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FITZZ wrote: I get your point MR,however I see the issues as a bit different in that the decision to have multiple partners or "deviate from the sexual norm" is viewed in terms of morality,where as the decision to protect yourself from STDs should be viewed (IMO) as just plain common sense.

Oh sure and I was back in the day but it isn't 100% effective and, well, q-tip. Yeowtch.

Da Boss wrote:I wouldn't consider it any more acceptable to be calling men sluts and whores, either.

Of course not, its pretty rude isn't it?

I was pointing out that not preferring a girlfriend with a long list of previous sexual partners isn't inherently misogynistic.

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:For the record I've called myself a slut several times, but you're right. People I meet tend to fall in two categories those who enjoy my stories or those I censor myself around. Even the ones who aren't interested in hearing tend to praise me for my conquests and talk crap about any girls that I mention who get around and I always call them on it. It's pretty stupid.

But when you use it about yourself it's not in a derogatory sense I assume, it's lighthearted. Asherian rather implies that dressing as a schoolgirl and such is at least a bit slutty, just as long as they aren't "completely slutty" in which case "hell no". People shouldn't be throwing terms around like 'slut' and 'whore' to describe the activity of others, it's quite offensive. Certainly they can be applied to men, but usually they are aimed at women.

Tim the Biovore wrote:The whole idea behind women being the sluts, and not men, is that there is the misconcieved idea that women should only be looking after their children while the men go around being heroes by increasing the planet's population. It makes sense to me.

By Jove, I think he's got it!

Considering how often the terms "Nazi" and "Hitler" get thrown around on the intenets, I'm surprised that "slut" strikes such a chord around these parts.

Howard A Treesong wrote:

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:For the record I've called myself a slut several times, but you're right. People I meet tend to fall in two categories those who enjoy my stories or those I censor myself around. Even the ones who aren't interested in hearing tend to praise me for my conquests and talk crap about any girls that I mention who get around and I always call them on it. It's pretty stupid.

But when you use it about yourself it's not in a derogatory sense I assume, it's lighthearted. Asherian rather implies that dressing as a schoolgirl and such is at least a bit slutty, just as long as they aren't "completely slutty" in which case "hell no". People shouldn't be throwing terms around like 'slut' and 'whore' to describe the activity of others, it's quite offensive. Certainly they can be applied to men, but usually they are aimed at women.

Asherian didn't equate dressing up with being slutty. He did seem to suggest that being tied up as a Catholic Schoolgirl as a sexual thrill does raise the question regarding their peculiar (but by no means abhorrent) sexual tendencies. While I don't think it's fair to link such a fetish with being a slut, that sort of behaviour can understandably alarm some people.

BTW, do you think there is ever a circumstance where terms like those can be thrown around? (in a not-so-lighthearted-sense)


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Monster Rain wrote:Considering how often the terms "Nazi" and "Hitler" get thrown around on the intenets, I'm surprised that "slut" strikes such a chord around these parts.

"Hitler was a Nazi Slut!"

"Hey! How dare you call someone's sexuality into question!"

Emperors Faithful wrote:BTW, do you think there is ever a circumstance where terms like those can be thrown around? (in a not-so-lighthearted-sense)

Absolutely not.



Well, maybe.

It's a yes or no question, fool.

Emperors Faithful wrote:BTW, do you think there is ever a circumstance where terms like those can be thrown around? (in a not-so-lighthearted-sense)

Not really, unless you're deliberately aiming to offend a person in which case there are lots of words you could use for all kinds of people. If you're asking whether I would think it ok to describe someone as such for being extremely promiscuous and engaging in high risk activity or whatever extreme example you could come up with then I'd actually find a more constructive way to say it.

Life's too short to try not to offend people; slut it is.

chaplaingrabthar wrote:As long as they put out, who cares about the gender?

You been talkin to Cannerus again?

Well by what I mean by slutty is that the girl sleeps with anyone and doesn't care. Thats what I mean. But apart from that. Bondage girls i'm fine with. But any girl willing to be with me for any amount of time, is my hero. Because who wants to hang out with a guy who literally jumps off cliffs into a lake? And then climbs back up them? I am a definite turn off for most people. Hence why I hate it when someone tells me someone has a crush on me. Because I say your a hacker get off my friends account or the person is trying to undermine my efforts. But anyway Lets get more stories. These are making me laugh a whole lot more than the TV.

Hey man, I know from me personally, I was just ball busting. Your views on anyone, man or woman is not my place other then to give you a hard time for it
Really pick what makes you happy/feel good mate, thats all that matters in the end. Just remember that hookers, although a good idea on paper, will shorten your life by upto 100% depending on how unlucky you are

weird comment i've gotten from a lass

-sorry i'm late, i was out with my neo-nazi friends

Awesome thread man

"You and your family are not normal." -The conversation which was the end of THAT relationship.

