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Melissia wrote:I'm sure.

But I can't even stand beer, even the supposedly "good" beers that people on this forum recommend are just nasty pisswater. Or wine for that matter, which is slightly better tahn beer but I still can't stand its taste much.

Ineptus agrees with this statement. He hates alcohol to hell and back. and then back to hell again. (it tastes awful)

Melissia wrote:As well as that... I'm a nerd. A total nerd, probably nerdier than hafl the people on this forum and that's saying something given that this is a wargaming forum.

Party girl just isn't me.

no one is nerdier than Ineptus! No one! he even refers to himself in third person!

Coolyo294 wrote:

corpsesarefun wrote:I'm loving than cannerus slipped his name into the title, like the whole thread is a book of some kind

Or a perfume/cologne.

Ineptus just had the entire commercial play through his head...


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Chowderhead wrote:

Radiation wrote:I'm going to put on my Spiderman costume and see if I can find Catwomen or a Vampire Lady. All weekend.

I'm the Joker. The only action I'll be getting is 400 pound Batmen running up to me and screaming "I'M BATMAN!" Then running shuffling off.

Ineptus will be going as a guy not going at all...*sob* we have no halloween here...

MrDwhitey wrote:

corpsesarefun wrote:It is fair enough to be honest, some people aren't that into sex just like some people aren't really into food.

I make a LOT of comparisons between sex and eating, is that bad?

Not really, both are pretty much the most pleasurable things ever (well, I certainly know food is ).

Also, looking this up enlightened me to

"Bikini bottom made out of edible candy beads"

Do't you dare eat Spongebob's town.



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Slarg232 wrote:I am a straight male, but due to my manner, most people think I'm homosexual, as I am not afraid of jokingly saying "I was abusive because it called me fat" or something like that. As for my stance on homosexual people, I honestly don't care about it unless he starts hitting on me, after which I have a problem.


I don't care if your humping a man, woman, or goat, as long as the other party is willing and your not trying to involve me in any sort of way.

This makes Ineptus wonder.


if it as a female human and a male (inert animal) is that consensual? (Note: Ineptus is just curious)


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WARORK93 wrote:Huh...I looked at the title of this thread and expected it to be locked by now...fething miracles...

I'm straight male...in the...forgive me I'm trying to find a categorization that wont be taken the wrong way...(hurr hurr... )

Traditional sense? I guess...

Homosexuality...not a fan...if you wanted me to be really honest it just seems unnatural to me...but I wont judge you for being so, I wont walk up to you and say its wrong, if that's who you are then more power to you...I know plenty of friends who roll that way and I don't have a problem with them as long as they respect me as well...

So pretty much what others have said...don't have a problem with it but keep it off my lawn please...

same here on that fact. I have to say it is a bit, well, strange and unnatural, possibly a bit disgusting in my point of view. but if whoever is this just keeps it in their house and does not flaunt it to the world, no problems.

ITT: Homophobic people not admitting their true feelings on homosexuality. 00shotty00 also described Homosexuality as "strange" and "unnatural"...keep that in mind.

Pretty damn funny, actually. That if someone likes dick instead of vagina, you can no longer interact with them socially.

ineptus astartes wrote:I have to say it is a bit, well, strange and unnatural, possibly a bit disgusting in my point of view. but if whoever is this just keeps it in their house and does not flaunt it to the world, no problems.

Do heterosexual people keep it in their homes or to they 'flaunt' it? Given the number of straight couples draped over each other in public and sometimes quite overtly making out I would say that in general they are easily worse for public displays.

Howard A Treesong wrote: or to they 'flaunt' it?

I try not to but my aura of masculinity is so great that it cannot be helped most of the time.

Howard A Treesong wrote:

WARORK93 wrote:Homosexuality...not a fan...if you wanted me to be really honest it just seems unnatural to me...

Better remember that next time you get in a plane or wear clothes then, unless you know what natural behaviour actually is.

