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I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
Can I be the Mother of this disfuctional chaos based family?
It would give me the opportunity to wear those hot skirts that I have... I could be the first TMWSILF (Transvestite Mother With Stubble I'd Like to Feth)
Freddie may have beaten me to it though...
This message was edited 3 times. Last update was at 2011/02/14 00:50:09
kharn-the-betrayer wrote:Why do you care what everyone else thinks?
I don't usually. It just gets to me sometimes because its also one of the major reasons why chicks don't like me.
They see through me like I am transparent. I mean sure I might find someone at a point but its getting rather bothersome to hear
people call me creepy so often.
Maybe also cuz valen day is commin...never really did like that day.
You know I have bought myself a heart box of chocolate already? Not once or twice but THREE TIMES to make the ouchies go away.
I tend to come off a bit odd, due to my unnatural mellowness. I was once jumped, and I was cool with this.
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halonachos wrote:Mordo is evil, the cute walrus wearing a monocle is just a disguise for the evils within the confines of the avatar box.
darksage wrote:And then the darkness approached the computer screen ready to unveil untold horrors on millions of unsuspecting innocents... Some knew him as the bringer of terror...some knew him as the spawn of all things evil...some knew him as the walrus, but then their lives would account for nothing, for they would be dead in seconds of the words leaving their lips.The walrus has posted, prepare for the death of worlds.
kharn-the-betrayer wrote:Why do you care what everyone else thinks?
I don't usually. It just gets to me sometimes because its also one of the major reasons why chicks don't like me.
They see through me like I am transparent. I mean sure I might find someone at a point but its getting rather bothersome to hear
people call me creepy so often.
Maybe also cuz valentine day is comin...never really did like that day.
You know I have bought myself a heart box of chocolate already? Not once or twice but THREE TIMES to make the ouchies go away.
At the risk of sounding like Dr.Phil here....
If you have a crap self image and think of yourself as "creepy" or a "looser",then other people will as well.
If you carry yourself with confidence and dignity,this will be what others pick up on.
Fedoras and trench coats can be taken off or put on...but the contents you carry inside you shows through regardless...
...And,not to be harsh...but eating three boxes of candy is no way of coping with loneliness.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
kharn-the-betrayer wrote:Why do you care what everyone else thinks?
I don't usually. It just gets to me sometimes because its also one of the major reasons why chicks don't like me.
They see through me like I am transparent. I mean sure I might find someone at a point but its getting rather bothersome to hear
people call me creepy so often.
Maybe also cuz valen day is commin...never really did like that day.
You know I have bought myself a heart box of chocolate already? Not once or twice but THREE TIMES to make the ouchies go away.
Okay, a couple of things.
First, it's not 1940, ditch the trenchcoat and fedora. Your appearance says a lot about who you are, and because humans are such visual creatures if you're conforming to the perceived norms you're going to come off creepy. For example, by wearing a trenchcoat you're saying, "I'm naked under this" or "I have a gun hidden under here." I understand liking black, I wear quite a bit of black as well, but don't wear it exclusively. This ties in to your appearance telling your personality, the females are going to judge you by how you look initially, and if they see all black all the time they think you're boring.
Hygiene and cleanliness are also incredibly important. If you've got long, scraggly hair, cut that stuff. Nothing says creepy like someone with long, unkempt hair in a trenchcoat. People, in general, tend to react better to you when you've got short hair, are well-groomed, and smell good. Nothing is more likely to drive people away than an unfamiliar odor. You don't have to smell bad, but you can smell strange and that would be enough.
If you want girls to like you, be light-hearted, confident, and dismissive. Girls hate to hear about how many problems you have, generally they like to talk about themselves and as the man you're supposed to listen and be supportive as well as solve your problems on your own time. Be confident, even if you don't feel it. I've struggled with this in the past, but it's true that women have a vagina and they don't need another one.
Work on these things. I found the best place to do it is to go out to the bar with a couple friends and talk to people. You don't even have to hit on the women, just talk to them. Become a regular and the bartender will start introducing you and your group to other groups of people, and work it from there.
kharn-the-betrayer wrote:Why do you care what everyone else thinks?
I don't usually. It just gets to me sometimes because its also one of the major reasons why chicks don't like me.
They see through me like I am transparent. I mean sure I might find someone at a point but its getting rather bothersome to hear
people call me creepy so often.
