb feth untill proven otherwise.
   
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In the Wasteland

Fafnir wrote:
Scrazza wrote:I think she's just a bitch. Everytime we had free time as school, she came to me, and wanted me to hug her and all. I really though she felt the same way.

Well, it's gonna be hard for me to get over her...


There are fairly outgoing girls who just tend to do that to everyone. Don't get caught up thinking you were special quite yet.


trust me, she isn't outgoing in the way you think. I've never seen her flirting with another guy, she just hung around me.

@Corpsesarefun: No I didn't know that guy.



 
   
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Decrepit Dakkanaut




Swindon, Wiltshire, UK

Some_Call_Me_Tim? wrote:Oh, I forgot to add this...*Drumroll*

Why they insist upon wearing bikinis. Do they LIKE being drooled at by the pervs of my gender?

_Tim?


Lots of them do, yes.
   
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Decrepit Dakkanaut






Scrazza wrote:
Fafnir wrote:
Scrazza wrote:I think she's just a bitch. Everytime we had free time as school, she came to me, and wanted me to hug her and all. I really though she felt the same way.

Well, it's gonna be hard for me to get over her...


There are fairly outgoing girls who just tend to do that to everyone. Don't get caught up thinking you were special quite yet.


trust me, she isn't outgoing in the way you think. I've never seen her flirting with another guy, she just hung around me.

@Corpsesarefun: No I didn't know that guy.


Yet.. whilst hanging around you all the time, she had time to hook up with someone you haven't even met, sorry to trow gak in your fan, but sadly these kinds people do exist. Thinking you know someone is the first sign of not knowing anything IMO.
   
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Courageous Silver Helm





Portsmouth, UK

Some_Call_Me_Tim? wrote:Oh, I forgot to add this...*Drumroll*

Why they insist upon wearing bikinis. Do they LIKE being drooled at by the pervs of my gender?

_Tim?


Yes and no. People always like attention, and bikinis get attention. On the other hand, women who might prefer not to wear a bikini are also under stupid amounts of pressure (both from other women, men, and the media as well) to 'look good' rather than 'feel comfortable.'

The result? Unhappy women in bikinis, complaining about men perving at them.

I have recently been diagnosed with swelling in the brain, so please excuse spelling mistakes and faulty sentences. I am losing my ability to type and talk effectively, but dammit, that is not going to stop me from trying.  
   
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In the Wasteland

Soladrin wrote:
Wyrmalla wrote:
Scrazza wrote:I think she's just a bitch. Everytime we had free time as school, she came to me, and wanted me to hug her and all. I really though she felt the same way.

Well, it's gonna be hard for me to get over her...


People can be fickle, that's how life is. Hey you might find that the gril that's actually right for you was there all along, you just didn't pay much realise it because you were paying so much attention to this girl. =/


And your glass is always half full.

Girls can be bitches, Boys can be dumbasses. It happens. Solution to it all? Do what I've done all my life, just don't give a crap, if someone wants my respect, go earn it, everyones a dumb feth untill proven otherwise.


I plan to not give a crap anymore, too. I'm going out with some girls from my previous school this friday.

Said girl can feth off.



 
   
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Houston, Tx

Melissa I used your "shpadoink" post as my sig I hope you don't mind.

Maybe you hang out with immature women. Maybe you're attracted to immature women because you think they'll let you shpadoink them.  
   
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In the Wasteland

Soladrin wrote:
Scrazza wrote:
Fafnir wrote:
Scrazza wrote:I think she's just a bitch. Everytime we had free time as school, she came to me, and wanted me to hug her and all. I really though she felt the same way.

Well, it's gonna be hard for me to get over her...


There are fairly outgoing girls who just tend to do that to everyone. Don't get caught up thinking you were special quite yet.


trust me, she isn't outgoing in the way you think. I've never seen her flirting with another guy, she just hung around me.

@Corpsesarefun: No I didn't know that guy.


Yet.. whilst hanging around you all the time, she had time to hook up with someone you haven't even met, sorry to trow gak in your fan, but sadly these kinds people do exist. Thinking you know someone is the first sign of not knowing anything IMO.


That girl is into sport. She met that guy through sports. I'm going to ignore her now, thats what I'm doing.



 
   
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Courageous Silver Helm





Portsmouth, UK

Scrazza, I'm sorry to hear this girl gave you mixed messages, but men do that too. I've seen women chase men for years in the vague hope that they are special to them, only to have it proven over and over that they are not.