Never flown on a plane...

you got me on the clothes thing though...

furthermore, the perception of what the word "natural" and "unnatural" varies on its meaning from person to person...sorry mine's different than yours

But perhaps the way I worded it was wrong, if I'm truly honest I would say that when I think about the subject it makes me grimace and think something along the lines of "that's not right"

I can't help that, its something I've tried to change about myself based on the many friends I've had that were homosexual or bisexual, I've seen and felt their pain when they were ostracized by the rest of my highschool, hell, I was sexually awkard for the first half of high school and knowing most American teenagers' cruelty, I was thrown into the "cigarette" category of their consideration that didn't end until I had the guts to get a girlfriend in senior year...

What I'm trying to say is that I'm sorry I feel that way about the subject but I just do.

What is and what isn't natural is not subjective.

Flying and clothes? using and internet forum? Pretty unnatural.

However homosexuality is pretty common in nature, many species practise it.

Melissia wrote:

Lord Rogukiel wrote:I'm a straight male too. One of my good friends is Bi (she's a girl), and I'm ok with the homosexuality stuff, especially for women.

But I can't stand gay guys

Yeah, a lot of guys are hypocrites like that...

Me a hypocrite please.
Gay people are awesome they tell me how to look better and attract the attention to my speaking.

Then Bi-girls I am fine with.

Bi-guys, as long as he is not interested in any of my friends I am fine with it.

Gay girls I support fully.

Mostly because I read the demographic of how many gay guys commit suicide at high schools which is pretty damn high. Why would I want to be responsible for something like that? I say to people that are gay don't be afraid, guys at this school will always be bastards so you need to be the better man and ignore them and just have fun in high school. ^.^ my advice to all gay people.

Asherian Command wrote:

Melissia wrote:

Lord Rogukiel wrote:I'm a straight male too. One of my good friends is Bi (she's a girl), and I'm ok with the homosexuality stuff, especially for women.

But I can't stand gay guys

Yeah, a lot of guys are hypocrites like that...

Me a hypocrite please.
Gay people are awesome they tell me how to look better and attract the attention to my speaking.

Then Bi-girls I am fine with.

Bi-guys, as long as he is not interested in any of my friends I am fine with it.

Gay girls I support fully.

Mostly because I read the demographic of how many gay guys commit suicide at high schools which is pretty damn high. Why would I want to be responsible for something like that? I say to people that are gay don't be afraid, guys at this school will always be bastards so you need to be the better man and ignore them and just have fun in high school. ^.^ my advice to all gay people.

Hang on...
If a bi-guy is interested in one of your friends you automatically hate him?

Yep, just like if a bi-girl fancies one of your female friends you hate her.

Then don't say "But I can't stand gay guys" if you don't want to seem like a hypocrite. Careful with your words...

Someone said o0shotty0o, my mortal enemy?

*Looks at Ineptus*

corpsesarefun wrote:Yep, just like if a bi-girl fancies one of your female friends you hate her.

Actually yeah. I don't like seeing my friends dating each other. Unless If I know they are wanting to, plus there is a strict christian in my group. Who basically says "THIS IS THE DEVILS WORK!"
And then I start to hate him and the people that started him to do that. Sometimes I like punching the bastard in the face, but that is the only reason why I hate having my friends date each other as sometimes a bad break sometimes breaks up a group. Happened with some other groups over time. It happens. No.1 rule of dating never date your friends friend. as the girl will take him as a friend and you lose a friend common sense.


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Chowderhead wrote:Someone said o0shotty0o, my mortal enemy?

*Looks at Ineptus*

meh.
Its okay.
I am here.

Yeah but you can hardly forbid your friends to date, it's their life really

Amphsix wrote:Then don't say "But I can't stand gay guys" if you don't want to seem like a hypocrite. Careful with your words...

I am being careful
I love gay people, just don't date my friends if you are one of my friends as it causes friction in the group.

