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Well im just a bit paranoid. Most of the time I can tell if someone is trying to lie to me in one way or another. Anyway we will be running into eachother often enough because of mutual friends, so I want to be sure of whats going on.
But yeah, moving on sounds like a good idea, I didnt loose much besides some self esteem and respect for women.

 Cheesecat wrote:
You should watch "The Birth of a Nation" instead it's a very good dating movie and you can watch it on YouTube in full for free.

AHAHAHAHA

Well played.

Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?








I am turning jealous and bitter. I do not want to be jealous and bitter. When some friend tell me about how thing are going great with his new girlfriend, I want to be happy for him, not jealous and bitter. Thankfully I am pretty good at hiding those feelings too, but still…
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well, it turns out that this girl's boyfriend is a jerk (her words not mine) and she doen't really wnt to be with him.i don't really get that, but what ev's.
also, i fething hate being sick.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?

Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

 Daemonhammer wrote:

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?

Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

Ditto for men, especially on the internet. I don't hold any grudge against men in general for that, though!

 Ashiraya wrote:

 Daemonhammer wrote:

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?

Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

Ditto for men, especially on the internet. I don't hold any grudge against men in general for that, though!

There's only man on the internet, so that's not very strange

 Daemonhammer wrote:

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?

Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

The trick is to stop being naive - don't trust anyone unconditionally. You can only trust people to be themselves.

I don't trust trainwreck to be exclusive with me, because her life is a trainwreck. But, I trust her to follow through when we make plans because I know that she likes hanging out. And I trust her to cook dinner because she's got some culinary skills.

 the shrouded lord wrote:
well, it turns out that this girl's boyfriend is a jerk (her words not mine) and she doen't really wnt to be with him.i don't really get that, but what ev's.
also, i fething hate being sick.

Ah, that old chestnut lol. To be honest, it feels like a cry for attention more than anything. Been there done that.

 NuggzTheNinja wrote:

 Daemonhammer wrote:

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?

Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

The trick is to stop being naive - don't trust anyone unconditionally. You can only trust people to be themselves.

I don't trust trainwreck to be exclusive with me, because her life is a trainwreck. But, I trust her to follow through when we make plans because I know that she likes hanging out. And I trust her to cook dinner because she's got some culinary skills.

Im not naive, atleast I dont consider myself to be. I am pretty paranoid, I trust nobody.

 Daemonhammer wrote:
Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

So? Have you not also been treated very well at time by some other women? And, even considering you never have, given that tons of other people have, would that not tell something about you rather than about half of the world population?

You know, you sound a bit like the guy who says “I have been attacked/racketed twice by Arabs, I am going to be racist for the rest of my life”…

 Ashiraya wrote:
Ditto for men, especially on the internet. I don't hold any grudge against men in general for that, though!

Well, some other men you met on the internet were just so plainly awesome that they amply made up for that, right ?

 Daemonhammer wrote:

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Why would you loose respect for women in general based on what one woman did, in any way?

Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

Just like all black people steal because one persone did it once to my cousin.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:

 Daemonhammer wrote:
Because its not the first time I havent bern treated well by women.

So? Have you not also been treated very well at time by some other women? And, even considering you never have, given that tons of other people have, would that not tell something about you rather than about half of the world population?

You know, you sound a bit like the guy who says “I have been attacked/racketed twice by Arabs, I am going to be racist for the rest of my life”…

I didnt say I lost respect for women altogether, I said I lost some of it. Its not like I think all women are bitches just because I happened to meet a lot of them. Why do I even need to explain this.

And ive met quite a lot of women, more often than not I found they have some character flaws.

On an unrelated note: Fresher's Week this week! Let's see how it goes for me this week.

 Tyranid Horde wrote:
On an unrelated note: Fresher's Week this week! Let's see how it goes for me this week.