Your plan of ignoring her is a good one. Just don't let it fester too much- there are better people out there.

I have recently been diagnosed with swelling in the brain, so please excuse spelling mistakes and faulty sentences. I am losing my ability to type and talk effectively, but dammit, that is not going to stop me from trying.  
   
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Houston, Tx

While we're on the topic of gender differences:

If today's society is focused on gender equality, why is it still perceived as wrong to hit a girl?

Maybe you hang out with immature women. Maybe you're attracted to immature women because you think they'll let you shpadoink them.  
   
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In the Wasteland

Misguidance wrote:Scrazza, I'm sorry to hear this girl gave you mixed messages, but men do that too. I've seen women chase men for years in the vague hope that they are special to them, only to have it proven over and over that they are not.

Your plan of ignoring her is a good one. Just don't let it fester too much- there are better people out there.


I do hope they're out there. But ignoring her can only go so far. I'm in a two-years during school project with her.



 
   
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USA

The same reason why it's considered wrong for women to be priests. It's a leftover from and older, less culturally advanced time period.
Some_Call_Me_Tim? wrote:Oh, I forgot to add this...*Drumroll*

Why they insist upon wearing bikinis. Do they LIKE being drooled at by the pervs of my gender?

_Tim?
Don't men like to be drooled over by women?

People like attention.
DickBandit wrote:
Melissia wrote: you think they'll let you shpadoink them.

Shpa.. shpadoink? I've never heard that one before.

"Nice shoes, wanna shpadoink?"
Or more comically, "He wants to shpadoink you with his ding-dong", as hilariously stated in the ARDBZ parody videos.
DickBandit wrote:Melissa I used your "shpadoink" post as my sig I hope you don't mind.
Not at all.

The people in the past who convinced themselves to do unspeakable things were no less human than you or I. They made their decisions; the only thing that prevents history from repeating itself is making different ones.
-- Adam Serwer
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Decrepit Dakkanaut




Swindon, Wiltshire, UK

DickBandit wrote:While we're on the topic of gender differences:

If today's society is focused on gender equality, why is it still perceived as wrong to hit a girl?


Because on average women have less muscle mass than men, feth gender equality we should be aiming for equal opportunities not making the genders the same.
   
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Houston, Tx

Melissia wrote:
Some_Call_Me_Tim? wrote:Oh, I forgot to add this...*Drumroll*

Why they insist upon wearing bikinis. Do they LIKE being drooled at by the pervs of my gender?

_Tim?
Don't men like to be drooled over by women?

People like attention.

Yep, that's why I do it... I mean wearing swim trunks, of course... *ahem*

Maybe you hang out with immature women. Maybe you're attracted to immature women because you think they'll let you shpadoink them.  
   
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Chaplain with Hate to Spare






DickBandit wrote:While we're on the topic of gender differences:

If today's society is focused on gender equality, why is it still perceived as wrong to hit a girl?



My God that question is more important to the common schoolboy than 'why are we here'!


Some of them just really deserve it. Especially when they're evil hell-bitches who hit you first for no clear reason.

I think the answer is because most of them (school girls) will scream and cry and go get you kicked out of school.

Hmph, I sound rather violent in this post. Not intended.
   
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Portsmouth, UK

corpsesarefun wrote:
DickBandit wrote:While we're on the topic of gender differences:

If today's society is focused on gender equality, why is it still perceived as wrong to hit a girl?


Because on average women have less muscle mass than men, feth gender equality we should be aiming for equal opportunities not making the genders the same.


More likely, because it is impossible to undo centuaries of public opinion in a few short decades. Equality of all kinds will take time.

Mind you, I would rather see a world where it is wrong to hit men and women, rather than one where it is OK to hit either. I disagree with real life violence- I prefer to keep it in the context of pro wrestling and action movies.

I have recently been diagnosed with swelling in the brain, so please excuse spelling mistakes and faulty sentences. I am losing my ability to type and talk effectively, but dammit, that is not going to stop me from trying.  
   
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Fixture of Dakka






Glasgow, Scotland

Scrazza wrote:
Misguidance wrote:Scrazza, I'm sorry to hear this girl gave you mixed messages, but men do that too. I've seen women chase men for years in the vague hope that they are special to them, only to have it proven over and over that they are not.

