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Howard A Treesong wrote:It will be fascinating if RiTides gets a phonecall from Susan. Because my impression is that we are not talking to Susan, and it has yet to be determined if Susan is aware of the use of their identity.

Oh I am very aware. Im Susan. This is seriously crazy. You guys think everyone and anything is Mr Bonder.

Sekai wrote:I'm curious what will happen if sufficient evidence is provided to the contrary of RiTides findings.

Clearly nothing. RiTides made his mind up already. My store is now "linked" to Matt here. A person ive never met nor even know. There is nothing I can do besides what I already agreed to do.

The last thing that I would like to post is that I did business with Lord.Serpius back in the beginning of October, before this thread was started, and before Lord Serpius joined DakkaDakka. Several messages were from Susan, tagged as such. It seems like a long stretch, at least to me knowing that. However, I think the greatest piece of evidence that can be provided to prove her side, outside of a phonecall and picture, would be to get pictures of those Forgeworld Slips up close, to see the name. There would be zero reason for Matt Bonder to use another persons name to order from Forgeworld, at least as far as I can tell.

Cyporiean wrote:

RiTides wrote:
You're ashamed of your appearance as a 57-year old woman...

To be fair, I'm a 28 year old woman who hates her appearance and voice. Its a common thing.

And your a young one too! Men dont understand and never will.

Just Dave wrote:Just two quick pieces of input:

- Lord.Serpius does appear to have much better grammar and manners than Matt usually would/does.

- I've never 'known' (on Dakka) RiTides to be anything but a nice guy, so his intentions here at least are honest.

My grammer isn't the best so his must be horrible. RiTides was being nice at first to me. Agreeing on time lines and such. Then he switched to demanding everything right now when its clear he has made his mind up. With zero evidence.

Morathi's Darkest Sin wrote:I think at this point just seeing via a webcam shot that he's dealing with a woman, driving license or not would help Ritides suspicions.

The sad truth is, it's too easy to say this is the truth on the Net, but a natural doubt has to remain due to the fact a person can type anything they want. Proof being requested is a surprise, even embarrasing to a degree.

However sometimes it is an neccesary evil, although not here on Dakka, due to having a networked PC, myself and Aura (my wife) have had to provide proof that we are seperate people, as we come up as the same IP on forums and it looks like a single user having multiple accounts. It's typically a big no no, but we are happy to clear it up.

I have no idea who you are by the way, but you do sadly seem to have the misfortune of typing in a very similar way to Redstarone, which obviously is concering someone like Ritides even more.

I am more then willing to send more proof and even call RiTides. But he has already made up his mind.

UNCLEBADTOUCH wrote:Is it not possible to contact ebay and papal with this "susans" details and explain your concerns that the accounts are being run on another parties behalf, which is a breach of their terms (with possible money laundering/tax evasion implications so IRS could be interested too) and have them suspend the accounts and let them carry out their own investigations. I'm sure "susan" would be more than happy to help them with their inquiries.

I have to prove to eBay im me each time they increase my limits. Ive done it several times now. Go ahead and call them. They have my number, and see my perfect selling record.

inquisitorlewis wrote:

Alpharius wrote:It is also interesting to note that Matt Bonder is following this thread as seen by his double-quick response to something alarmingrick posted.

Curious that I haven't gotten any emails in months, even though Matt still owes me quite a bit...

Well, not that curious, obviously, but I really would like the Baneblade, 2 Vindicator tanks, 5 Rhino tanks and the set of Space Hulk Terminators back that he still owes me, and has for getting on a few years now...

I actually received a hate mail from Matt a few days ago when I posted a comment about him in this thread. It was within 2 minutes of the posting. I have since blocked his email, and will continue to block all his other email addresses.

Matt doesn't owe you anything but you get an instant email response to a post.

He still owes me close to six hundred dollars and I didnt even get a Christmas card...

It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

Alpharius wrote:

Matt doesn't owe you anything but you get an instant email response to a post.

He still owes me close to six hundred dollars and I didnt even get a Christmas card...

Honestly, for what he did to you, you SHOULD be getting roses, jewelry, and a "Sorry I gave you Internet Crabs" card every year.

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

You need to submit more information when your a business.