Go get em mate haha

Im also off tommorrow to College.
Wish me luck, maybe my roommate has a smoking hot sister with daddy issues

 angelofvengeance wrote:

 Tyranid Horde wrote:
On an unrelated note: Fresher's Week this week! Let's see how it goes for me this week.

Go get em mate haha

But be aware that a lot of them will be pissed as hell, given how freshers weeks normally go. If you're going out with the intention of seeking some form of female company then make sure you're in control of yourself and you're able to tell when the aforementioned company has been consented to, and when any other party might be incapable of giving informed consent. Also be aware of when you might be being put a position where you aren't able to consent to another's advances, and always be sober enough and alert enough to say no.

 Daemonhammer wrote:
And ive met quite a lot of women, more often than not I found they have some character flaws.

Do you mean, like everybody? Or do you know anyone with a flawless character?


I stayed sober basically my whole life and I can confirm it worked perfectly for me not to get into a position where I would not be able to consent .

 Tyranid Horde wrote:
On an unrelated note: Fresher's Week this week! Let's see how it goes for me this week.

Just be sure your warhammer is all boxed up and/or out of sight
(It's hard to explain to drunk people. And even harder to explain to drunk women whom you intend on boning) - YMMV

 Zambro wrote:
Just be sure your warhammer is all boxed up and/or out of sight
(It's hard to explain to drunk people. And even harder to explain to drunk women whom you intend on boning) - YMMV

First of all, don't have sex with drunk people. Remember that "consent" thing that you're supposed to care about?

Second, don't be paranoid about hiding your hobbies. As long as you're a relatively "normal" person nobody is going to care if you have some game models sitting on your desk. It's only going to be an issue if you make it one by awkwardly trying to defend it with things like "it's just a silly game, I don't really care about it anyway" that imply that it's something you're embarrassed about. If you only bring it up if they ask and act like it's just a normal hobby like any other hobby nobody is going to care. And if they do you should just consider yourself lucky that you found out early that they're someone you don't want to have anything to do with.

My thing is "Its a board game I like to play with my buddies"

hotsauceman1 wrote:Im also off tommorrow to College.
Wish me luck, maybe my roommate has a smoking hot sister with daddy issues

Aren't you starting it a bit late?

Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:

 Daemonhammer wrote:
And ive met quite a lot of women, more often than not I found they have some character flaws.

Do you mean, like everybody? Or do you know anyone with a flawless character?


I stayed sober basically my whole life and I can confirm it worked perfectly for me not to get into a position where I would not be able to consent .

Seriously, everyone has character flaws. The men bashing women/women bashing men crap is so excessively overdone at this point.

Today I registered again for climbing this year, but none of my colleagues have. Which is a great occasion to pair with new people is it not ?

 trexmeyer wrote:

hotsauceman1 wrote:Im also off tommorrow to College.
Wish me luck, maybe my roommate has a smoking hot sister with daddy issues

Aren't you starting it a bit late?

California's university and state systems starts later, typically at the end of September.

Yup, and I'm going to hate it I know. I hate this city. Stupid Santa Cruz hippies

When she responds to your SnapChat with a shot of her legs, tells you that she misses you, likes your new haircut, etc, but can't be in a relationship because she's actually in a difficult place in life (she actually is too, it's not a BS excuse...).

That one hurts. Right in the balls.

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Today I registered again for climbing this year, but none of my colleagues have. Which is a great occasion to pair with new people is it not ?

Finally some colleague will try climbing. The new Chinese PhD student. Nice . I will see Friday of next week if she is as good as the Korean girl that I brought to climbing, or as bad as the Romanian one. Likely in between, because damn that Korean girl was good!

 Hybrid Son Of Oxayotl wrote:
Today I registered again for climbing this year, but none of my colleagues have. Which is a great occasion to pair with new people is it not ?

If you're doing wall climbing it certainly is a good excuse to stare at someones' arse.

why is your avatar dr.cox?

Two reasons, firstly I like dr cox and every time i watch this gif it makes me laugh, secondly sometimes I'm a bit of a cox