Your plan of ignoring her is a good one. Just don't let it fester too much- there are better people out there.


I do hope they're out there. But ignoring her can only go so far. I'm in a two-years during school project with her.


Hey if you don't make it a problem, then it won't be one-at least not one that'll result in fights. Hey I'm still friends with my ex girlfriend who I dated for two years, somewhat because some of my best friends are also friends with her, despite her becomming pretty much a slut-not me being an ass, ref foursome. There's plenty of people out there, you don't have to be dating right now, just wait till the right person shows up and make it more of a logical transition, rather than forcing your affections on them and hoping it won't get awkward. Heh, dating advice from the anarchist.^^
   
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Arlington, Texas

If a girl hits a dude first I consider it fair game. I've never fought before because I'm a smooth talker, however

Worship me. 
   
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Decrepit Dakkanaut






corpsesarefun wrote:
DickBandit wrote:While we're on the topic of gender differences:

If today's society is focused on gender equality, why is it still perceived as wrong to hit a girl?


Because on average women have less muscle mass than men, feth gender equality we should be aiming for equal opportunities not making the genders the same.


We have balls, it evens out.

And Melissia is just playing hard to get
   
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Houston, Tx

Darkvoidof40k wrote:
DickBandit wrote:While we're on the topic of gender differences:

If today's society is focused on gender equality, why is it still perceived as wrong to hit a girl?



My God that question is more important to the common schoolboy than 'why are we here'!


Some of them just really deserve it. Especially when they're evil hell-bitches who hit you first for no clear reason.

I think the answer is because most of them (school girls) will scream and cry and go get you kicked out of school.

Hmph, I sound rather violent in this post. Not intended.

Well I know a guy who use to be a cop, his crazy ex girlfriend got in an argument with him. It got nasty and she pulled HIS gun on him. Now, because he's smart, whenever he gets home he unloads the gun, she didn't know this... She put the gun to his head and squeezed the trigger! He knew it wasn't loaded, but she obviously showed the intent to kill him. So he knocked the lights out of her. Now the ATF has revoked his license to carry and privilege to purchase weapons, thus losing his job as a cop. Why? Because he punched a girl. (domestic violence) Hmmm, somehow that does sound like "equality" to me.

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Maybe you hang out with immature women. Maybe you're attracted to immature women because you think they'll let you shpadoink them.  
   
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USA

That would imply that I actually want to be gotten by anyone here. Because online relationships are so healthy and always, always work out.

The people in the past who convinced themselves to do unspeakable things were no less human than you or I. They made their decisions; the only thing that prevents history from repeating itself is making different ones.
-- Adam Serwer
My blog
 
   
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Houston, Tx

Melissia wrote:That would imply that I actually want to be gotten by anyone here. Because online relationships are so healthy and always, always work out.

Would you like to go for some e-coffee, I hear they just opened this really nice site a couple of IP addresses away from here.

Maybe you hang out with immature women. Maybe you're attracted to immature women because you think they'll let you shpadoink them.  
   
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Courageous Silver Helm





Portsmouth, UK

Melissia wrote:That would imply that I actually want to be gotten by anyone here. Because online relationships are so healthy and always, always work out.


Hey now, my best friend met her husband on the internet and they've been married 6 years.

Of course, they are a rare exception. Not that I think meeting someone on the net is any safer or wiser than meeting someone in a nightclub or bar...

I have recently been diagnosed with swelling in the brain, so please excuse spelling mistakes and faulty sentences. I am losing my ability to type and talk effectively, but dammit, that is not going to stop me from trying.  
   
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Decrepit Dakkanaut




Swindon, Wiltshire, UK

Melissia wrote:That would imply that I actually want to be gotten by anyone here. Because online relationships are so healthy and always, always work out.


True, I have a feeling you would eviscerate the testes of any man that crossed you too.
   
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UK

I remember a fight that happened in High School when I was in year 9 (So I people were 13/14) when a boy hit a girl a few times after she had been shouting, punching and generally harassing/bullying him over something trival to due with one of the girls friends which probally had nothing to do with her. It was quite amazing to see how people, teachers included, who forget all about 'gender equality' and were totally horrified by this. The boy ended up having to move back to England to live with family there because of this.