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

Yes, I do remember providing all that info to paypal. I don't remember providing it to ebay though. I am not trying to cast doubt. I just don't remember.

Alpharius wrote:

inquisitorlewis wrote:

Alpharius wrote:It is also interesting to note that Matt Bonder is following this thread as seen by his double-quick response to something alarmingrick posted.

Curious that I haven't gotten any emails in months, even though Matt still owes me quite a bit...

Well, not that curious, obviously, but I really would like the Baneblade, 2 Vindicator tanks, 5 Rhino tanks and the set of Space Hulk Terminators back that he still owes me, and has for getting on a few years now...

I actually received a hate mail from Matt a few days ago when I posted a comment about him in this thread. It was within 2 minutes of the posting. I have since blocked his email, and will continue to block all his other email addresses.

Matt doesn't owe you anything but you get an instant email response to a post.

He still owes me close to six hundred dollars and I didnt even get a Christmas card...

Matt and I have a very strong distaste for one another. I would be happy to forward the hate mail to you so you don't feel left out.

Sekai wrote:The last thing that I would like to post is that I did business with Lord.Serpius back in the beginning of October, before this thread was started, and before Lord Serpius joined DakkaDakka. Several messages were from Susan, tagged as such. It seems like a long stretch, at least to me knowing that. However, I think the greatest piece of evidence that can be provided to prove her side, outside of a phonecall and picture, would be to get pictures of those Forgeworld Slips up close, to see the name. There would be zero reason for Matt Bonder to use another persons name to order from Forgeworld, at least as far as I can tell.

Then I would simply be told that I'm still Mr Bonder and that I used an alias for FW. FW doesnt force you to prove anything. The best thing I can do and what i've offered is to simply take a picture of me with my ID and call RiTides tonight. If hes still not happy, so be it.

Lord.Serpius wrote:RiTides was being nice at first to me. Agreeing on time lines and such. Then he switched to demanding everything right now when its clear he has made his mind up. With zero evidence.

From what i've been reading RiTides urgency isn't malicious. He's a nice guy who is trying to help a lot of people who have been very seriously burned by a grimy little scum bag. The only way to conclusively prove that your are Susan, may be uncomfortable but it's surely better than the alternative? Sending RiTides the requested images, as clear as you can get them and calling him reverse charge within the next hour is favourable to being affiliated to one of humanities duds. I'm certain that Tides would keep these pieces of evidence private rather than posting them publicly, Susan. Surely one polite gentleman seeing a couple of pictures of your face isn't so bad? Think of all the people that see you when you got to the shop. I'm sure, as an educated and sensible woman, you can see that resolving this issue quickly is of great benefit to you and also to those people who have been victims of theft.
I mean, the guy isn't a hustler or anything, he's laughable really, but for a victim like Alpharius for example, losing $1000 is a hell of a burn. What i'm saying is it's less of a big to gain a grand than to lose it. You can help these people get one step closer to justice. Please do so. (Okay brace yourself for the geekiness)As Spock said, "the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few or the one." It's called altruism.
Don't be angry at RiTides, he's just trying to help people. Thank you in advance for helping the victims, Susan.

Cyporiean wrote:You need to submit more information when your a business.

Thats why right there.

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

The hold up has already been stated. I sent everything I could right now. Ive said over and over like a broken record I will call RiTides tonight and send a picture of me and my DL thats clear enough to read. I will also include a sheet of paper that says "just for dakkas RiTides"

inquisitorlewis wrote:

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

Yes, I do remember providing all that info to paypal. I don't remember providing it to ebay though. I am not trying to cast doubt. I just don't remember.

I had to when opening more then 1 account with a paypal business account on ebay.



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LostSoulCasey'sLaw wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:RiTides was being nice at first to me. Agreeing on time lines and such. Then he switched to demanding everything right now when its clear he has made his mind up. With zero evidence.