A girl once said to one of my friends. "Yeah, uhh, I've been meaning to tell you this, but I really like chicks more than guys..."
End of relationship, as she broke up with him there and then.
When ever a girl says they are lesbo on the bus. I peak my head over the seat and say. "Oh, Really?"

You've heard "I'm a Lesbo" on the bus?

So, I seem to be in a bit of a pickle. I work in a place where everyone is married, but me, and apparently I have three wives who have crushes on me..... One has been pawing my stuff, one is seeking me out at work and then just stands next to me while I work, and the other is pretty normal, I will give her that.

But anyway, the two of them don't seem to know how to take a hint that I AM NOT INTERESTED. I would have thought that a frown on my face when they said "Oh yeah, my husband and I did this", or "Yeah, I am married" would have been a clue...

Damn 19 year old wives..... Why couldn't this have happened back in High School when I had fewer morals and less people where married?

Monster Rain wrote:

You've heard "I'm a Lesbo" on the bus?

Yes I have. It is so funny. And They are hot. But I know they are not lesbos. As they look at my private region every time i talk to them. Perverts. But I'm ok with that.

Slarg232 wrote:So, I seem to be in a bit of a pickle. I work in a place where everyone is married, but me, and apparently I have three wives who have crushes on me..... One has been pawing my stuff...

Pawing your what now?

Mannahnin wrote:

Slarg232 wrote:So, I seem to be in a bit of a pickle. I work in a place where everyone is married, but me, and apparently I have three wives who have crushes on me..... One has been pawing my stuff...

Pawing your what now?

My stuff, not my Stuff. No Capital letter.

Slarg232 wrote:

Mannahnin wrote:

Slarg232 wrote:So, I seem to be in a bit of a pickle. I work in a place where everyone is married, but me, and apparently I have three wives who have crushes on me..... One has been pawing my stuff...

Pawing your what now?

My stuff, not my Stuff. No Capital letter.

Hahaha. Not the way I read it too. I was wondering about your stuff. Like stuff stuff? Like treasures of photos and blocks? Or your lower section jewels>?

Monster Rain wrote:

Emperors Faithful wrote:BTW, do you think there is ever a circumstance where terms like those can be thrown around? (in a not-so-lighthearted-sense)

Absolutely not.



Well, maybe.

Do you have that persons name or pics showing more of her body?

That is Courtney Love, and if you rent the People vs. Larry Flynt you will see all you can handle of her body.

Asherian Command wrote:

Slarg232 wrote:

Mannahnin wrote:

Slarg232 wrote:So, I seem to be in a bit of a pickle. I work in a place where everyone is married, but me, and apparently I have three wives who have crushes on me..... One has been pawing my stuff...

Pawing your what now?

My stuff, not my Stuff. No Capital letter.

Hahaha. Not the way I read it too. I was wondering about your stuff. Like stuff stuff? Like treasures of photos and blocks? Or your lower section jewels>?

Like papers and stuff. I didn't mind much, because A) She is a red head ( ), and B) I didn't know she was married, but whoa-hoh-hoh.

She isn't really a problem, though, it's this other girl. She is kind of on a 3 out of ten on the creepy meter, and beleive me when I say you have to do a LOT to get to even register on my creepy meter.

Slarg232 wrote:

Asherian Command wrote:

Slarg232 wrote:

Mannahnin wrote:

Slarg232 wrote:So, I seem to be in a bit of a pickle. I work in a place where everyone is married, but me, and apparently I have three wives who have crushes on me..... One has been pawing my stuff...

Pawing your what now?

My stuff, not my Stuff. No Capital letter.

Hahaha. Not the way I read it too. I was wondering about your stuff. Like stuff stuff? Like treasures of photos and blocks? Or your lower section jewels>?

Like papers and stuff. I didn't mind much, because A) She is a red head ( ), and B) I didn't know she was married, but whoa-hoh-hoh.

She isn't really a problem, though, it's this other girl. She is kind of on a 3 out of ten on the creepy meter, and beleive me when I say you have to do a LOT to get to even register on my creepy meter.

My Question for everyone on dakkadakka is. Why is it that girls call you creepy? When you say everything that is on the facebook account and you then say. "Please remove that information it could do more harm than good. I don't need to know the story of your life before we start to date."
Anyway Red flags are when people call me Creepy. Because, I am Profiler, its a gift, can tell alot from what people do. But not like Criminal minds good. Like mediacore like I know when someone is angry or sad and has a sad story.

Monster Rain wrote:That is Courtney Love, and if you rent the People vs. Larry Flynt you will see all you can handle of her body.

Yeah, I can imagine someone of the age of 46 having a "not so great" body.

Avatar 720 wrote:Life's too short to try not to offend people; slut it is.

I alike thisa guy, I alike him alot.

Hmm. I sense a common theme here.

"You have pretty eyes, give me your babies"

"Can I have your eyes? I'll put them in a jar next to my bed and look at them before I go to bed every night"

Girls really like my eyes apparently.