Not saying that what he did was right but I found peoples reactions pretty digusting, they completely ignored the entire situation and all that was revelant to them was that 'A boy hit a girl', if the same thing happened but it two people of the same gender, then the situation wouldn't have gotten so much attention, ofcourse he shouldn't have hit anyone anyway.

WARBOSS TZOO wrote:Grab your club, hit her over the head, and drag her back to your cave. The classics are classic for a reason.
 
   
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USA

Misguidance wrote:Hey now, my best friend met her husband on the internet and they've been married 6 years.

Of course, they are a rare exception. Not that I think meeting someone on the net is any safer or wiser than meeting someone in a nightclub or bar...
True, and I also don't drink.

I'm too busy dispensing hate and wrath at people all over the world to be lonely anyway. You know, being an insufferable █████ is a very busy job, and though the pay is good, most people pussy out after they get a few verbal lashings. Only those with REAL backbone can do it as long as I have.

Jokes aside, I tried online dating before, and it nearly ended in disaster. That I by accident learned his real age before we were scheduled to meet and had my parents call the FBI to report a pedophile was by far the better of two endings that could have happened. It's probably a small miracle that I still manage to hold such an egalitarian viewpoint ten years later

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The people in the past who convinced themselves to do unspeakable things were no less human than you or I. They made their decisions; the only thing that prevents history from repeating itself is making different ones.
-- Adam Serwer
My blog
 
   
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Swindon, Wiltshire, UK

Melissia wrote:
Misguidance wrote:Hey now, my best friend met her husband on the internet and they've been married 6 years.

Of course, they are a rare exception. Not that I think meeting someone on the net is any safer or wiser than meeting someone in a nightclub or bar...
True, and I also don't drink.

I'm too busy dispensing hate and wrath at people all over the world to be lonely anyway. You know, being an insufferable █████ is a very busy job, and though the pay is good, most people pussy out after they get a few verbal lashings. Only those with REAL backbone can do it as long as I have.

Jokes aside, I tried online dating before, and it nearly ended in disaster. That I by accident learned his real age before we were scheduled to meet and had my parents call the FBI to report a pedophile was by far the better of two endings that could have happened. It's probably a small miracle that I still manage to hold such an egalitarian viewpoint ten years later


You tried dating online under legal age?

Pretty much asking for paedophiles.
   
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USA

Thirteen year olds know nothing about the dangers of the world. Nevermind that back then the internet was pretty new.

The people in the past who convinced themselves to do unspeakable things were no less human than you or I. They made their decisions; the only thing that prevents history from repeating itself is making different ones.
-- Adam Serwer
My blog
 
   
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Houston, Tx

Melissia wrote:
Misguidance wrote:Hey now, my best friend met her husband on the internet and they've been married 6 years.

Of course, they are a rare exception. Not that I think meeting someone on the net is any safer or wiser than meeting someone in a nightclub or bar...
True, and I also don't drink.

I'm too busy dispensing hate and wrath at people all over the world to be lonely anyway. You know, being an insufferable █████ is a very busy job, and though the pay is good, most people pussy out after they get a few verbal lashings. Only those with REAL backbone can do it as long as I have.

Jokes aside, I tried online dating before, and it nearly ended in disaster. That I by accident learned his real age before we were scheduled to meet and had my parents call the FBI to report a pedophile was by far the better of two endings that could have happened.

Well you probably shouldn't do the online dating thing unless you're 18+. Or was this not on a dating site?

Unfortunately, guys like me who live in military cities have to resort to dating services online as the only thing I live with are dudes. The quality of women in this area is typically low. Well, the quality of the ones not married.

Maybe you hang out with immature women. Maybe you're attracted to immature women because you think they'll let you shpadoink them.  
   
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Portsmouth, UK

Melissia wrote:
Jokes aside, I tried online dating before, and it nearly ended in disaster. That I by accident learned his real age before we were scheduled to meet and had my parents call the FBI to report a pedophile was by far the better of two endings that could have happened. It's probably a small miracle that I still manage to hold such an egalitarian viewpoint ten years later


Ooh, scary. :( I've been lucky with online dating, in that I have only done it once and I was with that guy for 3 years.

Also, I applaud you for your handling of the general population here. I'm relatively new, and I already know not to argue with you.

I have recently been diagnosed with swelling in the brain, so please excuse spelling mistakes and faulty sentences. I am losing my ability to type and talk effectively, but dammit, that is not going to stop me from trying.  
   
 
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