From what i've been reading RiTides urgency isn't malicious. He's a nice guy who is trying to help a lot of people who have been very seriously burned by a grimy little scum bag. The only way to conclusively prove that your are Susan, may be uncomfortable but it's surely better than the alternative? Sending RiTides the requested images, as clear as you can get them and calling him reverse charge within the next hour is favourable to being affiliated to one of humanities duds. I'm certain that Tides would keep these pieces of evidence private rather than posting them publicly, Susan. Surely one polite gentleman seeing a couple of pictures of your face isn't so bad? Think of all the people that see you when you got to the shop. I'm sure, as an educated and sensible woman, you can see that resolving this issue quickly is of great benefit to you and also to those people who have been victims of theft.
I mean, the guy isn't a hustler or anything, he's laughable really, but for a victim like Alpharius for example, losing $1000 is a hell of a burn. What i'm saying is it's less of a big to gain a grand than to lose it. You can help these people get one step closer to justice. Please do so. (Okay brace yourself for the geekiness)As Spock said, "the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few or the one." It's called altruism.
Don't be angry at RiTides, he's just trying to help people. Thank you in advance for helping the victims, Susan.

Thank you for being kind and understanding. I may have thought he wouldnt post it but after he clearly posted something I asked not be posted, my trust for him is gone.

I am still willing to take the picture with my ID and call. But really, whats the point. Everyone has already made up their minds and I've already emailed ebay telling them of this thread and how you people think im a thief because frankly, im worried that people here will attack my store because RiTides here says im Mr Bonder.

Lord.Serpius wrote:

Cyporiean wrote:You need to submit more information when your a business.

Thats why right there.

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

The hold up has already been stated. I sent everything I could right now. Ive said over and over like a broken record I will call RiTides tonight and send a picture of me and my DL thats clear enough to read. I will also include a sheet of paper that says "just for dakkas RiTides"

inquisitorlewis wrote:

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

Yes, I do remember providing all that info to paypal. I don't remember providing it to ebay though. I am not trying to cast doubt. I just don't remember.

I had to when opening more then 1 account with a paypal business account on ebay.

Yeah I have a business account as well. I also have 2 paypals. One in my name, and one in my business name. The personal account I use when I am buying something outside of my business. I still use the same eBay account for buying and selling, I just change the paypal address according to the type of transaction taking place.

inquisitorlewis wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

Cyporiean wrote:You need to submit more information when your a business.

Thats why right there.

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

The hold up has already been stated. I sent everything I could right now. Ive said over and over like a broken record I will call RiTides tonight and send a picture of me and my DL thats clear enough to read. I will also include a sheet of paper that says "just for dakkas RiTides"

inquisitorlewis wrote:

Lt. Coldfire wrote:It seems I missed a lot here in recent times. I'd just like to add that when I signed up for paypal, all I needed was proof of a bank account to get started.

Driver's License, divorce papers, and a Social Security Card sounds a bit over the top, and the Social Security Card itself sounds quite dangerous actually. Has anyone else had to send that in before?

Lord.Serpius, all you have to do is call RiTides. All your excuses are making you look considerably worse. It's unfornuate for an honest person to land in a position such as yours, but that's the hand you're dealt, and when it can be fixed so easily, what's the hold up?

Yes, I do remember providing all that info to paypal. I don't remember providing it to ebay though. I am not trying to cast doubt. I just don't remember.

I had to when opening more then 1 account with a paypal business account on ebay.

Yeah I have a business account as well. I also have 2 paypals. One in my name, and one in my business name. The personal account I use when I am buying something outside of my business. I still use the same eBay account for buying and selling, I just change the paypal address according to the type of transaction taking place.

Ok that's good for you but for me, I still had to send all that stuff in. At this point i've realized anything I say you guys refute. Im done with this thread. Ive contacted ebay and told them of it. I will also call them direct tomorrow and remind them of this thread and how you guys are linking me to someone else and how im worried people here will take RiTides words as proof and attack my store thinking they are attacking Mr Bonder and not a 57 year old woman.

Wow, this went to a... weird place.

And stayed there.

I wasnt calling your setup into question. I actually hope that you can get this cleared up. I think it would be a real shame for your store to suffer because of someone that you are saying you have no connection to. While I am curious as to why those invoices can't be pictured with a full name I am trying to give the benefit of the doubt to you. IMO showing those full invoices would make a hell of a stride towards clearing your name with Rtides and the rest of the community.

Honestly I just wish Matt would also work to clear his name. I am sure a lot of this stuff would go away if he were to make amends.