Amphsix wrote:Yeah but you can hardly forbid your friends to date, it's their life really

You can suggest, and give context to their suggestions.

Amphsix wrote:Yeah but you can hardly forbid your friends to date, it's their life really

Yeah but they all know that it causes friction in the group, we did have a successfully dating in our group. But thats like 15% of us. the other 85% of us have dated other girls because we all want to stay friends. So we all fear for our friendships.

Asherian Command wrote:

corpsesarefun wrote:Yep, just like if a bi-girl fancies one of your female friends you hate her.

Actually yeah. I don't like seeing my friends dating each other. Unless If I know they are wanting to, plus there is a strict christian in my group. Who basically says "THIS IS THE DEVILS WORK!"
And then I start to hate him and the people that started him to do that. Sometimes I like punching the bastard in the face, but that is the only reason why I hate having my friends date each other as sometimes a bad break sometimes breaks up a group. Happened with some other groups over time. It happens. No.1 rule of dating never date your friends friend. as the girl will take him as a friend and you lose a friend common sense.

This post makes very little sense.

Made little sense to me either.

Thirded

purplefood wrote:

Asherian Command wrote:

corpsesarefun wrote:Yep, just like if a bi-girl fancies one of your female friends you hate her.

Actually yeah. I don't like seeing my friends dating each other. Unless If I know they are wanting to, plus there is a strict christian in my group. Who basically says "THIS IS THE DEVILS WORK!"
And then I start to hate him and the people that started him to do that. Sometimes I like punching the bastard in the face, but that is the only reason why I hate having my friends date each other as sometimes a bad break sometimes breaks up a group. Happened with some other groups over time. It happens. No.1 rule of dating never date your friends friend. as the girl will take him as a friend and you lose a friend common sense.

This post makes very little sense.

How may I ask?
Having a Radical Christian, a Radical Mormon, and a Radical Atheist in my group they all fight each other over other things and 2 of them hate gays and the other one is fine with them.

Though my question is why are we even friends with him

My group is confusing. We aren't all nerds. We have conflicts, around 90 of us in total

Friction is caused by people dating their friends which is a nono. I rather have a girl that is a friend than a Girlfriend, espeically if, I hardly have the time


Okay as everyone couldn't make sense of it here we go....


You like a girl but she is your best friend, your friends don't want you to date your best friend because they say you need to keep as a friend and nothing else. You like her but against your friends wishes you try and date her. Before hand she had made up her mind and didn't want to date you. You try and ask her out. She says no saying you already know too much and she wants to keep you as a really good friend.

She then dates one of your friends. Rivalry begins. People in the group start to take sides. Group is seperated by this issue. Civil war basically begins.

After many months of trying one of your good friends basically says "Gak this, Okay this is stupid okay everyone, lets all make-up and deal with this stupidity." Then the group is reformed but group is a little fractured.

What, 90 people? that's not a group. that's a society.

I still stand by my opinion that you shouldn't let others pressure you into not starting a relationship with a friend if you really want to. The only people I ever fell in love with were friends, because there's an underlying connection already.

Sorry but there are 90 people who you expect not to date eachother at all?

You are mental.

Date freely is you think it will work out. if it doesn't, you gotta be a grown up and just handle it in a mature way. It would be silly to let little squabbles sit in ther way

corpsesarefun wrote:Sorry but there are 90 people who you expect not to date eachother at all?

You are mental.

We have 1,000 kids in my grade alone. O.O
It may be a society but is a group of people that see everything differently.
Plus I am in several groups and dating your friends is a big nonono.

Though in my inner ciricle of friends I have told them no dating each other. I am fine with outside people but the inner circle that we have is to important to jepordize our opinions. Plus there's like 8 of us, 2 really cute girls with an actual brain, and 6 guys. It just matters on two friends that are dating. As I said if I know they want to date each other for so long, then go ahead its not my problem its just group separation is the worst. Of Course i am a teenager so what do i Know.

Pff. your view is really quite unbelievable... oh well.