Maybe also cuz valentine day is comin...never really did like that day.
You know I have bought myself a heart box of chocolate already? Not once or twice but THREE TIMES to make the ouchies go away.
At the risk of sounding like Dr.Phil here....
God dammit now I just read that whole post picturing a Oklahoman accent.
kharn-the-betrayer wrote:Why do you care what everyone else thinks?
I don't usually. It just gets to me sometimes because its also one of the major reasons why chicks don't like me.
They see through me like I am transparent. I mean sure I might find someone at a point but its getting rather bothersome to hear
people call me creepy so often.
Maybe also cuz valentine day is comin...never really did like that day.
You know I have bought myself a heart box of chocolate already? Not once or twice but THREE TIMES to make the ouchies go away.
Okay, a couple of things.
First, it's not 1940, ditch the trenchcoat and fedora. Your appearance says a lot about who you are, and because humans are such visual creatures if you're conforming to the perceived norms you're going to come off creepy. For example, by wearing a trenchcoat you're saying, "I'm naked under this" or "I have a gun hidden under here." I understand liking black, I wear quite a bit of black as well, but don't wear it exclusively. This ties in to your appearance telling your personality, the females are going to judge you by how you look initially, and if they see all black all the time they think you're boring.
Hygiene and cleanliness are also incredibly important. If you've got long, scraggly hair, cut that stuff. Nothing says creepy like someone with long, unkempt hair in a trenchcoat. People, in general, tend to react better to you when you've got short hair, are well-groomed, and smell good. Nothing is more likely to drive people away than an unfamiliar odor. You don't have to smell bad, but you can smell strange and that would be enough.
If you want girls to like you, be light-hearted, confident, and dismissive. Girls hate to hear about how many problems you have, generally they like to talk about themselves and as the man you're supposed to listen and be supportive as well as solve your problems on your own time. Be confident, even if you don't feel it. I've struggled with this in the past, but it's true that women have a vagina and they don't need another one.
Work on these things. I found the best place to do it is to go out to the bar with a couple friends and talk to people. You don't even have to hit on the women, just talk to them. Become a regular and the bartender will start introducing you and your group to other groups of people, and work it from there.
Overall I agree with Walrus,particularly on hygiene..shower shower shower...can't stress it enough to some people.
On dress style..Me,personally I'd pass on the Fedora/Trench coat combo,worked for Humphrey Bogart...but not so much now,but if you want to dress "outside the norm" fine...just insure your clothes aren't smelly and look good on you,and keep in mind that certain styles will in some cases "limit" the types of women your going to atract...not always a bad thing.
Still,more than anything...confidence is key.
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
I could pick up a little more on hygiene but for everything else. Thats too much work to make it worth it. As sometimes I do tend to slack off there a bit but.
I am too lazy to keep doing a lot of the suggested crap.
I am too stubborn to give up the stuff I like to wear.
My Friends like me and family likes me. I guess if I am able to make friends than maybe someday a girl...somewhere will eventually like me. feth the resta yall. I give up on this gak.
Vasarto wrote:My Friends like me and family likes me. I guess if I am able to make friends than maybe someday a girl...somewhere will eventually like me. feth the resta yall. I give up on this gak.
See, I think this is where your problem lies.
Drink deeply and lustily from the foamy draught of evil.
W: 1.756 Quadrillion L: 0 D: 2
Haters gon' hate.
FITZZ wrote:
Overall I agree with Walrus,particularly on hygiene..shower shower shower...can't stress it enough to some people.
On dress style..Me,personally I'd pass on the Fedora/Trench coat combo,worked for Humphrey Bogart...but not so much now,but if you want to dress "outside the norm" fine...just insure your clothes aren't smelly and look good on you,and keep in mind that certain styles will in some cases "limit" the types of women your going to atract...not always a bad thing.
Still,more than anything...confidence is key.
Just had to drag the showering in didn't you! way to drive him off on that one!
"But i'm more than just a little curious, how you're planning to go about making your amends, to the dead?" -The Noose-APC
"Little angel go away
Come again some other day
The devil has my ear today
I'll never hear a word you say" Weak and Powerless - APC
I am both selfish and chaotic. I value self-gratification and control; I want to have things my way, preferably now. At best, I'm entertaining and surprising; at worst, I'm hedonistic and violent.
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