I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

And after much of proving nothing, she now threatens to leave this thread.

All it takes is a webcam shot, heck if the license is to reflective the. I would gladly take a shot of her holding a couple Forge World bags as long as we can tell she isn't Matt in drag.

For what it is worth, I set up a PayPal account as a non-profit before and all of the proof they required wouldn't have proven anything. You can take pictures of a womans credit card, ID, screen shots, invoices, etc. But without a picture of you all these things are worthless. Do you know why there is a PICTURE on a picture ID? So that you know you are really talking to the owner of that ID. Without a picture of you holding one of your proofs the. We got nothing. I could post every personal piece of anything from my wife, but as soon as I pose in front of the camera with the proof the show is up.

If you would have never replied, things would have probably gone better for you. Walking into Matt's pattern of responding instantly to a post you/he doesn't like is the first flag. We can think what we want, at this point he burden of proof in my mind is on you.

Been lurking in this thread for awhile. I can't help but admit that it is entertaining, although something of this nature should not be considered entertainment, when there are real people posting here who have been scammed. I noticed something over the last few pages that was bothering me and hasn't been pointed out yet.

Lord S. has repeatedly said that she/he can not call right now because she/he has no access to a phone.

Lord S. has used a webcam to take some fuzzy pictures of unreadable invoices, so Lord S. must have access to a computer.

Lord S. has stated a few times, while trying to explain some of her inconsistencies that she is typing on a small touch screen and having problems with it.

So, Lord S., are you posting on your computer? Or on a mobile device with a small touch screen? Or both? And if you are posting on a mobile device with a small touch screen, why can't you use that device to call RiTides?

Ouze wrote:Wow, this went to a... weird place.

And stayed there.

Yea 3 pages already about me and I have nothing to do with any of this. I bet Mr Bonder finds this very amusing.

inquisitorlewis wrote:I wasnt calling your setup into question. I actually hope that you can get this cleared up. I think it would be a real shame for your store to suffer because of someone that you are saying you have no connection to. While I am curious as to why those invoices can't be pictured with a full name I am trying to give the benefit of the doubt to you. IMO showing those full invoices would make a hell of a stride towards clearing your name with Rtides and the rest of the community.

Honestly I just wish Matt would also work to clear his name. I am sure a lot of this stuff would go away if he were to make amends.

I'm willing to show him whatever he wants when I have a real digital camera to take clear pictures as my webcam is CRAP. Clearly it is as the pictures are crap. I'm willing to also call him but like i've said to many times to count. He has already made his mind up even after changing what he wanted several times. Shall I quote the first PM again where it says "fax me tomorrow as that's when I'm at work" ?

Oh yay, ebay already replied back with a number for a supervisor to call tomorrow, directly.

With that, ill finish proving who I am then I'm done with this thread and frankly, this entire area of Dakka now that I know ebay will take care of anyone harassing me based on this thread.



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You people dont read do you?

I was talking to Seki via the phone my son has. My computer here has CABLE. There is no land line here.

Stop trying to call me out on things when all your doing is proving none of you read what I say.

Those crappy pictures of bags and invoices look clear enough to prove you are a woman, just saying.

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Something your average 57 year old woman knows lots about, clearly....

d-usa wrote:Those crappy pictures of bags and invoices look clear enough to prove you are a woman, just saying.

I'm going to say this one last time.

RiTides told me to FAX my ID which I agreed after I offered. Within 30 minutes he wanted me to call, get on cam, hold the ID, prove I dont recast and everything else.

Now you people jump in without even reading half of whats wrote.

So here it is, one last time. I WILL GIVE RITITDES THE PICTURE OF ME AND MY DL AND CALL HIM BUT NOT UNTIL TONIGHT.

If that's not good enough, I simply don't care anymore. Go ahead and attack my character all you want. You people aren't even attacking the right person this entire thread is based on.


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filbert wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Something your average 57 woman knows lots about, clearly....

From my son actually so I can reach our cell if I need to when hes not here.

Do I really have to explain every detail to you people?

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:Those crappy pictures of bags and invoices look clear enough to prove you are a woman, just saying.