Asherian Command wrote:

corpsesarefun wrote:Sorry but there are 90 people who you expect not to date eachother at all?

You are mental.

We have 1,000 kids in my grade alone. O.O
It may be a society but is a group of people that see everything differently.
Plus I am in several groups and dating your friends is a big nonono.

It's different for my group...
If both people are willing then it's fine.
Though you have to be prepared for lots of innuendo and jokes.

Cannerus_The_Unbearable wrote:

Clthomps wrote:Did you know the later you are in a line of siblings the more likely you are to be LGBT? Its something like 17% increase in the third child and later.

I need the source for this because I find it very intriguing.

Here is the wiki, if you check the links at the bottom you can find some good scientific data.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male_sexual_orientation

Asherian Command wrote:

Friction is caused by people dating their friends which is a nono. :

That's simply not always the case, it really depends on the mindset of the " friends" in question...
I've dated several of my friends at one time or other, known a lot of FWB...and never encountered any " group destroying friction"....if a situation isn't seen as a problem...then it seldom becomes a problem.

....I also find the " so long as they don't hit on me...I don't have a problem" frame of mind displayed by some of the posters here concerning gay men somewhat amusing...it just makes no sense to me that someone, unless their very confused about their own orientations, would have a problem if some one of the same sex approached them for a date ( whatever)...a simple " I'm flatered ..but I'm straight" is all that is needed in this situation.

corpsesarefun wrote:However homosexuality is pretty common in nature, many species practice it.

Okay then lets look at this from a scientific standpoint...

Many animals can reproduce asexually in nature...humans, naturally, cannot...

According to your implication, there are some animals which can reproduce homosexually...humans, naturally, cannot.

Take away all modern, societal, whatever contexts for humanity and get back to the basics and what you are left with is humans while they were still becoming the apex predator of the earth; a caveman, neanderthal, whatever...that's as natural as you get; the concept of evolution and natural selection.

Now do you think from an evolutionary perspective that a human is going to pick a mate of the same sex? No, it will pick one of the different sex because that's how they reproduce, that's how bloodlines are formed, that's how the species survives, the ones that pick a same sex partner will die off and their genes will not be passed on. Therefore from a natural selection viewpoint, homosexuality is not natural...

This is not the end all of arguments, just a theory...please wont somebody come up and prove me wrong? Give me a reason to believe otherwise...

purplefood wrote:

Asherian Command wrote:

corpsesarefun wrote:Sorry but there are 90 people who you expect not to date eachother at all?

You are mental.

We have 1,000 kids in my grade alone. O.O
It may be a society but is a group of people that see everything differently.
Plus I am in several groups and dating your friends is a big nonono.

It's different for my group...
If both people are willing then it's fine.
Though you have to be prepared for lots of innuendo and jokes.

read the edit. I am fine with my friends dating, but I won't personally date my friends, and I will make jokes about them. I don't control them the girls in the group control me XD

That's simply not always the case, it really depends on the mindset of the " friends" in question...
I've dated several of my friends at one time or other, known a lot of FWB...and never encountered any " group destroying friction"....if a situation isn't seen as a problem...then it seldom becomes a problem.

....I also find the " so long as they don't hit on me...I don't have a problem" frame of mind displayed by some of the posters here concerning gay men somewhat amusing...it just makes no sense to me that someone, unless their very confused about their own orientations, would have a problem if some one of the same sex approached them for a date ( whatever)...a simple " I'm flatered ..but I'm straight" is all that is needed in this situation.

true but it has been in the case many other groups. What makes us different? Because we are highly intelligent and talented people?
I am fine with anyone hitting on me actually makes me feel better to be honest. I then tell them I am actually straight not gay and that in order to prove it I do something stupid with the opposite sex. Just my frame of mind and also because everytime, i feel like redeeming myself in some really way to punishing ways.
Hence why my parents don't want to punish me, ever since I punish myself for my own failures.