If that's not good enough, I simply don't care anymore. Go ahead and attack my character all you want. You people aren't even attacking the right person this entire thread is based on.

I'm pretty sure he was taking the wee, not attacking you (or anyone else).

filbert wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Something your average 57 year old woman knows lots about, clearly....

Especially a woman who states she wouldn't know how to Skype.

d-usa wrote:

filbert wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Something your average 57 year old woman knows lots about, clearly....

Especially a woman who states she wouldn't know how to Skype.

I never said I don't know how to skype. I never said anything about it. Nice try putting words in my mouth.

You people are insane.

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:

filbert wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Something your average 57 year old woman knows lots about, clearly....

Especially a woman who states she wouldn't know how to Skype.

I never said I don't know how to skype. I never said anything about it. Nice try putting words in my mouth.

You people are insane.

You also said you couldn't call without your sons phone, and just now admitted you can call from your computer. So which is it?

Lord.Serpius wrote:

LostSoulCasey'sLaw wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:RiTides was being nice at first to me. Agreeing on time lines and such. Then he switched to demanding everything right now when its clear he has made his mind up. With zero evidence.

From what i've been reading RiTides urgency isn't malicious. He's a nice guy who is trying to help a lot of people who have been very seriously burned by a grimy little scum bag. The only way to conclusively prove that your are Susan, may be uncomfortable but it's surely better than the alternative? Sending RiTides the requested images, as clear as you can get them and calling him reverse charge within the next hour is favourable to being affiliated to one of humanities duds. I'm certain that Tides would keep these pieces of evidence private rather than posting them publicly, Susan. Surely one polite gentleman seeing a couple of pictures of your face isn't so bad? Think of all the people that see you when you got to the shop. I'm sure, as an educated and sensible woman, you can see that resolving this issue quickly is of great benefit to you and also to those people who have been victims of theft.
I mean, the guy isn't a hustler or anything, he's laughable really, but for a victim like Alpharius for example, losing $1000 is a hell of a burn. What i'm saying is it's less of a big to gain a grand than to lose it. You can help these people get one step closer to justice. Please do so. (Okay brace yourself for the geekiness)As Spock said, "the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few or the one." It's called altruism.
Don't be angry at RiTides, he's just trying to help people. Thank you in advance for helping the victims, Susan.

Thank you for being kind and understanding. I may have thought he wouldnt post it but after he clearly posted something I asked not be posted, my trust for him is gone.

I am still willing to take the picture with my ID and call. But really, whats the point. Everyone has already made up their minds and I've already emailed ebay telling them of this thread and how you people think im a thief because frankly, im worried that people here will attack my store because RiTides here says im Mr Bonder.

He definitely wouldn't post something as private as that, the thing he did post i believe to have been a necessary evil. Put yourself in the victims shoes for a second, and RiTides since he is investigating on their behalf. They don't know if you are MB or not. If you are MB and you are trying to keep some 'excuses' out of the public domain then there is a serious risk of crossed wires and underhandedness. Believe you me, i've seen that simple act participate in toppling a small forum. If RiTides isn't certain of the information you will eventually provide he would have to ask someone for clarification, i'm sure the two of you could agree on who that would be, maybe a MOD or even Admin. Overall less people will see you than a short trip to the shops, no one will be judging you either, they'll be professionally scrutinizing the details provided.
Ri Tides, is merely trying to prove you AREN'T the scumbag in question. At which point your name is cleared and the victims get a little bit closer to getting what they are owed. The quicker you can do this the better it is for you and them. My suggestion is to arrange a time very soon when you will call/skype whatever with RiTides and when you will send him the pictures. Once you have proved your not MB, that's it, you may even see a short term boost in popularity to your ebay store since you will have got some publicity.

d-usa wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:

filbert wrote:

Lord.Serpius wrote:

d-usa wrote:I like how Susan stated earlier that she doesn't know how to use fancy technology, then stated that she doesn't need a phone because she can use her computer for calls, then states she can't call after all.

RELAY CALLS. Ever heard of IP relay?

Something your average 57 year old woman knows lots about, clearly....

Especially a woman who states she wouldn't know how to Skype.

I never said I don't know how to skype. I never said anything about it. Nice try putting words in my mouth.

You people are insane.

You also said you couldn't call without your sons phone, and just now admitted you can call from your computer. So which is it?

Are you drunk or high?

IP Relay wouldn't be my voice would it? It wouldn't prove anything to RiTides. IP relay is used to call my son sometimes to tell him to get food or run an errand if hes out. Or simply to say hi.

Lord think before you talk.


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Lord.Serpius wrote:RiTides was being nice at first to me. Agreeing on time lines and such. Then he switched to demanding everything right now when its clear he has made his mind up. With zero evidence.

From what i've been reading RiTides urgency isn't malicious. He's a nice guy who is trying to help a lot of people who have been very seriously burned by a grimy little scum bag. The only way to conclusively prove that your are Susan, may be uncomfortable but it's surely better than the alternative? Sending RiTides the requested images, as clear as you can get them and calling him reverse charge within the next hour is favourable to being affiliated to one of humanities duds. I'm certain that Tides would keep these pieces of evidence private rather than posting them publicly, Susan. Surely one polite gentleman seeing a couple of pictures of your face isn't so bad? Think of all the people that see you when you got to the shop. I'm sure, as an educated and sensible woman, you can see that resolving this issue quickly is of great benefit to you and also to those people who have been victims of theft.
I mean, the guy isn't a hustler or anything, he's laughable really, but for a victim like Alpharius for example, losing $1000 is a hell of a burn. What i'm saying is it's less of a big to gain a grand than to lose it. You can help these people get one step closer to justice. Please do so. (Okay brace yourself for the geekiness)As Spock said, "the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few or the one." It's called altruism.
Don't be angry at RiTides, he's just trying to help people. Thank you in advance for helping the victims, Susan.

I'm not MB and yet im being attacked as if I was.

Ive told RiTides ill call him and to him its not fast enough so that means 'm Mr Bonder to him and what seems like 90% of you.

Thank you for being kind and understanding. I may have thought he wouldnt post it but after he clearly posted something I asked not be posted, my trust for him is gone.

I am still willing to take the picture with my ID and call. But really, whats the point. Everyone has already made up their minds and I've already emailed ebay telling them of this thread and how you people think im a thief because frankly, im worried that people here will attack my store because RiTides here says im Mr Bonder.

He definitely wouldn't post something as private as that, the thing he did post i believe to have been a necessary evil. Put yourself in the victims shoes for a second, and RiTides since he is investigating on their behalf. They don't know if you are MB or not. If you are MB and you are trying to keep some 'excuses' out of the public domain then there is a serious risk of crossed wires and underhandedness. Believe you me, i've seen that simple act participate in toppling a small forum. If RiTides isn't certain of the information you will eventually provide he would have to ask someone for clarification, i'm sure the two of you could agree on who that would be, maybe a MOD or even Admin. Overall less people will see you than a short trip to the shops, no one will be judging you either, they'll be professionally scrutinizing the details provided.
Ri Tides, is merely trying to prove you AREN'T the scumbag in question. At which point your name is cleared and the victims get a little bit closer to getting what they are owed. The quicker you can do this the better it is for you and them. My suggestion is to arrange a time very soon when you will call/skype whatever with RiTides and when you will send him the pictures. Once you have proved your not MB, that's it, you may even see a short term boost in popularity to your ebay store since you will have got some publicity.

I don't think they are attacking your character so much as questioning your identity. I also am quite sure that this can be cleared up. Once it is cleared up I would expect apologies. Nobody is trying to hate on you Susan. They are just concerned you are someone else.

I see clearing this up as a good thing for your business. In the end no publicity is bad publicity. Especially once you show who you are, and that the site made a mistake. I would kill (not literally) to have all these people look at my store link. Especially after showing them that I was completely on the level.

inquisitorlewis wrote:I don't think they are attacking your character so much as questioning your identity. I also am quite sure that this can be cleared up. Once it is cleared up I would expect apologies. Nobody is trying to hate on you Susan. They are just concerned you are someone else.

I see clearing this up as a good thing for your business. In the end no publicity is bad publicity. Especially once you show who you are, and that the site made a mistake. I would kill (not literally) to have all these people look at my store link. Especially after showing them that I was completely on the level.

Exactly.